I first came up with this idea when I came across a passage from teacher Luo Xiang while scrolling through Douyin. It roughly means: Learn to accept things in life that go against your expectations.

If you think about it carefully, it makes sense.

I used to be a person who was not very able to accept things going against my wishes. I am so strong. I will definitely work hard for what I want, and I demand and expect that I will eventually achieve what I want.

But in fact, this is not good, it can easily hurt others and yourself. After all, if he is not a god, how can he definitely get whatever he wants?

Moreover, the most painful thing in this world is what you can’t get and what you have lost.

I am gradually able to let go of the past. I will be a little sad at most, but I won’t dwell on it all the time.

But I am still practicing hard to face what I can’t get.

I was chatting with my boss on WeChat the night before yesterday. I said that I am now much calmer and can accept any unexpected situation, instead of being angry, angry, regretful, and collapsed like before.

The leader didn’t say anything, but I think he was quite satisfied. After all, I used to even blame him for my unhappiness, but now I’m much more honest.

When I went home and chatted with my mother, she said that I used to have a bad temper, but now I am much better and my ideas are much more mature.

To be honest, I inherited my temper from my mother, who is impatient and can speak unscrupulously when she is angry. After I got better, I often advised my mother not to be impatient, to speak slowly and to reason slowly, because the only person who gets angry will hurt herself.

Being angry is really harmful to the body. Maybe it’s because I’m getting older and want to maintain my health.

No matter what, just make progress and practice slowly. I hope that I can be a peaceful person in my future life and work.

Stay steady and go far.