Tu Lei once served as the love mentor of "Defense of Love". He said many classic words on the show, including about life and relationships. Although the show is not very similar to today's variety shows, it was still quite popular back then and many people liked to watch it. Teacher Tu Lei also became popular on the Internet because of some of the things he said. Most of these words teach people how to deal with feelings, which is in line with the standards of the program. 1. If you have not experienced lovelorn, you will not understand love

This sentence is very realistic. If you have not experienced lovelorn, it will be difficult to understand love. Although there are many people whose first love comes to an end, there are too few such people. Many people learn how to love others and how to take care of their families only after experiencing a relationship. The second half of this sentence is "Unfrustrated, you don't understand life". Feelings are very similar to life. If you haven't experienced it, you will never know what it feels like. Only those who have experienced frustration are qualified to talk about success and are qualified to be called successful people. 2. Marriage is responsibility

I think Teacher Tu Lei has a saying that is particularly classic. It probably means that marriage is responsibility and should bring happiness. Even if it occasionally brings pressure, it still feels happy. If not, you should give up on this relationship. Marriage determines the rest of your life. Whether you are happy or cry, it all depends on your choice. Now you are free to fall in love and get married. If you encounter a relationship that you are not satisfied with, you can choose to divorce at any time. We can't choose our family of origin, but we can choose the family we want to form. It's not worth spending your whole life in an unhappy marriage. 3. Don’t have too high demands on the people around you

Tu Lei once said: Don’t have too high demands on the people around you unless they cherish your severity. This sentence makes sense. If the other person doesn't know how to cherish it, and you keep demanding strict demands on the other person, you will only get disappointment. The higher your expectations, the greater the disappointment. Only when you meet the right person will your expectations become valuable.