I can't help but think of another sentence: no one talks about anyone behind his back, and no one talks about anyone behind his back.

Many times, we can't even control ourselves, let alone others. Whether laughed at or said, good or bad, at least remembered, this is the embodiment of value; Laughing at others or talking about others, as long as they are not malicious and deliberately slander others, are harmless.

As long as it is an objective evaluation, praise or scolding, everything else is just a statement of facts, which is not worth worrying about.

After all, when people are alive, the most important thing is to put their position right, as long as they have a clear conscience, do authentic things and be kind. As for other people's gossip, it is just a gust of wind in winter, and the past is over.

Everyone has a different view of himself. This is the joy of life. If everyone thinks the same about themselves, what's the point of this life?