? Yesterday morning, the opening ceremony of the "National Training Plan" (2019) primary school mathematics workshop was held at Nanhe Hotel. 100 mathematics teachers attended Professor Wang Quanle's lecture, "There are ways to show love and teach love - Be a good teacher that students like and parents trust" relationship building strategies. When I saw this topic, I was full of expectations, because with 16 years of working experience, I know the importance of building a good teacher-student relationship, so this lecture by Professor Wang is a beacon that lights up my hesitant teaching path. Although the lecture of less than 3 hours is enough to benefit me for a lifetime.

? At the beginning of the lecture, Professor Wang said: The day I become a teacher is the beginning of re-learning. Go into your new job with a humble attitude. Professor Wang's talk further corrected my attitude towards teaching. Then Professor Wang introduced the theme of educating love with love from three aspects.

(1) Show love well - be a teacher who loves students? Professor Wang combined the case to let us understand how to do it. The case is like this: Before I help the child, I must first obtain the child’s consent - Wang Wenxiu. Professor Wang uses the teaching example of Teacher Wang Wenxiu to tell us what to do. Use "emotion" to gain "emotion" when doing things. The inspiration for us who are about to enter the workplace is: a teacher who loves students must be a teacher who knows how to respect students and is good at leaving students with certain freedom of choice.

Professor Wang then combined two other cases: 1. I don’t blame the teacher. 2. Be a teacher who likes students.

< p> After three cases, I have a deep understanding. When I think about my teaching experience, I feel that I have not done enough.

? (2) There is a way to educate love - be a teacher who can teach students to love themselves. Teacher. Professor Wang also combined easy-to-understand cases from the school level, class level, and teacher level to tell us that after we start working, we must increase the class atmosphere of respecting teachers and respecting teachers. ——Kang Youwei" and other famous quotes and cases tell us the importance of strengthening respect for teachers.

? (3) Use softness to overcome hardness--be a tolerant, generous and astute teacher. With "students in The case of “whistling behind the back” tells us how to treat students: 1. We can only compete with wits, not with courage. 2. Should we carry forward the spirit of the Long March? 3. Do not carry forward the “Spirit of the Sword.”

Have true love and be good at expressing it. Case :1. We don’t want teachers. 2. Teacher Zhang’s birthday.

Enlightenment: What is the criterion for true love?

Professor Wang’s lecture uses the word wonderful. It seems a bit inferior to describe it. I was particularly focused on the whole lecture because his wonderful talk did not allow me to relax for a moment. I was afraid that I would miss something. Although the lecture was only 3 hours long, it was so short. Less than three hours is enough for me to benefit from it for a lifetime. In the future, I will practice every word of Professor Wang's words in the teaching process and integrate them into my future teaching. A good teacher adds glory to the education industry.

Being good to students is always the magic weapon to win the support and understanding of parents.

What methods do we use to let parents know about us? For the sake of the students?

Professor Wang continued: Loving one's own children is instinctive, and loving other people's children is sacred. After all, teachers are ordinary people, and there are not many people who can transcend this dilemma. Paradox? Mr. Yu Yongzheng proposed a compromise: "In the reality of education, we allow teachers to dislike certain students, but we are not allowed to disrespect students. "

Teachers must firmly adhere to the bottom line of respect. "You are not required to like every student, but you must act like you like him. It doesn't matter how much you like them if your behavior doesn't reflect that you like them. But if you act like you like them, it doesn't matter whether you really do or not. "This was also said by Todd Witkel, and the key words are "appearance" and "behavior." Mr. Yu said that after reading it, "it was like an enlightenment and a great inspiration! "This kind of statement will definitely make some moralists unhappy, but they don't know that this is the real educational wisdom, which coincides with the "golden mean" of education.

I listened to Professor Wang Quanle's lecture and it was a kind of Enjoy; I listened to Professor Wang Quanle's lecture, and I was enlightened; I listened to Professor Wang Quanle's lecture, and it was like an enlightenment.

This is really "listening to your words is worth ten years of reading."