I think the other person answered: Oh.

1. He doesn’t want to continue communicating with you;

2. He is a little suspicious of what you say;

3. He doesn’t care about you and doesn’t respect you .

The adult world is full of undemanding responses. There is a Kuleshov effect in psychology. Everyone's understanding of the external world comes from inner projection, which is related to the emotion at that time. Therefore, learning to be indifferent is a kind of wisdom, which is a neutral attitude response and the performance of a wise man.

Coldness does not mean indifference, it is a neutral attitude in the face of human sophistication, because the inner value of a wise man is not to please others, but to improve himself and attract more people with his sense of value.

Being cold does not mean being unsociable. It means facing life, standing at the level of the whole and the system, dividing life into several dimensions such as work, study, life, etc., and comprehensively balancing each system without dividing each dimension. To achieve the ultimate, but to achieve overall balance, so every dimension can be carried out smoothly, and every aspect is not valued. Therefore, indifference is ability.

Being cold does not mean being noble. Excessive enthusiasm will make wary adults disrespect you. Excessive low self-esteem will make hopeful people stay away from you, because the adult world is very busy and no one pays attention to your happiness and anger. Sadness and joy are both busy growing up. Giving each other enough space and time means respecting each other's choices. This is the method and skill of growth.

The best principle of being brave enough to take responsibility is to handle everything with indifference, and be responsible for yourself, others, and life!

In chat, "Oh" can give people a perfunctory feeling. In order to avoid this embarrassment, people usually respond with "Oh" to show that they are listening carefully. Even so, "Oh" should be used sparingly because it can easily cut off the possibility of communication.

For example, when I am chatting with others, I am most afraid of the other person saying "oh". When I see "Oh", my brain automatically translates it as: I don't want to talk to you anymore, bye. Maybe the other party really doesn't want to talk anymore, but "oh" is lethal. It is precisely because of this that I rarely say "oh". I usually find a specific reason, such as "it's time to eat"... and the other party will understand you easily.

Why we say "Oh", there are roughly three reasons:

1. You really don’t want to talk

This is very common reason. However, if we often use "oh" when chatting, even if you have a valid reason but you have not told the other party, gradually the other party will feel that you don't want to chat with him at all, and he will gradually become unwilling to chat with you. . You will find that some people don't want to chat with you less and less. It's probably not their fault, but something wrong with you.

2. Maintain your perfect image

While "Oh" cuts off communication, it also gives you less chance to make mistakes. It's not that you really won't make mistakes, but that in the eyes of others, you are "cold".

Some people will think that they are perfect, or want to become perfect. But communication again and again may only expose your own imperfections. "Oh" cuts off communication, but invisibly maintains one's own image and brings a sense of satisfaction to oneself.

3. Use "Oh" to resist the feeling of being invaded.

When we are over-questioned, it is easy to feel invaded. For example, whenever you go home during the Chinese New Year, relatives will always come to greet you. To them, it is a sign of concern, but to you, it is likely that they are here to interrogate prisoners, such as, "Where do you work?" "Have you found a girlfriend?" "Would you like to introduce someone to you?"...

In order to deal with this sense of intrusion, you have to cut off communication. "Oh" has this effect. It directly shows the attitude to the other party, "I don't want to talk to you anymore, go away!".

I don’t quite understand what you mean by adding “oh” to what you said.

If you often add some catchphrases in the middle of your speech, such as: "Comrades, ah, our meeting today is arranged like this, ah..." If it is a catchphrase like this, it means The speaker is thinking about the following words while speaking, and the pause is for the purpose of thinking. Of course, it may also be a habit formed by long-term speaking.

If he always makes "oh" exclamations when talking to others, it is obvious that this "oh oh" is disrespectful and looks either perfunctory or sarcastic. Or just look stupid. When others say something to you, do you think you have never seen the world?

The correct approach should be to stare at the other person with full attention, show different expressions according to the content of the other person's words, and respond positively, promptly and correctly so as not to cause resentment.

Taiwan donated a batch of masks to Singapore, but Singapore did not express its gratitude. The official did not express their views on the matter, but the prime minister's wife said "oh" after hearing the news.

Judging from this incident, the meaning contained in the word "oh" neither expresses affirmation nor negation. It seems to mean "got it".

Some people like to add the word "oh" when speaking, which gives the impression that they have an ambiguous attitude and do not want to express their opinions clearly.

If someone responds to my question with just "oh", I'm definitely not satisfied with their answer.

There are usually the following reasons for saying "oh" in your words

1. I am not interested in your topic and want to end the topic as soon as possible

2. I am in a bad mood and don't want to Talk too much but feel embarrassed to show it directly

3 I am busy and don’t have time to reply to many messages, but I want to show that he has listened.

4 I don’t quite agree with your point of view, but I don’t want to argue with you

5 I’m angry and want you to feel it!

How should I put it? I personally feel that people who like to add oh in their words may have a cold psychological effect on the one hand. On the other hand, some people with this habit will suddenly break up in communication, so they can only use This is my response

Oh, the word "Oh" has a lot of meanings in today's Internet slang. Even though it is just one word, it has different meanings. The fourth sound of oh, the second sound of oh, and the third sound of oh have completely different meanings

Oh, it means you know it, and you feel a little absent-minded! Of course, it does not rule out that it is due to the habit of speaking. You have to look at the actual situation such as the identity of the person you spoke to to judge!