Arrogant people often have superior family conditions and a strong sense of superiority, so they think they are superior and exclusive, and think that "Laozi is the best in the world." Over time, he became cognitive illusions. He seemed to think that he was really good, and brought this illusion to the society and the relationship with others.

Extremely inferior.

People tend to show off what they lack more, and their inner lack needs to be satisfied by external behavior. Arrogant people often have inferiority complex, and he needs to satisfy his psychological needs through the attitudes of people around him to prove the value of his existence.

Revenge psychology:

Arrogant people often have a strong sense of revenge, which comes from his inner fear. In the process of growing up, they experienced few setbacks, or their families gave him everything he wanted, so he couldn't accept his failure and listen to opposition. Such people are likely to retaliate if they fail.

We know the psychological characteristics and causes of arrogance, so how to avoid it in the process of raising children?

First of all, I think parents should not be overprotective. Let children handle their own affairs, and don't be afraid of children making mistakes.

Secondly, don't praise children blindly. Appropriate criticism and punishment of children, children's ability to resist setbacks will be stronger. Don't give them everything they want, and know how to refuse appropriately. Show your attitude with principles and bottom lines.

I think, as long as parents don't overprotect their children, don't blindly satisfy their children, and give them room to grow up and opportunities to make mistakes, their children will certainly develop in the direction you expect.