1. Don’t rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When separation comes, what you lose is not a person, but your spiritual support. Being independent will make you walk more calmly.

2. Don’t live too hard, don’t be too busy, and don’t be too tired; don’t think it’s too expensive when you want to eat, don’t say it’s wasteful when you want to wear something; hang out with friends when you’re upset, and fall asleep when you’re sleepy. A peaceful mind is the most beautiful, and it is only right to be happy every day.

3. Humans should learn from animals: get enough sleep and sleep when you want; eat in moderation and only eat when you are hungry; exercise every day; never worry about yesterday or tomorrow. Worry about things.

4. Learn to bend down and accommodate, accept everything, and you will get everything. There is no need to do anything, and your heart is as tranquil as flowing water and clouds, and you enjoy what you have. Only in this way can life be real. We also need this attitude towards life in our life and work.

5. These days, being low-key is the greatest way to show off. Keeping a low profile can make you safe. Showing off happiness can easily arouse jealousy, and it can also be counterproductive. If something changes one day, it will be difficult for me to step down. Just like "Happiness and pain are neighbors. If happiness is too loud, it will disturb pain, but if pain is too loud, it will not disturb happiness, because pain is deaf." Similarly, if happiness is exposed too early, it is easy to disturb misfortune.

6. In this world, some people will tell you from time to time that you are not good enough. Sometimes they may be right, but don't do the job they ask you to do, try to find some other jobs, try to ask some people outside the circle, pursue your own goals, when they say "no" to you , don’t take it too seriously, maybe they themselves are not qualified to say “yes”.

7. Desire is the most incredible thing in the world and the most difficult to choose: you don’t want to possess it, your pocket is empty, but you are as light as a swallow, free and unfettered; you possess it, the senses Enjoyment squeezes the body and mind, making you carry a heavy burden to move forward. You become worried about gains and losses, and you have to pay the price for the joy you get from time to time. In fact, the extra things are not yours in the end, just like a monkey entering a cornfield, it will come out the same as when it first entered, just two corns.

8. Sometimes you need to take detours because you don’t want to embarrass yourself; sometimes you need to take a straight path because you want to strengthen yourself. Straight or curved, it’s all about being kind to yourself!

9. Sometimes, be more restrained on yourself and lose your temper less; be more tolerant of others and take a step back to make the world brighter. The world around us is often wiser and more tolerant than we imagine.

10. When a person faces the outside world, he needs a window; when a person faces himself, he needs a mirror. You can see the brightness of the world through the window, and you can see your own stains through the mirror. In fact, windows or mirrors are not important, what is important is your heart. If your heart is bright, the world will be bright; if your heart is like a window, you will see the world; if your heart is like a mirror, you will see yourself.

11. We will eventually miss some people in our lives. We should be grateful to those who have missed us. They make us understand the preciousness of happiness. Don't believe that what should be yours will eventually be yours. If you don't fight for it or grasp it, you will never have a chance. What is fate? Fate gives you an opportunity. Happiness depends on striving for it.

12. What should I do if I don’t have enough time and my work affects my life? Use the time at work to do things, the time to work overtime for appointments, the time to stay up late to go to bed early, the time to get up early to have breakfast, use the time to procrastinate to take action, and use the inefficient time to be efficient. Use Weibo time for chatting, use weekend time for leisure, and use time with others to spend time with your parents. In this way, you can have a slow life in 30 hours a week.

13. I am born with talents that will be useful. The size of a person's ability is not entirely determined by the size of success. It depends on your perseverance and never giving up in the process of exerting your ability and tapping your potential. Spirit, of course, the premise is that you must be confident, discover your potential, and do your best to complete it just like Bullock.

14. It’s the same B. Going north is NB and going south is SB, so the direction of life is very important.

Secondly, you have to live according to what you want, rather than life controlling your thoughts.

15. Life sometimes feels like a toss-up. Just like swimming in water, you can move forward bravely, but you won't be able to go very far, and you will encounter too much resistance; you can also take it step by step, taking a leisurely pace, seeming to be a little behind, but it is still normal; you can also choose to be in a position that society allows. Float freely within the frame, leave all worries behind, be at peace with the situation, and be at ease. In short, you can choose to do something or not. Whether you are happy or not depends on you!

16. We are often afraid of this or that, dare not face it, and always want to escape. Many times it is because we have not understood the truth about reincarnation. If you understand it, you won't be so afraid, and you will gain a kind of happiness and peace in your heart. We do not want to escape, but to face; when we dare to face and bear, we will have no fear and no terror. If there is no fear or fear, no worry about gain or loss, then there will be no worries and pain.

17. Each of us is like a clown, playing with five balls. The five balls are your work, health, family, friends and soul. Only one of these five balls is made of rubber. If it falls, it will bounce back. That is the job. The other four balls are made of glass and will break if dropped. This passage is worthy of our deep thought...

18. Life needs to be in tune, keep a low profile in life, do things in tune, take a healthy pace, hum a happy tune, keep happiness in a high profile, and blessings are the most stylish. , I wish you happiness and not out of tune!

19. Life often plays a joke on us. What you expect will be further away from you; whoever you cling to will be hurt the most. Therefore, you don’t have to expect too much when doing things, and you don’t have to be too persistent when persisting; you must learn to let go, let go of unrealistic expectations, and let go of fruitless attachments. Therefore, you should be open-minded and see-through about everything. Everything is being lost and nothing can be retained. Only the joy and happiness of the moment are the most powerful.

20. If we don’t have the desire to pursue deliberately, we won’t care about other people’s eyes, and we don’t have to try to please against our will, and life will naturally be much easier. So don't be a slave to desire, otherwise you will never be able to calm down. And some people are the best at peeking into other people's minds and taking advantage of other people's desires and desires to achieve their own ulterior motives. If you don't want to let this kind of person lead you by the nose, you must learn to let go of the bad desires in your heart. If you have no desires, you will be strong!

21. The maturity of any soul must go through the baptism and tempering of loneliness. Those lonely and lonely days are also the best time for us to understand ourselves and accumulate strength. Loneliness does not matter, what matters is whether you can endure loneliness; loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is that you are decadent and depressed in the embrace of loneliness. When loneliness and loneliness surround you, never forget that there is still a soul accompanying you.

22. There are three things that people should not squander: body, money and love. If you want to squander it, you will end up losing more than you gain; there are three things that people cannot save: life, time and love, if you want to save it, but you won’t. Fading away; there are three things that people should not remember: disaster, death and love. You want to remember, but it is miserable.

23. Life is like a rope, always leading us by the nose. In order to survive, we endure, shrink, distort and even betray ourselves. Don't think this is normal. Many times the things we are used to secretly change our personality. It is not life that determines what we do, but what we do determines what kind of life we ??want to live. If you carry your life on your shoulders, it will always be your burden.

24. I want to embrace my dream, but it is out of reach. I want to embrace the memory, but it turns into a bird and flies away in my arms. People always pursue their dreams under the sun, but recall the past in dim lights.

25. You can’t go back to the past in life. The only thing that can go back is the memory that exists in your heart. So don’t dwell on the past. Failure allows us to gain experience, and success allows us to regain confidence. As long as you keep moving forward, you will gain a lot.

26. When I was wrestling as a child, I would always look to see if there was anyone around me. If there was anyone, I would cry. If not, I would get up. When I grow up, when I encounter something unhappy, I would also look to see if there is anyone around me. Get up and cry if you don’t.

27. Learn to love yourself. None of us are perfect, but we must accept our imperfect selves. Give yourself comfort when you are lonely; give yourself warmth when you are lonely. Learn to be independent, say goodbye to dependence, and say goodbye to your weak self. Life is not only about warmth, and the road of life will not always be smooth, but as long as you have confidence in yourself, know your own value, and know how to cherish yourself, you can face all the imperfections in the world calmly.

28. When you are with sunny people, your heart will not be gloomy; when you are with wise people, you will not be confused when things happen; when you are with happy people, you will always have a smile on your lips. May you smile brightly and be in a charming mood!

29. Pretend to be strong, because you don’t want people to see tears; pretend to be happy, because you don’t want people to know your loneliness; pretend to be happy, because you don’t want people to see wounds; pretend to be sweet, because you don’t want people to see tears; Pretend to be relaxed because you don’t want people to see you sad; pretend to be happy because you don’t want people to see scars; pretend to be mature because you don’t want people to see ignorance; pretend to be smart because you don’t want people to see failure; pretend to be happy because you don’t want people to see you fail. Get out of loneliness!

30. People are not afraid of confusion, but they are afraid of stagnating without a sense of confusion. Keep at it, the more confused you are, the less likely you are to give up. The longer you are confused, the greater the possibility of finding your direction. Many successes in life often come during the most difficult times. It’s also a good thing to feel confused. Only by moving forward can you get lost. Being confused in life means that you are exploring, but you just have no direction for the time being.

31. Diligent people - seize time; lazy people - kill time; ambitious people - cherish time; inactive people - waste time; loyal people - keep time; speculators - wait for time; smart people - accumulate time ; The ignorant - ignore time; the seeker - make use of time; the ignorant - waste time; the doer - value time; the wanderer - trample time; the humble - win time; the optimist - praise time; Pessimists - sigh for time.

32. Flatness is not the best road. Only ups and downs can enrich life. Only by overcoming setbacks can we continue to transcend. The true brave man is: despite the test of time, he is still as solid as a rock!

33. Are you tired? Smiling is not tiring, anger is tiring; simplicity is not tiring, complexity is tiring; lovesickness is not tiring, unrequited love is tiring; being together is not tiring, being alone is tiring; Loving each other is not tiring, but killing each other is tiring; being devoted is not tiring, but being indiscriminate is tiring; friendship is not tiring, but personal love is tiring; sincerity is not tiring, only falsehood is tiring; having friends is not tiring, but making enemies is tiring; being selfless is not tiring, but being selfish You are tired only when you are tired of gains and losses; you are tired only when you worry about it; you are tired only when you are tired physically and mentally...

34. You don’t have to expect any miracles to happen, because there is no one in the world except yourself. Anything else can be called a miracle. Instead of expecting miracles, it is better to give yourself miracles. It is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself. Everything depends on yourself. In the process of pursuing life, we should maintain a contented attitude and work hard to create miracles, which are the real miracles.

35. Connotation is more important than appearance, but a kind heart is the beginning of all cultivation. Having good and beautiful qualities is like putting on armor for yourself, which can help you resist evil and gain double protection; if you can strengthen the cultivation of your mind on the basis of these qualities, it will be like building an iron wall of success. , the road to success will always be smooth.

36. If you don’t like others, it’s because you don’t have enough self-cultivation. At the moment when a person is angry, his IQ is zero, but returns to normal after a minute. The key to human elegance is to control one's emotions. It is the stupidest behavior to hurt others with your mouth. Our lack of freedom is usually caused by bad emotions from within that control us. A person who can control bad emotions is stronger than a person who can win a city...

37. The road is made, but do you know that the road is the scar of the land, no matter how good it is? Go, every time we take a step forward, we will feel a kind of hidden pain in life. Walking on the road that others have walked, you are interpreting the pain that everyone is blind to, so you don’t feel the pain. The most painful thing in life is that there is no way to follow your own path consistently. Just to insist on being ourselves in our hearts, we resolutely stick to this persistence.

38. Slowly, I realized that many things can be encountered but cannot be sought, and many things can only be owned once; slowly, I realized that people’s personalities can be so different; slowly, I realized that the difference between two people is People who hang out with you every day are not necessarily friends, and they may be nothing at all. Gradually, I realized that mobile phones are used by others when they come to see you for something, not to communicate feelings. Gradually, I realized that happiness often comes from memories, and Pain often comes from the gap between memory and reality.

39. People live not by their bodies, but by their hearts; this is true. Whether a person is happy or unhappy in life, joyful or unhappy, the key lies in your heart, not your body - your daily gains and losses. If your heart is happy, then you will be happy wherever you are; if your heart is happy, then whatever you do will be happy. Sometimes, it is not others but ourselves who determine our mood.

40. No one can enjoy happiness all his life. It is impossible to ensure that you are always happy throughout your life. Only by experiencing it can you understand; only by suffering can you know how happy the happy moments are; only by loving can you know the feeling of heartache; only by giving can you get rewards; only by working hard can you know how difficult it is to be happy. ; Only when you have failed can you know how difficult it is to succeed.

41. Life is as light as a flower, and nature is fragrant all the way. The red flowers are not for the sake of spring, and the flowers are not for the purpose of attracting butterflies. Over the years, flowers grow silently, bloom quietly, and live elegantly. I don’t ask for bright reds and purples, I just hope that spring will bloom one after another, and that spring will gradually fade into the dust. A life of beauty is not in vain. Butterflies come and go as they please, watch the sky quietly and spend the spring years peacefully. If you don’t care about gaining, you naturally don’t care about losing. The beauty of life does not lie in fighting, but in guarding.

42. If you have endless work, stop and relax; if you don’t make enough money, take a look at the things outside you; if you are uncomfortable with the worldly world, just be quiet and let nature take its course; if you have endless lives, If you feel sullen, talk about it, and your mood will be broad; if you have endless social activities, just say a word, it is good for your health; if you have endless filial piety, take a walk and go home to see; if you have unfinished favors, weigh them and do what you can. Go; there is an endless journey ahead, take it easy and walk through life!

43. Failure to let go of oneself means lack of wisdom, and failure to let go of others means lack of compassion. Everyone must know how to let go of themselves and others, and don’t waste your life on getting into trouble. The road of life is long and spacious.

44. Being alone is a kind of ability, but also a kind of cultivation. Everyone’s soul needs a pure land. Facing the impetuousness and noise of the outside world, our hearts will often feel tired and tired. At this time At this moment, what we need to do most is to create a space for ourselves to be alone, think what we think, do what we want, or simply think about nothing or do nothing. Only when we are alone are we and ourselves When posted recently.