In daily study, work or life, everyone is familiar with letters. Letters are a special way for people to express their feelings. Do you know how to write a good letter? The following is a letter (6 selected articles) written by parents to their children at the bar mitzvah organized by Bian Xiao. I hope it will help everyone.
Adult ceremony 1 letter from parents to children
Dear son:
You have already celebrated 18 birthday. Mom and dad are really happy to see you really grow up. I think we can really communicate in depth on an equal footing.
Son, we love you!
/kloc-the joy of welcoming you 0/8 years ago is still in my heart. Although you are impatient, you broke into this world two months in advance and let my parents watch you in the incubator. After that, it only took us six months to reap the joy from you again, because at that time, you were longer and heavier than a full-term child, with sound limbs and normal brain. Although both your parents set their own weight records, time flies, and the day of 18 is vivid in my mind. We have been together for 6570 days and nights. My parents care about you, and you care about my parents. You are a delicate, sensitive and caring child!
Now, my parents' sideburns have grown into beautiful hair, and you have grown from a little boy who is completely ignorant of the world to a handsome boy in the flower season. Although your academic performance is not excellent since childhood, we firmly believe that "this material is naturally useful"!
The so-called adult is legally defined as a person with full capacity. Because of this, the law requires adults who violate the law to take full responsibility. Therefore, growing up means taking responsibility ―― growing up for yourself, parents and others also means becoming smarter. Mom always said that cleverness and wisdom are two different things. Wisdom is the attitude of life and the philosophy of being a man. For you at present, it is: with a generous heart, tolerate your parents' nagging that you only want to be good; Seek the maximum development space under the established system with the agility of water. The ancients said that "goodness is like water", and water is elastic, so "softness can overcome rigidity", so the wise man love the water! Don't learn from others? Q high, against the system and rules, no matter how talented people can bear the consequences.
Son, we hope you can cherish this letter and read it from time to time. We hope the following words can be a warning sign in your future life. We believe that with the growth of your experience, every time you read it, there will be new enlightenment:
First of all, it is never too old to learn.
Tagore famously said, "When you miss the sun, you are crying. Then you will also miss the moon and stars. " Time will not go back, but it does not mean that there is no future without the past!
Second, form good habits.
The power of habit is enormous. Once people form a habit, they will unconsciously run on this track. "Habit forms quality, and quality determines fate." If it is a good habit, it will benefit for life, because the details ultimately determine success or failure; On the contrary, you will suffer for life without knowing it.
Third, perseverance.
In other words, when encountering difficulties and setbacks, we should have an optimistic attitude of "the sky is falling to the people of Sri Lanka, first suffering their minds, straining their bones and muscles, starving their bodies and leaving them empty". We must firmly believe that people can't be in a trough all their lives.
Fourth, guard against arrogance and rashness and respect others.
When you are successful, don't show your ambition. Give an inch and you get a foot. If you want others to respect you, you must first learn to respect others.
Time flies, and years make people old. Eighteen is the golden age of life and the beginning of maturity. Son, my parents hope that you can sail smoothly from the safe haven of 18 years old and embark on a happy, fulfilling and healthy life. No matter what career you will take in the future, as long as you work hard, you will be the pride of our family. Dear son, as time goes by, my parents will get old. We don't have many wishes. We just want you to remember that you will always carry our love and our life and hope.
Finally, I wish you progress in your study and progress every day!
Letters from parents to children at bar mitzvah II
Children:
I remember when you bid farewell to childhood and entered youth, mom and dad also wrote to you. At that time, we were very sad and happy. That kind of sadness may be a bit selfish, as if unwilling to grow up. I really hope that there will always be an innocent child at home, but it is gratifying that you have a more independent thinking and life since then.
Too fast, as if in the blink of an eye, you entered the age of eighteen. Sometimes our family of three is walking on the road, and mom and dad have to look up and talk to you. Feel your concerned eyes and comforting words when your mother is unwell; Mom and dad often urge you to rest in the middle of the night, and you still insist on doing your homework; You have the idea of independence, self-reliance and self-improvement, and mom and dad really realize that you have grown up.
Today, at the bar mitzvah, mom and dad wrote to you, not only to congratulate you, but also to tell you some thoughtful words.
You have always been a conscientious and diligent child. From primary school, junior high school to senior high school, you have always achieved excellent results with your own efforts. Mom and dad never doubt that you will work harder and harder in your future study and work.
But in another sense, the rite of passage should be a new starting point in your life. Because you have to face your future life in a more independent way. From today on, you are no longer a child under the protection of parents or teachers. You need to learn to integrate yourself into the surrounding environment and society, and learn more interpersonal skills and practices. In the long river of life, you should be prepared, learn to suffer hardships, learn to be wronged, learn to fail, and learn to be frustrated. Of course, you will also enjoy more happiness brought by study, work and life.
In a word, what mom and dad want to say is that when you grow up, your life is beautiful, but the beauty of life is not just a vigorous career or achievement, it is only a small part of life, and maybe the sweet life is more reflected in the calm and indifferent life.
No matter how old you are, you will always be a child in the eyes of your parents. We are a happy family of three!
Love: Mom and Dad.
20xx year x month x day
Letters from parents to children at bar mitzvah 3
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From today, you will step into the ranks of adults, and your parents sincerely wish you!
Youth and happiness coexist in Qi Fei, while ambition and struggle coexist. 18 years old, in the prime of life, is also a new milestone in life. You have stepped into the ranks of adults, which means that you will take on greater responsibilities from now on, continue to mature, and practice your glory and dreams on the stage of social life in the 2 1 new century.
Birds can't fly high and don't know the width of the blue sky; People don't travel far and don't know the size of the world. 18 years old, young and beautiful, like a poem and a dream, with infinite scenery. It's up to you to raise your ideal wings and fly high. But it is parents' greatest wish to live a stable and happy life on their own.
My parents wrote this letter to you on the important day of your eighteenth birthday. I believe you have seen it clearly. You have reached a very important stage on the road to rich life. The scenery of life in the future will gradually increase, and the stories will gradually increase. The road of life in the future will be long and rich. Mom still wants to tell you the truth of our predecessors, which may help you in your later life.
Grateful return: this is the basic principle of being a man. Remember: "The grace of dripping water is the reward of spring." Every moment of your life, anyone around you will help you more or less. Positive, even negative, learn to thank those who have hurt you, at least it can let you learn from setbacks and learn to protect yourself.
Helping others and being kind to others: this is the basic morality of being a man. As the saying goes, "Give someone a rose, leave a lingering fragrance in your hand". Keep a kind heart and try your best to help others, and you will be happy while helping others.
Tolerance and understanding: this is the basic quality of being a man. We should consider the problem from each other's point of view, instead of taking ourselves as the center, we should take care of the overall situation, especially when we get along with friends, and we should understand that suffering is the meaning of happiness.
Be content: This is a good way to do things. Don't go to extremes in everything, no matter what, you will find something satisfactory, which is contentment; Giving up is the dialectical relationship between giving up and getting. Firmly believe: "He who does nothing will do anything". Taste the true meaning of "getting is a blessing, being willing to give up is a blessing, and contentment is the happiest"!
Modesty and sincerity: this is the virtue of being a man. There must be a teacher in a threesome. An inch long, a foot short. No matter what you do, you must be humble, move people with your feelings and move people with your heart.
Caution: This is the philosophy of doing things. "If you talk too much, you will lose." Remember to exaggerate and be honest. Think twice before you do something and avoid reckless behavior.
Strong and persistent: this is the secret of success. In the long journey of life, you may experience unexpected bumps and thorns, and those who can split the thorns and reach the other side of the ideal must be strong and persistent.
Son, you are only a few days away from the college entrance examination. Dad sincerely hopes that you can finish the last wonderful journey of high school study and life with ease, peace of mind, care and heart, and draw a perfect end to 15' s hard study and pursuit of learning dreams!
Letters from parents to children at bar mitzvah 4
Dear child:
I felt a little uneasy when I opened this stationery to write your bar mitzvah. Not because there is nothing to say, but because I want to say too much, I don't know how to say or what to say!
I have written you a few words in this way several times before. At that time, it was more imagination and expectation. Today, in the face of you who have grown up and are about to grow up, no matter what you thought at first, at this moment, we begin to look back at that little you, and your mind is full of babbling and stumbling. The warmth of that memory will naturally be felt when you become a father in the future!
Although I am usually a nagging father and my mother has always been very concerned about your state, in this letter, we try not to tell the truth, because we all know that the changing speed of the times is getting faster and faster, which has led to a huge generation gap. Our experience may also become less referential with the changes of the times and the influence of the environment, and the truth of life is actually mostly experience, not hearing!
There is a naughty but profound sentence: "We are also parents for the first time"! Therefore, we may also have shortcomings and omissions. Although we have grown up for a long time, as "parents", we just arrived at 18 today.
Child, growth is the process, and growth is the result! Growth is bound to be full of experience, pain and confusion, and growth is the ultimate consciousness! The pursuit of life instinct is towards the sky and the sun! In the process of growing up, we have given you company, and at the same time we are constantly growing, which is brought by you! Growing up means the concretization of responsibilities, because as you grow up, we are getting old, not to mention grandparents!
The world is diverse, and our footprints are magnified by the openness of the Internet or information, but our horizons may not be so broad. Therefore, whether in our eyes or in our hearts, there must be a front, which may be unclear or unclear. This ambiguity and uncertainty will increase your fantasy and have the motivation to explore. Of course, you may be hit hard, frustrated, at a loss, or even fail, but it is always better and more worthwhile than standing still! Don't let the glory of dreams be worn away in ordinary repetition and disappear in wear and tear!
Dad and you are both fans of English and American dramas. Although our differences in watching movies gradually emerged as you grew up, we finally watched a lot together. Do you feel as if Europeans and Americans are natural speakers with many golden sentences? So before I end this letter, let me quote John, an American judge. In a graduation speech, Roberts said: "In the years to come, I hope you will encounter injustice from time to time and let you understand the value of justice;" I hope you will be betrayed, because it will tell you how important loyalty is; I hope you feel lonely from time to time, so that you won't take the company of your friends for granted; These things will happen whether I like it or not! "
So no matter how beautiful and strong our wishes are, the fact is that every day of life is growth, and setbacks in growth are inevitable. As long as you strengthen your heart, these may just be unhappy or unhappy, just like a small puddle on the road. You need to walk with your feet up! If you don't become what you expected in a period of time, or you don't achieve your original expected goal, please don't be depressed. Tell you, it really doesn't matter, because as long as you open your eyes, you can have more and more important things besides that, such as courage and soul, such as tranquility and forgiveness, such as clarity and refreshment!
Mom and dad think that when you grow up, you will be confused, worried and not afraid. Cultivate your fundamental wisdom, experience your personality and outlook on life, and guard your free will in your growth!
Maybe you are old enough to understand what we say; Or maybe you will question what we say and be willing to explore and discover for yourself. It doesn't matter. We will move forward together. No matter what we meet, as long as you need it, we will never give you less company!
It may not be enough advice from adults, but these are the words of mom and dad!
Children, for parents, waiting for the growth of life is like waiting for a flower to bloom. Age is just a mark, 18 years old, which is a number full of ritual!
After that, when you grow up and mature, we will grow old!
After that, you know how to remember, and we gradually forget!
The road ahead is long, and mom and dad will encourage you!
Letters from parents to children at bar mitzvah 5
Dear son:
How time flies! You'll be eighteen in a flash. Recalling many past events of my childhood, just like what happened yesterday, is still vivid. This has to make people sigh: time flies, time flies! Today, the school holds an adult ceremony for you. We will recall your growth process together, relive the perfect memories of the past, realize today's world life, and look forward to your more wonderful and perfect tomorrow.
You have been a sensible child since you were a child. You are careful and never make trouble. Hard work, conscientious study, and always excellent grades make us very worried when you grow up, and also make us feel gratified to have a son like you. You are quiet, calm, smart and strong. These are your innate superior qualities and the greatest gift from God, which will lay the necessary foundation for you to have a wonderful life.
From elementary school to junior high school to senior high school, your study has always been the best among your peers. When I was in primary school, I won the gold medal in Xingtai Division of the World Junior Olympic Mathematics Competition, the third prize in Xingtai New Media Composition Competition, and the first place in the county in the mathematics competition. After graduating from primary school, you were admitted to the best experimental class of Xingtai Tao Xingzhi Experimental School with excellent results. In the third year of junior high school, you get the first and second scholarships every year. Moreover, I passed the exam and my grades improved steadily. As a result, because of my excellent grades in grade three, I was admitted to Hengzhong in advance more than one month before the middle school entrance examination. After entering high school, you are rewarded by the school with excellent results and exempted from tuition for three years, so that you can guard against arrogance and rashness and make progress. You have been among the best in the previous monthly and mid-term exams, and even reached the peak several times. These are enough to witness your intelligence, wisdom and hard work. You have written a wonderful record of your growth with a solid footprint, which makes us feel extremely proud of you.
Besides excellent talent and excellent grades, studying since childhood is another outstanding advantage of you, which will certainly have a far-reaching impact on your life. Extensive reading will greatly broaden your horizons, especially reading some classic works, which will continuously enrich your mind, improve your humanistic quality, help you establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values, and cultivate your ability to think independently and distinguish right from wrong, so that you will not be confused and follow the crowd in life. But will distinguish right from wrong, self-reliance, good advice, compassion, to protect themselves from all kinds of bad erosion of secular society and decadent things, so as to become a kind, honest, rich and noble person, which is also your parents' greatest expectation.
Besides, we also want to tell you that just as everything will not be perfect, neither will you nor your life. First of all, you also have some shortcomings and deficiencies, mainly manifested in some bad habits in your daily life at the moment, such as lack of exercise, procrastination, unhealthy eating habits, poor self-control, etc. All these need to attract enough attention and try to find effective ways to correct and improve themselves. Don't be influenced by some bad habits. Keynes, a famous British economist, famously said, "Habit constitutes character, and character determines fate", which shows how much influence habits have on a person's life, so you should make up your mind to overcome these bad habits, manage your life carefully, constantly improve yourself and be a healthy, elegant and happy person. Secondly, on the road of life, no one will get everything they want smoothly, which is an objective law that is independent of human will. In the process of your growth, it is inevitable that something will make you unhappy and unhappy. I remember when you were in grade three, you didn't dream about your exam results once. You were still depressed until we went to see you a few days later. At that time, dad said to you, "It doesn't matter if you get an exam result once, you should focus on the long term and don't be blinded by temporary gains and losses." Later, I read in your diary that "when I understood all the scores, I was suddenly confused and even felt that everything was over, everything was ruined." I paved the way for myself and planned my life.
From then on, the road collapsed, and everything after that ended. "I can see how depressed you were at that time, as if that achievement decided the fate of your life. But today, do you still think grades are so important? In fact, it is not only inevitable but also indispensable to experience some setbacks and failures in a person's growth process. Just like a person doesn't know the bitter taste, how can he know how to enjoy the sweetness? Mom and dad expect you to understand these truths and treat the success or failure of your future growth path rationally and calmly.
Finally, I want to talk to you about my future life and study. The third year of high school is coming soon, and the college entrance examination is getting closer and closer. The whole atmosphere of life and study will become more and more tense, so it is necessary to remind you again:
In life, we must always pay attention to protecting our health. "Reasonable diet, adequate sleep and moderate exercise" can be said to be the three elements of good health. Specific to the diet, drink less drinks, eat less junk food, it is best not to eat, drink more boiled water, pure water, eat more staple food and vegetables; Try to ensure enough sleep time, don't do things like staying up late and studying hard, and it's best to get into the habit of taking a lunch break; Try to take more exercise and do more aerobic exercise during recess and after school. Healthy body is not only the guarantee of your happy life and study at the moment, but also the foundation of my happy life.
In terms of study, your grades have been excellent so far. It's not easy to have your achievements in this hidden dragon crouching tiger place. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, and you don't need to be depressed and anxious because of the dream of one or two achievements occasionally. Because stress and anxiety are not only not conducive to efficient study, but also do harm to your body and mind. What's more, don't waste energy for future results, it's unwise, as long as you work hard, it's enough. "Do your best and leave it to fate" is the philosophy of life that you should follow now. I believe that God will care for smart and diligent people. Of course, in today's school and class environment, it seems that it is not easy to do this. But we believe that you will have enough wisdom and courage to get rid of the interference of the environment and avoid the bad mood and negative influence it brings to yourself, so as to go into battle lightly, go all out and spend this precious time in high school calmly, fully and happily.
Wish: health, peace and happiness every day.