1. He once said: "Anyone who wants to be a good person, a good official, or a famous general must be a good teacher, a good friend, and a good role model." There are five types of people who influence your destiny in your life, followed by your parents, Teacher, friend, leader, spouse. If they can all be labeled with the word "good", it will be a perfect life.
2. Once said: "Whenever you do great things, knowledge is the main thing and talent is the supplement; when you accomplish great things, half of them are human planning and half of God's will. Since ancient times, talents have been successful and failed. The key is density. "No need to explain, density is too important, and knowledge is more important than talent.
3. Once said: "The rightness depends on the eyes and nose, the truth depends on the lips, the fame depends on the style, the wealth depends on the spirit, the intention depends on the fingers and claws, the trouble depends on the hamstrings, if you want to look at the order, it all depends on the language. "This knowledge is too profound, but Zeng Guofan was famous for his ability to recognize people and to know and employ people. The Zeng shogunate recruited more than 400 staff in more than 20 years, and 47 of them were officials of the third rank, and the governor. There are 33 people who have perfect knowledge of others. Zeng Guofan wrote in his diary: "Sincerity is in appearance but color is in the heart. The elegance and smoothness of Taoist people in ancient times are all reflected in their appearance." Therefore, leaders should learn some fortune-telling skills.
4. He once said: "It is better to be without talent and be close to a fool than to be without virtue and be close to a villain." When selecting people, he did not like to use people who were official and boastful, and used "Morality is greater than talent" is the first key point of employment. He hired talented but ungrateful people and ended up causing great harm to himself at the last moment.
5. He once said: "Misfortune is caused by suspicion, which is a common problem in ancient and modern times. The destruction of the country, the loss of family members, and the death of people are all caused by suspicion." How to avoid being suspected as much as possible is also the reason. A university question. There is an idiom: "The melon field does not accept shoes, and the plums do not hold the crown", because it is easy to be suspected of stealing melons and picking plums.
6. Once said: "Knowing that the sky is long but what I have experienced is short, then when trouble comes, I should be less patient and wait for it to settle. Knowing that the earth is big but the place I live in is small, When encountering competition for glory and profit, you should give in to protect your own interests. If you know that there are many things to do and there are few things to do, you should not dare to be proud of your fame, but should think about promoting talents and working hard to achieve them. "So it is said to be a good person. It's better to be low-key than high-profile. Being a tortoise is better than being a hedgehog. A person with a tortoise personality will not have any mortal enemies. Even those who are hostile to him will eventually become his friends; while a person with a hedgehog personality will not have too many friends, because Everyone is afraid of messing with him.
7. He once said: "Since ancient times, there have been no sages who were enemies of the clan, village, and party." Therefore, the purpose of self-cultivation is nothing more than harmony. Internally, there is harmony between body and mind; externally, there is harmony with people and everything in heaven and earth. Confucius said: "Cultivation of one's self is to bring peace to others." To be a person who reassures the elderly, trusts friends, and respects young people is the pursuit of a saint. It is a big taboo to say that one does not recognize one's relatives.
8. He once said: "Military affairs are ever-changing. Whenever there is danger, doubt or shock, we should be clear-minded and determined, and we should not act too suddenly." Therefore, it is useless to slap someone in the face and throw a cup.
9. Once said: "The greater your self-esteem, the more you will see your inadequacy." Children love to show off and long for attention.
10. He once said: "Those who enjoy great fame without any real reason are bound to be in trouble." Therefore, even if you are famous, you must be able to hold it.