Is it social fame?
Is wealth enviable?
No, happiness has little to do with success and wealth, accounting for only 20%.
Once our basic material needs are met, wealth can't help much.
After the IQ exceeds 1 10, it will no longer affect the income level; The economic and social status of the family also has little influence; It doesn't matter whether you are extroverted or introverted; A family history of alcoholism and depression is not a problem.
After nearly 80 years of biennial questionnaires and five-year interviews, hundreds of thousands of pages of survey data have been accumulated. Based on research analysis and opinion refinement, this survey of Harvard University tells us that winners in life need decathlon. Only two of the ten most important standards are related to income, four are related to good physical and mental health, and the four most important standards are related to warm, harmonious and intimate emotional relationships.
Although I didn't get the details of Decathlon, this concept had a great influence on me. Through my own exploration and summary, I have practiced among my classmates, and at the same time I have moved towards an open life.
The key to success in life:
After 80 years old, you must still be healthy and clear-headed. Naturally, those who don't live to 80 are not winners. Close relationship with children aged 60 to 75;
Between the ages of 65 and 75, there are other social relationships besides wives and children;
60-85 years old have a good marriage relationship;
The income level is in the top 25%.
A good intimate relationship is beneficial to our health and integrity, which not only protects our health, but also protects the memory of our brains. On the contrary, in middle age, their health will decline faster, their brain function will decline faster and their life expectancy will not be longer.
Love, warmth and intimacy will directly affect a person's "coping mechanism". Only good social relations can make us happy. Only those who are loved can love others. I often pass this on to students.
Xiaoli, a student in Xinjiang, was cured of cancer, but she never dared to face up to her illness. On the contrary, she was depressed. In her old world, it was gray, and now I tell her that there is a rainbow between black and white. She was activated and awakened in the easy circle. I have been encouraged, supported, embraced and loved by many people. She felt that everyone reached out and rescued her from the cold and dark sea water, waking her up again and again, having the power of rebirth, climbing ashore, bringing love home, bringing it to her family, and making them feel that she has changed, becoming gentle, positive and sunny.
I knock on the blackboard to tell you that this is very important:
Good relationships can also affect wealth. According to a study, people who are close to their mothers earn an average of 500,000 yuan more each year. Those who love their brothers and sisters have an average annual salary of 350,000. It turns out that money is earned by parents, brothers and sisters!
When you were young, you and most people valued success and wealth more. But as time goes by, research shows that the people who develop best are those who put their energy into relationships, especially family, friends and people around them.
Now you can imagine your life after retirement. When you are old and look back on your life, you will find that there are still many people who miss you when you are old, with close partners, children and mutually supportive social relations. That's the real winner in life.
Therefore, real time management is life management, which is based on a happy life winner.
From the end, next, I will share the decathlon of winners in life:
There are two things related to money, which I think are the ability to make money and the realization of wealth freedom.
Four are related to physical and mental health: I think it is the ability to preserve health and prolong life, time management, space freedom and spiritual freedom.
Four items are related to emotional relationships: I think they are the ability to love, interpersonal network, influence in life and sense of mission.
1, the ability to make money
Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without it. A good job is rewarding, or the success of starting a business benefits from business happiness and enjoys it with the team. In addition to business income, you need to generate more profits for your enterprise through the operation, investment and financing troika, so as to maximize the income and minimize the cost. Over the past ten years, through the experience of study, entrepreneurship, finance, law and finance, I have mastered the business philosophy and methods of making a steady profit without losing money.
Do you think this is important? What will your life be like with this ability?
2, the ability of financial freedom
When I was young, I had good health, strong ability, high income and high expenditure. You will stop studying slowly, you will get old and have no energy to work, but your expenses will increase with your illness. Many athletes and stars end up in poverty. The reason is that there is no investment and financial management ability.
Therefore, when you are young, you must start to learn the ability of investment and financial management, stay away from financial risks, establish the thinking of long-term compound interest, give up short-term arbitrage, gain long-term passive income by investing in fixed assets and intellectual property rights, and realize wealth freedom.
I think this is more important than making money. Do you understand the relationship between income, expenditure, assets and responsibilities in life? The poor spend time making money for consumption, while the average person makes money for investing in liabilities and spends money for consumption. The rich invest in intellectual assets, realizing the cash flow of assets for expenditure without working. The ultimate goal of work is not to make money, but to help others.
This is a science. Find a tutor, you need to take the time to master it.
Step 3 be healthy
This is the most important thing, everyone knows, right? But how many people really understand that Li Ka-shing's wealth increased by 38% a year when he was in his 90s, and 90% of Buffett's money was earned after his 60s. Longevity is the key, but keeping healthy is an important ability and a habit and lifestyle. Countless people have no time to pay attention to health and overdraw their health. Practice shows that finding an efficient and slow lifestyle can make you healthy, maintain your weight, avoid smoking and drinking, get better sleep and a more balanced diet, and importantly, help you establish lifelong exercise habits. The ability to keep healthy is often related to a person's self-discipline.
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4. Time management
Drucker said that the first priority of self-management is time management. You must master the ability of time management, find and develop your own advantages, and learn to focus, so that you can get 16 times the efficiency of life. At the same time, only by finding the right long-term life direction, clarifying the work focus and reducing the working hours can we have time to slow down the pace of life, achieve a healthy and long life, and then support more people. You need the ability to act, plan and reflect, and turn it into the inside.
5. Freedom of space
To be successful and rich, you need creativity and imagination more and more. You must have knowledge, which is the foundation of creativity and imagination. Knowledge comes not only from reading. Reading thousands of books, taking Wan Li Road and reading countless people are definitely the only way in life. The world is a book. You must have the ability to travel, travel to hundreds of countries, study in thousands of books and take the Wan Li Road, and your life will be more successful. I have been to 5 1 countries and regions, traveling while working, and giving a broad life map.
The world is a mystery. I am a cornucopia, and I am immortal. I learned a lot of information, resulting in asymmetry and poor information, and even mastered unique cheats, so I can fly all over the world at a low price. Maybe I can lift a finger for something that is still difficult for you to ascend to heaven. Make friends with me and have fun in this world together.
6. Freedom of thought
Nihara, who has lived 105 years old, said in the book "Live Well" that there are many beautiful things in the world that can be seen, but there are also many precious things that are invisible to the naked eye. These invisible things can really enrich our lives and make me feel happy. It is sad to pursue fame and wealth blindly.
In today's world, I find that many people have money, but they don't manage themselves, wasting countless foods and articles, and there are mountains of offices at home. Even making money has become the instinct of many people. As everyone knows, some people don't even need that much money all their lives.
Actually, it doesn't cost that much. Letting go is also an ability. It is very important to return to the spiritual world and gain spiritual freedom. Do you realize that?
7, the ability to love
A good sense of relationship will make people happier. Facts have proved that people who are more closely connected with family, friends and people around them are happier, healthier and live longer than those who are not closely connected. What matters is not the number of friends, but the quality of emotional relationships, especially intimate relationships. Your relationship with your parents, your spouse and your children is very congenial, which is the king of long-term coexistence.
Too many people spend too much energy and time to hold grudges and envy others. From trivial matters, we constantly grow each other's negative energy and resentment and blame each other for things that are not worth mentioning. For those closest to us, most people take it for granted that based on trust and love, the other person will eventually forgive us.
It's actually wrong. Love is accepting the truest of her. When you accept it, you will further discover the advantages of the other party. And appreciate each other.
There is no doubt that the sooner you find and perfect your most trusted emotional relationship. It contains love, friendship and affection, which will greatly increase your chances of becoming a "winner in life". When Mark Twain reviewed his life more than 100 years ago, he wrote: "Life is too short for us to quarrel, apologize and grieve. We only have time to love. 」
Knowing the meaning of life, knowing how to love and be loved, dealing with interpersonal relationships and facing difficulties are the skills you must master.
8, interpersonal network
On the stage of life, true friends need to have the same interests and experiences and help each other in difficulties. In addition to strong links, weak links are actually more important to career and wealth. There are many weak links, which cross borders and bring information and wealth. If you have excellent interpersonal skills and make friends from all walks of life around the world, you will soon gain world knowledge, not through the Internet, but from different cultural countries, which is asymmetric and has great wealth value.
My happiness comes from my global network. For example, today I can successfully start classes in more than a dozen countries and regions. Even the venues are free and there is no office. These are the results of the help of fans and classmates. Before 20 17, my social relations overseas were almost zero, and now I have countless friends. My numerous achievements have been achieved through social forces in weak links, including the opening of the Himalayas for three years, the successful holding of business courses in the bud last year, and the successful chartering of boats in Antarctica at the beginning of this year.
Have you mastered the strength of the weak link?
9. Influence
Many people often tell me that it is better to do things faster by yourself. In fact, an accomplished person should not only improve himself, but also live a wonderful life. Although this is the first thing to do, to achieve greater success, you must build a team and have the ability to influence their success. You must have the strength of personality and master comprehensive public communication skills. Self-discipline, love and results. You must have language skills such as writing and speaking, and learn to use the power of the Internet and new media to provide valuable information and knowledge and help others.
10, find the mission of life
Besides money, oneself, family, friends and freedom of time and space, the most important strength in life comes from a person's sense of social responsibility. We should cherish those who are kind to us and make ourselves colorful. It's not that you are colorful, but that people who know you will be happier, because you are colorful and everyone is happy! The ultimate need of life is self-realization, not the bottom material. I found my mission in life and helped 100 million people improve their efficiency. I can help more people.
Let me see the meaning of life. The so-called great men will cherish their lives and know how to be grateful. Great men don't just want more, but think more about how to use what they have. Besides, they are willing to give their time to others. Zuckerberg said that instinct and intuition can help you find your goals, but the mission will make you more motivated. Do a meaningful, advantageous and happy career, and your mind will be integrated with the world.
You should also find your own mission in life and make the world a better place together!
These are ten abilities that I think are very important. It is also the significance of doing a good job in time management.