your question is very good! Indeed, many parents, teachers and even children themselves now have similar questions about family education. They all hope to find the most suitable learning materials and educational methods, cultivate children's study and living habits, and enable children to actively study and grow up healthily and happily, so as to achieve the goal of improving children's comprehensive quality. However, a child is a child after all, just like a small sapling. Without proper guidance and cultivation, it is easy to stagger and become a useful person. Every child always has some shortcomings in personality and behavior and occasionally makes some small mistakes, which will indeed have a certain negative impact on his study and life. In fact, there are many ways to educate children. You need to carefully consider and choose the appropriate methods, teaching materials and suggestions, and you can also choose to watch home-schooling video programs that suit you, so that it can be effective and effective. After reading the video materials of the websites analyzed and recommended below, I believe you can get the answers you want.
under the influence of many factors, such as the current social environment, the examination-oriented education mode and the acceptance of western open education, our children, like living in a big dye vat, are easily contaminated and infected with some bad habits, such as being willful, rebellious and disobedient, dishonest, addicted to the Internet, fighting, tired of learning, active, inattentive and inattentive in class, especially in children and adolescents. The purpose of education is to correct children's wrong outlook on life, values and world outlook, as well as all kinds of wrong behaviors caused by these concepts. Although there are many ways to educate children, some people adopt the education of tiger mother and wolf father, and even say that they "win at the starting line". People's life is actually a marathon long-distance running process. Even if they win the starting line, how far they can run, how long they will last, and who laughs last is often counterproductive. Therefore, the so-called tiger mother education of individuals, whether they are successful or not, is not worth worshiping, learning to imitate or even popularizing widely. If children are beaten for corporal punishment education, the consequences may be quite serious, and they will retaliate against the elderly parents and grandchildren in the future, so violent education is harmful! On the contrary, it is more important to cultivate children's healthy personality and optimistic spirit. If you want to fundamentally educate your children and cultivate their good interests and habits in study and life, I suggest you make them like Disciples Rules as soon as possible! Sages teach filial piety once and for all, believing in loving the masses, and loving the kindheartedness, learning and learning, filial piety. Parents should call on them not to delay their parents' orders, not to be lazy. Parents should respect their parents' responsibilities, inherit the winter, and be gentle in summer ... (Reading more will definitely improve children's sense of responsibility and inspire their wisdom). You see, this is really a "great filial piety" and a best tutor! How well written! It is catchy, easy to read and teach, and there are many video story teaching materials on the Internet. There are many versions suitable for children at all stages to watch. As a parent, as long as you are willing to encourage your child to watch with you more (this is very important, you like to watch with him, and children are naturally curious and easily influenced by others), you will definitely make your child like her. If you can work hard in real life and try your best to implement the teachings inside, why not educate your child well?
At the same time, your question involves the family education of teenagers' ideological and moral character, behavior language and academic performance that parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. Parents' correct education guidance plays a decisive role in the process of children's healthy growth education. Therefore, in daily family life, parents and children are sincerely recommended to watch the series documentary "Sage Education Changing Fate" (also known as "Disciple Rules Instructions"), which is an excellent large-scale public welfare forum for excellent Chinese traditional culture education planned and supervised by Chen Dahui. This is a very favorable free network resource about moral education and family education, which can help children feel the truth of life in a happy and grateful atmosphere, help them improve their healthy growth and study progress, understand why disasters and accidents happen, and avoid disasters. It can prescribe the right medicine for all kinds of problems in children, and it is a good treatment! There must be the answer you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for our parents and elders to learn. It is indeed a rare classic family education program! There are many wonderful case studies in this program, discussing various ways to solve children's education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free, which is of great help to improve children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion and disobedience, internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence, inattention, etc. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by some simple methods or measures, and become a filial and obedient child, but we need to carry out comprehensive and systematic family education, and we can treat both the symptoms and the root causes from the root. There are many experts, teachers and parents in this film who personally speak and report to the public with their unique experiences, which reveals that parents' educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, parents are advised to watch it with their children, and the tutoring they receive from childhood will affect their children's life, from which they will certainly get unexpected results!
There is a classic warning saying in the film: People can teach well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!
However, at present, we are facing various realistic situations: serious lack of social integrity! All kinds of media exaggerate and misdirect, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is hard to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting worse and worse. To be honest, many parents don't know how to be parents, so they bring their children into this world, and put a lot of educational responsibilities on schools and society. However, parents are the first teachers of their children, and many growth experiences require parents to teach by example. How can they educate their children well if they shirk their responsibilities? It's really sad! As children, we often can't understand our parents' mind and real experience, only for our own convenience and enjoyment. To be honest, it's a bit of a big violation! When we are all parents, we can truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it. Alas ... Many so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disjointed education received from generation to generation, which is not well coherent. Nowadays, too many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, and they are only interested in their own enjoyment and ignore the feelings of others. We must know that all education should start from the root, just as a tree needs roots to grow trunks, branches and leaves and flourish. If the fundamental virtue education is discarded, everything else will be just castles in the air. Here, I recommend all friends who are predestined friends, whether they have seen it or not, please spare as much time as possible to watch the excellent forum program of large-scale Chinese traditional culture education: "Sage Education Changing Destiny" (which can be played on Baidu video or Youku Tudou search). I hope that everyone who has seen it can get real and meaningful benefits from it and continue to benefit others. Let's work together to create a harmonious social environment.
I hope my answer will help and enlighten you.
Best wishes to you!