What verses do you use to encourage yourself when you encounter things that don’t go your way?

When heaven is about to entrust a person with a great responsibility, he must first work hard on his determination...

God has never wanted to rule the world peacefully. If he wants to rule the world peacefully, in today’s world, no one else but me...

These two sentences are my favorite, and I give them to you. I hope you can Overcome the difficulties in front of you! How do you encourage yourself when things go wrong?

TX Get up every morning and face yourself in the mirror and say, "XXX, you can do it, you are the best, and you can overcome everything." Encounter How to soothe yourself when things don't go your way

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Just look at him

Hanshan asked Shide: "There are people in the world who slander me. How should I deal with someone who bullies me, insults me, laughs at me, belittles me, despises me, or deceives me?" Shi De said: "Be patient with him, let him, avoid him, let him, be patient with him, respect him, ignore him, and then ignore him. Let’s see him in a few years.”

A cup of tea

Nan Yin was a Zen master in Japan’s Meiji era. One day, a university professor came to him to ask Zen questions, but he only treated him with tea. He poured tea into the guest's cup until it was full, and then poured more. The professor watched helplessly as the tea continued to overflow out of the cup, until he could no longer remain silent, and finally said: "It's already overflowing, don't pour it anymore!" "You are just like this cup," Nan said. Yin replied, "It's full of your own opinions and thoughts. How can I tell you Zen if you don't empty your own cup first?"

Understanding is like light

The disciple asked the Buddha: "I can't see the paradise you are talking about. How can I believe it?" The Buddha took the disciple into a dark room and told him: "There is a hammer in the corner." The disciple stared regardless. His big eyes were still narrowed into small ones, and he still couldn't see his fingers, so he had to say: "I can't see." Buddha lit a candle, and there was indeed a hammer in the corner. Buddha said: "What you can't see, doesn't exist?"

Broken Bowl

An old monk had two disciples, the big monk and the little monk. One day after dinner, the young monk was washing dishes and suddenly broke one of the bowls. The great monk immediately ran to the old monk's meditation room and reported: "Master, junior brother just broke a bowl." The old monk twisted the beads in his hand, closed his eyes slightly, and said, "I believe you will never break a bowl!"

Stirring up dust

Shenxiu said: "The body is like a bodhi tree, and the mind is like a mirror stand; brush it diligently at all times, and don't stir up dust." Huineng said: "The bodhi tree has no tree, and neither is the mirror. Taiwan; there is nothing in the first place, where can it cause dust?"

Gift

A Zen master met someone who didn't like him during his journey. For several days, the man tried every means to slander him. Finally, the Zen Master turned around and asked the man: "If someone gives you a gift, but you refuse to accept it, then who does this gift belong to?" The man replied: "It belongs to the person who originally gave the gift." The Zen Master smiled and said: " That's right. If I don't accept your insults, then you are insulting yourself."

Let go

The two Zen practitioners are walking on a muddy road. When I reached a shallow beach, I saw a beautiful girl hesitating there. The silk robe she wore prevented her from crossing the shallows. "Come on! Little girl, I'll carry you there." The senior brother said and picked up the girl. After crossing the shoal, he put the little girl down, and then continued moving forward with his junior brother. The junior brother followed the senior brother, feeling unhappy along the way, but he remained silent. In the evening, after staying in the monastery, he couldn't help it anymore and said to his senior brother: "We monks must abide by the precepts and not be close to women. Why did you carry that woman across the river today?" "Yeah! That's the one you're talking about. Woman! I have put her down a long time ago, and you still care about her?"

The wisdom of the ancients: "There are hundreds of flowers in spring, and there is a cool breeze in summer, and there is snow in winter. It is a good season in life. "In the eyes of Zen practitioners, every season is very good. Zen practitioners know how to adapt to nature, the changes in heaven and earth, and society.

When you are unhappy, what ancient poems do you use to comfort yourself?

I am born with talents that will be useful, and I will come back with all my money:

Everyone has their own meaning and value in this world!

Everyone's potential is unlimited, and you will be surprised when one day you have done everything you can.

Believe in yourself!

"I am born with talents that will be useful, and I will come back after all the money I have spent."

Li Bai, the great poet in the world of poetry, left an immortal line in "Jinjinjiu": "I was born with talents. Talent will be useful, and all the money will come back." This "I am born with talent must be useful" has become a famous saying that people affirm themselves and encourage others to this day!

Then, since God gave birth to "I", it must be useful. You can imagine Li Bai's high spirits and free and easy heroic spirit when he said this! His life was not smooth, but only by having this kind of self-confidence can he achieve great things. What's even more valuable is that Li Bai talked about himself, but inspired others. Think about it carefully, every time God comes to everyone, regardless of gender, regardless of fat or thin, regardless of education level, regardless of wealth or poverty... Although the road may be smooth or rugged, as long as you work hard and are not intimidated or flinched by difficulties, you will never be intimidated or flinched by difficulties. Never give up, everyone must have their place!

Li Bai experienced love difficulties, poverty, the sadness of losing friends, the helplessness of unemployment, and the blow of being demoted... But he was bold and optimistic, singing "I am born with talent" It will definitely work" with a loud voice, and he is also aggressive and confident, how can he not be admired and sighed! Looking back on the past, today's young people often lament the difficulty of studying, the difficulty of work, poverty, the fact that their father is no longer a rich man, the regret that they were born at the wrong time, and the loss of love that hits them like the sky falling... because they can't figure out the smallest things! He (or she) cannot understand the truth of "I am born with talents that must be useful", let alone have a happy mood, optimistic attitude and fighting spirit to overcome difficulties.

Society has the responsibility to encourage everyone to be progressive and enterprising, and should tell everyone with persuasive examples not to give up! I am born to be useful! But it is very regrettable that there are people in society who prefer to exaggerate evil, advocate no future, and create information that undermines confidence. There is no way to avoid it.

There is only one reason, you don’t believe in yourself. God has given life to everyone, and everyone has his own unique side, so why not show it? Why don't you believe in yourself? Give yourself a chance?

I was born to be useful, but unfortunately no one is using me now. A good mentality + a successful textbook + an unlimited stage = success.

Everyone's potential is unlimited. The key is to find a stage where you can give full play to your potential. What happens if your boyfriend hits himself when something goes wrong

Self-mutilation is a sign of incompetence. The problem is to vent your anger on yourself.

When you encounter something unpleasant, how will you vent?

To vent violence directly, find a soft and big toy, provided it does not hurt Touch yourself, push hard, think of the person or thing you hate, kick and hit as hard as you can to build up your strength. When you are tired, you will naturally feel more relaxed. This is a more direct way to vent in a gentle manner. Find a more intimate friend. The prerequisite is The next person is a sensible and wise person, and then find a quiet place to sit down with him, ask for a few bottles of wine, and while drinking, tell your friends all the unpleasant and grievances over and over again. This way you can vent more thoroughly. , so that your friend may give you some good advice or comfort you after you listen, especially a friend who is ignorant. You are annoying Zhang San here, and she is hyping Li Si over there. Such a friend is not suitable. Being an audience will only make you more angry. Have fun and vent. A lot of friends come out to eat, drink, make noise, chat with each other, and go shopping. Maybe the things you want to vent will be wiped out. Vent quietly and alone. Ride a bicycle or other means of transportation, go for a joyful ride on an open road, relax, find a place with few people, shout as loud as you want, sit quietly for a while, ride home slowly, and pretend that nothing happens. Sound to sleep! The above are things I often do. Let me summarize my experience for you. Haha, when I vent about my feelings, I usually choose the last one. When I vent about my friends, I vent violently. After a short period of venting, I forget to care about it. , in work and life, it’s all about finding friends to vent politely, haha, venting loneliness is to have fun with everyone, I don’t know which one can help you

Remember to adopt it and use it when you encounter something that doesn’t go your way. Word expressions

Dejected, dejected, dejected, depressed, sighing, sad, depressed, depressed

Those who abandon me will not be able to keep the days of yesterday; those who disturb my heart will be troubled today. .

Out of breath, depressed, annoyed, bitter and sad

Lost, secretly sad, heartbroken, unhappy, sighing, worried, fearful One-year-old girl beats herself up when something doesn't go her way What to do with your hair

It's possible that I like you. Or maybe bullying you is a habit, or asking you to pay more attention to her and help her solve the unpleasant things. What is the best thing to do when people encounter unpleasant things to make themselves more comfortable?

Traveling can It can effectively adjust your unhappy mood. Traveling can help you relax and put your worries away. When your parents encounter something unpleasant, do you try to persuade them?

o(∩_∩)o... Haha, this question is difficult~~

Under normal circumstances, I will make myself be better than usual~~~Don't let them worry about ***~~

Do something within my power~~If you can't share the troubles for them, then do it for them Share some housework~~ Let them save as much worry as possible~~~

Or when Dad picks up another cigarette, he can walk over with a lighter and help him light it, and then Say, Dad, stop smoking~~~

For mothers, it’s easier to persuade~~~You can pat her shoulder, snuggle up to her, and then don’t say anything, just let her Rest quietly for a moment~~~~

In fact, sometimes words are very pale, I think you should still care about them in action~~~

Adult matters, we Sometimes you can't help as a child, so just quietly do something you are capable of~~~

I hope your parents will get over their troubles as soon as possible~~~Don't worry , your parents are great, no difficulty can defeat them~~~