I believe that everyone will encounter such a situation when they are growing up. They are afraid that they will become an annoying person, and they even think about catering to everyone's preferences. Later, we discovered that we are not RMB and cannot be loved by everyone like "Lao Mao", so we choose to be the kind of people who are liked by most people. So how to be a popular person has to go through a lot of process. After a long period of exploration, this article will share my personal experience.

1. Learn to praise. It is well known that cute children can be annoying, but sweet-mouthed children are actually the most popular. Therefore, we should learn to praise from an early age, but we should not overdo it. I remember a book said that praise is a free gift. Sometimes a short compliment from you may make another person happy for a whole day or even longer. If you want to be popular, you must learn to make people around you happy. Learning to praise is a very simple and practical way.

2. Be generous. There are two points of generosity mentioned here, one is the mind, and the other is the money. You must learn to take the initiative to pay the bill, and sometimes you must know how to share some things with people around you, such as snacks, drinks, etc. As the saying goes, you always have to pay back what you are out for. If you only want to get and have not considered giving, I believe You can't gain much either. On the other hand, don’t hate anyone because of one or two rumors or language mistakes, so that your heart will not tolerate too many things. Learn to forget selectively. Life depends entirely on forgetfulness.

3. Humor. Humor is a kind of wisdom that can relieve awkward and tense atmospheres and bring two unfamiliar people closer together. But humor is not about giving others nicknames and always making fun of others. You must learn to tell appropriate jokes to the right people on appropriate occasions. You cannot ignore other people's self-esteem for the sake of atmosphere and maintain a certain balance. Sometimes you can laugh at yourself, which will make you more friendly in the minds of others.

4. Have a bottom line and principles. There is a saying that people should have a bottom line and principles, and they should have a certain moral bottom line in doing things and being a human being, and they should not do things that are harmful to nature. Being principled means that there are certain things that you should never do, such as being rude to your friend's wife, etc. This kind of thing should never be done, absolutely.

5. Be polite. In the environment in which we live, we will inevitably encounter elders or some acquaintances who are not so close to us. We must be polite to these people, we must take the initiative to ask questions, and we must not ignore their feelings. Sometimes the same is true between peers. You must understand some basic etiquette, such as shaking hands, toasting, etc.

6. Modesty. A person who likes to brag about himself will not make people want to get close to him. No matter how great his achievements are, he cannot regard himself as superior to others. Humility is a traditional Chinese virtue. It is said that humility makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind. This is a very true and true saying.

7. Confident, positive and positive. I believe no one likes to spend too much time with someone who keeps a straight face every day and feels like they owe you how much money they owe you. Emotions are contagious, positive energy can spread, and so can negative energy, so we must maintain a good To face life with the right mentality, you cannot treat it negatively, otherwise you will lose more than just a good mood.

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