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Story 1 of Treating People Sincerely: Liu Bei Visited the Thatched Cottage Three Times

At the end of the Han Dynasty, the Yellow Turban Incident broke out and the world was in chaos. Cao Cao took control of the court, Sun Quan supported Soochow, and Liu Bei, the shepherd of the Han clan in Yuzhou, listened to Xu Shu ( During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang was said to be very knowledgeable and talented, so they went to Longzhong with Guan Yu and Zhang Fei with gifts. (Today's Xiangyang County, Hubei Province) Wollongong went to ask Zhuge Liang to come out and help him work for the country. It happened that Zhuge Liang went out that day, and Liu Bei had to turn back disappointed. Soon, Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei braved a heavy snowstorm to invite him for the second time. Unexpectedly, Zhuge Liang went out for a leisurely trip again. Zhang Fei was unwilling to come back, but when he saw that Zhuge Liang was not at home, he urged him to go back. Liu Bei had no choice but to leave a letter expressing his admiration for Zhuge Liang and asking him to come out to help him save the country's dangerous situation.

After some time, Liu Bei went on a vegetarian diet for three days and prepared to invite Zhuge Liang again. Guan Yu said that Zhuge Liang may have a false name but may not have real talent and learning, so there is no need to go. Zhang Fei, on the other hand, insisted that he call him alone. If he didn't come, he would be tied up with a rope. Liu Bei scolded Zhang Fei and visited Zhuge Liang for the third time. At that time, Zhuge Liang was sleeping. Liu Bei did not dare to disturb him. He stood there until Zhuge Liang woke up and then sat down to talk to each other.

Zhuge Liang saw that Liu Bei was determined to do things for the country and sincerely asked for his help, so he came out to help Liu Bei establish the Shuhan Dynasty. "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms" refers to Liu Bei's three personal invitations to Zhuge Liang as "Three Visits to the Thatched Cottage". The idiom "visiting the thatched cottage three times" comes from this, which is a metaphor for visiting talents and inviting others sincerely.

Treat people sincerely. Story 2: Fleming treats people sincerely.

Fleming was a poor farmer in Scotland. One day, he rescued a child who had fallen into a deep ditch. The next day, a luxurious carriage arrived at the door of Fleming's house, and an elegant gentleman stepped out of the carriage. Seeing Fleming, the gentleman said: "I am the father of the child you rescued yesterday. I came here today to express my gratitude to you." Fleming replied: "I cannot accept payment for rescuing your child." ."

While the two were talking, Fleming's son came back from outside. The gentleman asked: "Is he your son?" The farmer replied proudly: "Yes." The gentleman said: "We make an agreement. I will take your son away and let him receive the best education. If If this child is as sincere as you, he will definitely become a person you are proud of in the future." Fleming agreed to sign the agreement. A few years later, his son graduated from St. Mary's Medical College, invented the antibacterial drug penicillin, and became the world-famous Sir Alexander Fleming.

One year, the gentleman’s son, which child was rescued from the ditch by Fleming, contracted pneumonia. Who brought him back from the brink of death? It's penicillin. Who is that elegant man? He is the old Churchill, a member of the British House of Lords before World War II. Who is the gentleman's son? He was Churchill, the famous British Prime Minister during World War II.

Benjamin. Franklin once said that what a man sows, he will reap. If we treat others sincerely, others will treat us sincerely. It was because of his sincerity that Fleming gave his son the opportunity to grow up. It was because of his sincerity that Churchill Sr. saved his son's life and made him a politician who influenced the course of human history in the 20th century.

Story 3 of Treating People Sincerely: Integrity in Business

A customer walked into a car repair shop and claimed to be a driver of a transportation company. "Write more parts on my bill. After I go back to the company to submit the expense account, I'll share in the benefits with you." He said to the shop owner. But the shop owner refused such a request. The customer persisted and said, "My business is not big. I come here often, and I am sure you can make a lot of money!" The shopkeeper told him that he would never do it anyway. The customer shouted angrily: "Anyone would do this, I think you are too stupid.

"The shopkeeper was angry. He asked the customer to leave immediately and go discuss this kind of business elsewhere. At this time, the customer smiled and held the shopkeeper's hand with admiration: "I am the boss of that transportation company. I have been looking for a permanent employee. A trustworthy repair shop, where else would you ask me to negotiate this business? ”

In the face of temptation, do not be tempted or confused by it. Although it is as plain as moving clouds and as simple as flowing water, it makes people appreciate a kind of high mountains and deep seas. This is a kind of shining spirit. Character - Integrity

Quotes about treating people sincerely

1. A word is worth a thousand years - Chen Yi

2. Stupidity and arrogance are like a tree. The result. - Proverb

3. A gentleman should avoid self-deception and strive to be humble. - "Hai Rui Ji"

4. Everything touched by sincerity can be felt. ——Wu Chuhou, Song Dynasty

5. Be sincere in deeds and trustworthy in words; follow the law and be strict in governance

6. Sincerity is an openness of mind. ——La Luo. Chefoucauld

7. There is no dignity without honesty. ——Cicero

8. Sincerity is an openness of the heart ——(France) La Rochefoucauld.

9. Sincerity is the road to honor - (France) Zola

10. Sincerity is glass, prudence is diamond - Chinese Proverbs

11. Sincerity is the highest virtue in life - (English) Chaucer

12. A promise from a husband is worth a thousand dollars - "Zi Zhi Tong Jian"

13. Keeping your promise is like protecting your honor. ——Balzac

14. Being honest in your actions can strengthen your ambition, and being honest in your words can uphold your virtues. ——Hu Hong< /p>

15. Honesty is the most touching thing. ——(English) Shakespeare

16. A person who really knows himself can’t be humble. ——Anonymous

17. Sincerity is an openness of the soul - (France) La Rochefoucauld

18. Those who are complacent will harm others; those who are self-effacing will benefit others - Wei Zhengru

19. Those who respect others will always be respected; those who love others will always be loved. ——Mencius

20. If you show humility on the road of life, you will be blessed. The land is wide. ——Carnegie

21. Fear leads to thinking, and thinking leads to understanding; fear leads to caution, and caution leads to defeat. ——"The Biography of Bi Shi'an, History of the Song Dynasty"

23. Sicheng is the foundation of self-cultivation, and understanding and kindness is the foundation of sicheng. ——Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty

24. , The one who is vain and arrogant (self) is the matchmaker of defeat, and the humble one uses his wings to attack gradually. - Kang Youwei

25. Sincerity does not need the help of pen and ink, and beauty does not need the help of pink and white. - Shakespeare.

26. Sincerity and simplicity are precious qualities of genius——Stanislavsky

27. Among all moral qualities, kindness is the most needed in the world .——Russell

28. The only constant test of friendship is long-lasting sincerity. ——(China) Ke Lan

29. A sincere and candid attitude is much more beneficial than an attitude of guarding against others. ——(USA) Rogers

30. Sincerity is the most basic power that makes a person great. It enables a person's shortcomings and mistakes to be forgiven. ——Roland

How to get along with others

The Jewish engineer Steber hoped that his landlord could lower the rent, but his landlord was very difficult to deal with. Many people have made efforts in this regard. , but ultimately failed. Everyone came to the same conclusion: the landlord was unkind and difficult to contact.

Staples decided to give it a try. He wrote a letter to the landlord saying that the contract was about to expire and he would move out. In fact, he did not want to move out. If the rent could be lowered, he would like to continue. Rent it. Within a few days, the landlord came to see Staples with his secretary. Steber welcomed him at the door in a friendly and warm manner.

Staples did not immediately talk about the rent issue, but first emphasized that he liked his house very much, praised him for its good management, and hoped to live there for another year, but the rent was a bit high.

The landlord has never met such a warm and sincere tenant, and he simply doesn’t know what to do. He began to complain to Staples. One of the tenants wrote him 14 letters, some of which were very rude and hurt his self-esteem. Another tenant threatened him that if he did not stop the snoring tenant upstairs, he would be killed. It's time to cancel the lease.

The landlord said happily: "I feel so relieved to have a satisfied tenant like you."

The landlord took the initiative to reduce the rent a little before Shi Debai made the request. Stepa hoped for a smaller amount and stated the amount he could afford. The landlord did not hesitate at all and agreed to Stepa's request.

When he was about to leave, he turned around and asked Stadberg: "Is there anything that needs to be decorated?"

When Stadberg later talked about this matter, he said: "If If I ask for a rent reduction in the same way as other tenants, I believe I will encounter the same obstacles. The reason why I am successful is because of my kindness, sympathy and praise."

Related arguments.

1. The friendship of revolutionary pioneers: In our country, there are many touching stories of friendship among revolutionaries. As we all know, the friendship between Sun Yat-sen and Li Dazhao was very deep. In August 1920, warlord Chen Jiongming rebelled. Sun Yat-sen was in a difficult situation. Li Dazhao and Lin Boqu made a special trip from Beijing to Shanghai to meet with Sun Yat-sen. During many contacts and talks, the revolutionary friendship between Li Dazhao and Sun Yat-sen grew day by day. In order to reorganize the Kuomintang and achieve cooperation between the Kuomintang and the Kuomintang, Sun Yat-sen held the First Congress of the Kuomintang in Guangzhou in January 1924. He appointed Li Dazhao as the representative of the Kuomintang Congress in Beijing. He arrived in Guangzhou more than a month in advance to assist him. Complete all work in preparation for the conference. During the conference, Li Dazhao was one of the five members of the presidium of the conference. Li Dazhao respected and supported Sun Yat-sen very much. He believed that this great man "was the leader of Asians' struggle for freedom and light", and that cooperation between the Kuomintang and Communist Party was the need for the development of the Chinese revolution, and was also "Mr.'s great contribution in the history of the Chinese national revolution to carry forward the past and forge the future, forge new ones and purify the old." . To this end, Li Dazhao worked tirelessly, crossing the Yangtze River four times, going to Shanghai three times, and going to Guangzhou twice. In 1925, in order to seek the reunification of the north and the south, Sun Yat-sen left Guangzhou and went north to negotiate. Li Dazhao went to Beijing Station to greet him. In March of the same year, Sun Yat-sen unfortunately died of illness. Li Dazhao led the party organization in Beijing and mobilized more than 300,000 people to participate in mourning activities. During the funeral, he personally supported Sun Yat-sen's spirit. Li Dazhao also wrote a 214-word elegiac couplet to express his deep condolences.

2. Li Du Shiyi: Li Bai, the greatest romantic poet in the Tang Dynasty, and Du Fu, the greatest realist poet, are like twin peaks standing side by side in ancient Chinese history, shining brightly in the annals of history. The friendship between them was praised by future generations. Li Bai is 11 years older than Du Fu, and their relationship can be regarded as a close friendship. They stayed in Tianbao for three to four years and spent more than a year together in Lujun, Shandong. Later, Du Fu bid farewell to Li Bai and went to Chang'an. Li Bai wrote two poems in memory of Du Fu: "Send Du Fu a Farewell at the East Stone Gate of Lu County" and "Send a Farewell to Du Fu at the Sand Dune City". Du Fu also vividly described and warmly praised Li Bai's fearless character and extraordinary poetic talent in many poems.

3. Lifelong friendship: During the Northern Song Dynasty, after Wang Anshi passed the Jinshi examination, he worked in Yangzhou. Friend Zeng Gong brought several of his manuscripts to introduce to Ouyang Xiu. At that time, Ouyang Xiu was serving as a bachelor of Longtuge in Kaifeng, the capital, and he was famous all over the world. Despite the disparity in status, he admired this ordinary young man's manuscripts very much and "loved to sigh and recite and write them diligently". He also included them in "Wenlin", a collection of excellent works, and recommended them to the society. He also informed Wang Anshi through Zeng Gong, asking him to be more open-minded, stop making up words, and refrain from imitation. Ouyang Xiu and Wang Anshi really wanted to meet and comment on the works of their time. But there are personnel obstacles, and the fate is narrow. It wasn't until Wang Anshi was later transferred to Beijing to take up a post that these two friends, who had been friends for ten years, met for the first time. Their friendship lasted well into their later years and was tested. Wang Anshi implemented new laws when he was in power. Ouyang Xiu did not agree with some of the new laws, but he did not shy away from them because of personal friendship. He went to Emperor Shu twice to state his opinions on the Qingmiao Law. This did not affect Wang Anshi's respect for Ouyang Xiu. Soon, Ouyang Xiu passed away, and Wang Anshi personally wrote a memorial to express his deep condolences for his friend.

4. Strong friendship between teachers and friends: Huang Tingjian was famous for his poetry and prose. Historians ranked him with Su Shi and called him "Su Huang".

There was indeed a deep friendship between these two literary giants. Once, the two sat together to discuss calligraphy. Su Shi said: "Lu Zhi, although your handwriting has become more and more vigorous recently, it seems too hard and thin in some places, almost like a snake hanging from the treetops." He laughed. "Senior brother's criticism is to the point, which is heartbreaking. However, I think there are still some..." Huang Tingjian hesitated and did not continue speaking. "Tell me, tell me," Su Shi said, "Why are you so hesitant because you're afraid I won't be able to bear it?" "Okay, I'll be bold." Huang Tingjian swallowed and said, "Senior brother's calligraphy is as powerful as iron and silver hooks. However, sometimes the writing is a little shallow, like a toad pressed by a stone. Maybe the image of a "toad pressed by a stone" is a bit funny, and both of them burst out laughing. The two literary giants often learn from each other, hone each other, and criticize each other. This is like the spring breeze turning into rain, making the tree of friendship more lush.

5. In memory of Gogol: On February 21, 1852, the great Russian writer Gogol passed away. His close friend Turgenev sat at his desk and wrote an article in memory of Gogol with a heavy pen and tears of sadness. However, the tsarist rulers were afraid that the name beloved by the Russian people would appear in the press at this time. The Petersburg censorship banned the publication of all articles commemorating and praising Gogol, and stated that if Turgenev ignored the ban and forcibly published an article, he would be arrested. The upright and brave Turgenev was not afraid of the threat of authoritarians. He would rather go to jail than to comfort the souls of the deceased and maintain the friendship of irreplaceable friends. So, he cleverly avoided the surveillance of the Tsarist detectives, left Petersburg, sent the article to Moscow, and published the article in the "Moscow News" before the ban was received there. The Third Office of the Tsar's secret service soon saw this article, and they summoned Turgenev. The Tsar had long hated this writer who often published "Hunter's Notes" in the magazine "Modern Man". After imprisoning Turgenev for a month, the Tsar personally ordered that Turgenev be exiled to Spassky.