The kind that it hurts to miss someone.
some people say that it is heartbreaking to cry, and some people say that it is painful to hate, but I don't think it is. I think the feeling of really missing the extreme is to escape, to be calm, to be calm, but my heart is already choppy, and I won't admit that I miss you even if I die.
Ordinary thoughts may be sought, pursued, redeemed and waited, but when they reach the extreme, they are so unwilling, regretting day and night, but knowing that there is no chance. I think only those who have really lost it completely can understand this feeling.
Do you know what it's like to miss someone to the extreme? I think it must not be superficial, it can not be easily seen by you, and it can not be resolved in a short time. When you miss someone to the extreme, this kind of missing may become a habit in your life, just like you need to eat, drink and breathe air every day, and it will appear inadvertently at some moment.
at first, you may feel uncomfortable, as if your heart was pinched, but after a long time, you are just sour, but you can quickly put it in your heart and go on.
Actually, this is our mature performance. Only after the phoenix of nirvana can we really be reborn, and only after the lost life can we really be complete. San Mao said, "We left so suddenly that we didn't have time to say goodbye. This is all right, we will never say goodbye. "
In the face of parting, silence is the most sad cry of adults. Saying goodbye to those people who are very important in life must be a painful and long process. However, there is just too much helplessness and loss in this world. In the face of missing deeply into the bone marrow, what we need to do is to do nothing, not to forget deliberately, and not to force ourselves to compromise. Time is the best medicine to cure everything, long or short, and eventually it will be better.
Milan Kundera said: "Meeting is a beginning, but leaving is to meet the next one. This is a popular world of leaving, but we are not good at saying goodbye." So, whether you like it or not, please learn to let go, bury your thoughts in your heart, let him go and let yourself go. People who love you don't want to see you sad, and people who don't love you don't care about your feelings.
cherish the people around you, cherish every moment, don't hold hands when you can hug, and don't walk side by side when you can hold hands.