Idioms explain that doing things for good people is counterproductive.
The idiom comes from the first chapter of Emperor Qianlong by Yehna Latuhong: "He wants to help, but he is kind-hearted and bad, which hinders Yu Yutong's hands and feet."
Help butterflies break their cocoons:
This idiom means that when you see a butterfly struggling to break out of its cocoon, you kindly help the butterfly pull its wings out, but the butterfly can't fly.
Adding chaos to your busy schedule will be counterproductive.
To gild the lily in the opposite direction, haste makes waste, and an unintentional loss.
You didn't kill Boren, but Boren died because of you.
Wang Dun, an important official in Jinzhong, rebelled, and his brother Wang Dao and his family were implicated, and they were guilty outside the palace. When Zhou Boren entered the palace, Wang Dao interceded with him. Zhou Boren ignored it on the surface. But actively advised the emperor to offend Wang Dao and intercede for Wang Dao. Wang Dao doesn't know, so he bears a grudge.
Later, Wang Dun was in power and asked Wang Dao if he wanted to kill Zhou Boren. Wang Dao said nothing, which eventually led to Zhou Boren's murder. Later, Wang Dao found Zhou Boren's previous memorial from the library and suddenly realized that he was crying: "I won't kill Boren. Boren died because of me. In the nether world, I lost this good friend!"
Help people return their cars to the warehouse-love is not helpful.
Be kind and be the liver and lungs of an old donkey.