1. Actually, you can't win an argument. If you lose, you lose. Even if you win, you lose. What's the reason? Even if you hit the other person, you may feel wronged at that time, but because you forced him to be inferior to you and hurt his self-esteem, you caused him a lifelong resentment against you.

The trick to communicate with others is to talk about the happiest things of others.

3. People who have made great achievements are mostly people who still work hard in the seemingly hopeless situation.

The biggest difference between winners and losers is that winners will try to benefit from failure and then try other methods.

If you don't succeed, don't give up. Most successful people have this belief. You know, setbacks are inevitable. What matters is how to overcome them. Persevere and overcome setbacks, and the world is at your feet.

6. If you change your mind, you can change your life.

7. If you are really interested in others, I believe you will make many friends in two months; In two years, your friends will definitely attract more than you want. Simply put, another way to make friends is to make yourself a friend of others.

8. Taking a person's name seriously means giving him a compliment, which shows that he has impressed you deeply. Remember other people's names and make them feel important.

9. Make a person smile from the heart, indicating that your friendship with him has begun. People who are willing to laugh at you like you more or less, at least they won't exclude you.

10. Don't miss any opportunity to do good. Think about what it means to you every day. You may not understand all the meanings, but at least, if you help others, it is a friendly gesture, and others will at least return some kindness.

1 1. Having an appointment with someone means that you have gained a little trust from others. If you can't keep your promise, you will take it away from each other without telling them. Of course, you will steal his time, something he can't get back after losing it, and you will lose his trust in you.

12. The most important qualities of human beings are not executive ability, great mind, kindness, courage and sense of humor, although these are extremely important. I personally think the most important thing is the ability to make friends. To say its essence is actually the ability to appreciate the advantages of others.

13. We should be modest, because you and I are both mortal. Maybe in a hundred years, you and I will be completely forgotten. Life is too short for us to bore others with our small achievements. Let's encourage others to talk more!

14. Many times, we just need a look, a tone and a gesture to tell others that he is wrong. But can you get his praise by telling him you are wrong? Absolutely impossible! Because your performance is tantamount to denying his knowledge, judgment and sense of honor, which will arouse his anger, but will not make him change his mind. You can talk to him about Plato's rational view or the immortal Kant, but you can't change his view because you hurt his feelings and self-esteem.

15. Let's remember the person we talked to, because he is more interested in himself, his needs and his problems than us and our problems. Even if millions of people died in Africa because of famine, it is not as important as his toothache. A sarcoma on his neck will attract more attention than the Asian earthquake. Every time you start a conversation with someone, you can think about this first.

16. There is only one way to get others to do things. Do you know what this is? Yes, there is only one way, and that is to make him want to do it. record

17. Of course, pointing a revolver at someone's head can also make him hand over money; The boss can also threaten employees to cooperate with you by firing them, but only if you can see them; A whip can also send children at will. Although these methods can work, these coercive measures will only cause a stronger rebound.

18. Letting others get what they want is the only way we can get them to do things voluntarily.

19. Why don't we change others by training dogs' common sense? Why not change the whip into pieces of meat? Why not praise instead of punishment? Even if his progress is small, we should praise him, so as to motivate the other party to continue to make progress.

20. It's easy to make others happy. Just say a few words of sincere thanks to lonely and discouraged people. Maybe what you say today will be forgotten tomorrow, but the receiver will cherish his life.

2 1. If you want others to hate you and make them remember your bad habits all their lives, we just need to say a few harsh words to him, whether what you say is reasonable or not.

22. When getting along with others, remember that not all people are rational. We are dealing with a person full of emotions and prejudice. Only by giving him dignity and face can he move his heart.

23. Once the marriage breaks down, try this: write down all the advantages of your spouse, list the characteristics you find difficult to get along with next to the advantages, and then compare them. You may find something unexpected.

24. Don't let hatred fill your heart. Don't be afraid to give in when you meet others, because only small people always insist on their own opinions to safeguard their dignity; Only those who are willing to reach out and apologize and offer to start over can be called magnanimous people.

If you can spend a day being generous and compassionate to others, you can certainly continue to do so. You won't lose anything by doing so. Why not start now?

26. Forget yourself for a while and start to be interested in others! Do something that makes others laugh every day.

27. In an argument, you can get the greatest benefit only by avoiding it, because avoiding it is just like avoiding snakes or scorpions or earthquakes.

28. Many disputes can only make both sides insist that they are right.

If we have accepted the worst, we have nothing to lose.

30. A cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides cautious habits: agility and not following the crowd.

3 1. moving towards a certain goal? Pool? Never give up halfway? Gas? What do these two add up to? Ambition? . This is the success or failure of all undertakings.

If you want to make friends, you must first do something for others that requires time, energy, care and dedication.

33. Private property, the law of wealth accumulation and the law of competition are all the highest achievements of human experience and the soil that has produced the best fruits in society so far.

Anyone who doesn't care about others will inevitably encounter great difficulties in his life and cause great harm to others. It is this kind of person who has caused all kinds of human mistakes.

The principle of caring for others, like other interpersonal relationships, must be based on sincerity. This should be true not only for those who care, but also for those who accept care.

Actions speak louder than words. Smiling at people means showing people: "I like you, you make me happy, and I like to see you."

Everyone in the world is looking for happiness, but there is only one effective way, and that is to control their own thoughts. Happiness depends not on external conditions, but on internal conditions.

38. Actions seem to follow your heart, but they are not. Action and emotion are parallel. We can make actions that are directly controlled by the will regular, or indirectly make actions that are not directly controlled by the will regular.

39. A simple, obvious and most important way to get a good impression is to remember other people's names and make them feel important.

40. Most people can't remember other people's names just because they don't have the necessary effort and energy to remember them. They make excuses for themselves: they are too busy.

4 1. People who are always critical, even the fiercest critics, will soften and give in before a patient and compassionate audience.

42. If you want to be a good talker, you must first be a person who pays tribute and listens.

43. If you want others to like you, if you want others to be interested in you, you should pay attention to one thing: talk about things that others are interested in.

44. In real life, some people have communication barriers because they don't understand and forget an important principle: making others feel important.

45. The deepest driving force in human nature is the importance of hope. Treat others as you want them to treat you.

46. My motto is: first of all, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, specialization.

47. A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never achieve great things. record

48. Work as comfortably as possible. Remember, physical stress can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.

49. If you can be modest on the road of life, you can be broad-minded, overcome all difficulties and get rid of all entanglements.

50. Life is like a stage. If you just talk about one thing, you can't move people's hearts.

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