God kissed a little girl on the cheek, and Hepburn was born.

Audrey Hepburn, a representative of elegance and perfection.

"How to maintain elegance and beauty?"

She answered -

"If you want beautiful lips, speak kind words; if you want lovely lips Eyes, you must see the good in others; you must have a slim figure, give your food to the hungry; you must have an elegant posture, and remember that you are not the only pedestrian when walking.”

This is Hepburn's elegance.

As for modern women, they are full of confidence, self-reliant and independent; they are not vulgar, blindly obedient, or ostentatious; they are kind and understanding, gentle but not trapped by love, and have an open mind.

This is their elegance. ?

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Elegance is the only beauty that never fades

Last weekend, Mr. Polar Bear and I were in the bookstore and ordered a copy Refreshments are served and the afternoon is spent.

Pick up a copy of Audrey Hepburn.

When mentioning Audrey Hepburn, we can’t help but think of beautiful words such as elegance, fashion, beauty and cultivation.

Playful elf, fashion queen, loving angel, she has multiple identities, but she is actually an ordinary woman who longs to love and be loved, and a great mother who is willing to give up her acting career for the sake of her family.

Audrey Hepburn was also a victim of World War II. She deeply realized that war would have a great impact and harm on people's lives.

In her later years, she became a UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador, helping children in Latin America and Africa, advocating, appealing and raising funds for these children...

One experienced World War II, but exuded the light of an angel.

Due to her unfortunate childhood experiences and the divorce of her parents in her original family, she lacked the love of a complete family. Although she encountered two unfortunate marriages, she still did not stop pursuing happiness.

She once said:

No matter what your occupation is, the desire for love is eternal. Everyone will search hard for a way to get love, my way is to wait.

"Of course I will not try to pick the moon, I want the moon to come to me." is her life motto.

As she famously said: Elegance is the only beauty that never fades. Her attire led the fashion trend of an era.

I think there is no girl who doesn’t like Hepburn. Every girl has at least one little black dress in her wardrobe.

Audrey Hepburn, a synonym for perfection and elegance. Calmness and elegance are her attitude towards life, and independence from the world is her life posture.

Just as I was immersed in the legendary life of Hepburn, my ears were interrupted by a sudden video interview conversation, and the elegant artistic conception suddenly burst like a bubble.

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Confidence and Elegance from Working Women On a high seat by the window of the bookstore, a petite lady about 30 years old straightened her upper body , facing the video on his mobile phone, he introduced himself with a skillful and fluent opening. It turned out to be a video interview.

My Bagua energy suddenly rose. (The following content is all true information, obtained from public audio)

From the conversation, we learned that this lady is from other provinces, graduated from the Chinese Department of Xiamen University, and now lives in Wuyuanwan Community on Xiamen Island (self-purchased house ). I have rich experience in brand promotion and implementation, and I am looking for a position as a brand planner...

The words "Wuyuanwan self-purchased house" are particularly beautiful. Even people from outside Xiamen know that. Housing prices in nearby areas are extremely high, ranging from RMB 70,000 to RMB 80,000 to RMB 100,000 per square meter.

Hearing this, I raised my head and looked at Mr. Polar Bear. I thought, I have a house, a car and children in Wuyuanwan, Xiamen. Instead of going out to look for a job, I might as well stay at home to support my husband and raise my children ( code words).

After chatting about basic information, a classic question came from the other end of the phone: Do you have children?

Ms. Answer: Yes...At this moment, I guess the interviewer in the video must have frowned inwardly.

Next, I believe you can all imagine that the topic they exchanged was #about how women in the workplace balance family and work, a problem of the century.

The lady said that there are elderly people at home helping to take care of the children. However, she hopes that her working hours will not be too busy and she would like to spend more time with her children. As expected, this is also a reasonable answer.

In the video, the interviewer gave her a suggestion: "If you want to find a job where you can clock in on time, you should take the civil service exam." The lady replied, I believe in my professionalism, and I would rather Work is more efficient.

After a few answers, even the bystanders could roughly understand the results of the interview. Although this situation is not surprising, it is really embarrassing to hear a real situation played out in public. 0?3

Life is more than elegance. I was flipping through this biography of Hepburn in my hand, and suddenly I felt a little ironic.

In life, we often hear many people telling us as people who have been through it, what we should do, what we should not do, and how we can not do it.

Hepburn told us that no matter life, we must always maintain an elegant posture and face it calmly. Even during the difficult period of World War II, Hepburn still adhered to her dream of being a prima ballerina and kept dancing. ballet.

She said, every time she dances, she always feels like there is a happy elf living in her body.

But if it were an ordinary woman, I don’t think she would be able to dance at all. Few people will have the good opportunities and capital to learn what they are interested in like Hepburn, let alone learn elegant ballet.

Some of them are athletes with strong arms; some are doctors and nurses. When the epidemic comes, they can only put their own safety aside and fight on the front line for the safety of the country; They have messy hair, and the fumes in the kitchen often make them look gray.

Poverty makes them exhausted by life before they have time to express themselves elegantly.

Even so, society has always been so strict on women in the workplace, requiring us to be able to write plans outside and do housework inside.

Use PPT in one hand and take care of the baby in the other. But the fact is that even Hepburn may not be able to fulfill this requirement.

Society wants women to have a slim figure like Hepburn, but it has not considered that the reason why Hepburn is so slim is due to the famine she suffered when she was young;

Society wants women to have a figure like Hepburn. They are noble and elegant, but they have not considered that most women have to run around in the complicated and trivial daily life of the family 24 hours a day, struggling in the secular life, and moving forward slowly.

However, even so, these women still did not complain.

They take care of their husbands and raise their children at home, and gain a podium outside. They love every scrap in life, whether it's their children's feces or their husband's cigarette butts, they will take it all even if they curse.

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?Being yourself is the best elegance

Hepburn is actually not that perfect, even though she is known as "God accidentally left behind" "Angel who fell into the world", Hepburn, who has a beauty admired by the whole world and a smashing career, has taken a break from acting many times for the sake of her family.

In real life, she is just like ordinary people. She also has to experience a failed marriage, has a bad relationship with her children, and her work is not smooth sailing. In "Roman Holiday", she I once made the director angry because he couldn't perform a crying scene.

She is just an elf-like and ordinary existence in the world.

And every woman, isn’t she the Hepburn in her own life?

Even if you have entered the middle-aged team now, or have become the most energetic member of the square dance.

Don’t forget, you were once an innocent and cute little girl who longed to grow up and secretly wore your mother’s high heels. You were also the princess with the sparkling crown at the wedding.

I saw a question online: After years of fighting with the world, how much courage does it take to be yourself?

Is it money, reputation, status or family that allows you to be yourself? Never.

Let us be ourselves and be responsible for our own choices, our own actions, our own desires, and our own lives.

Choice is everything.

If you choose to be independent, you will definitely experience ups and downs and be exposed to both open and covert attacks.

If you choose to change your life, you will surely break yourself and rebuild yourself in the mud of life.

When you choose to work, you must kill those comfortable thoughts and ensure absolute self-discipline.

If you choose a family, you must endure all the troubles life brings to you and accept all kinds of ups and downs.

I only hope that you and I will be lucky and have the confidence to choose what you choose and love what you choose.

Kant said: Freedom is not about being able to do what you want, but being free from doing anything you don’t want to do.

Yes, we fight all the way, not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing us. Finally, I want to say to girls all over the world:

You don’t have to be Hepburn, just be yourself.

Because being yourself is the best elegance.