Introduction: Children are the hope of the family and the source of happiness for parents. Every family tries its best to provide its children with the most abundant material and the most selfless love. Today's children are overprotected by their parents, have abundant material life, and are fragile in heart. They are resisted by their parents when encountering difficulties, cannot bear any grievance, and have a "glass heart". When you are accused or criticized by teachers or others, you feel that your self-esteem is damaged, and your heart is on the verge of collapse.
Parents only accompany the children for a period of time as they grow up. Not everyone they meet in the future will be as doting and obedient as their parents. In the face of blows and difficulties, they have a clear direction and enough courage to face them. Only then can we move forward courageously. Li Meijin in "The Round Table School" once proposed: Parents should teach their children to be thick-skinned from an early age, that is, to have "setback education".
In "Family with Children", the naughty child Liu Xing is a typical shameless person. Teachers don't love him, his parents don't love him, he is a bully, and other children can't stand the criticism and neglect. Liu Xing Can handle it all with ease.
Even his mother Liu Mei said: I admire Liu Xing. Every time he makes a mistake, he knows that he will be criticized when he comes back, but he still comes home on time. No matter how scolded him, he will not run away from home. Liu Xing can scold him anyway. Thick skin. After being hit again and again, Liu Xing used humor to resolve the situation and brought fun to everyone. His heart was strong enough.
Thick-skinned children don’t care much about other people’s opinions and won’t be depressed by criticism. They quickly put unpleasant things behind them and can adjust their status at any time. If you are thin-skinned and unwilling to face failure, the criticism of others will make you feel uneasy and even lead to self-denial or extreme behavior.
Usually when children encounter failures and make mistakes, if they are scolded excessively, they can only make the children have low self-esteem and become sensitive. They will become afraid of things in the future, worry about failure, and worry about being criticized. Parents should encourage him more and find ways together to let him understand that there are ways to solve difficulties and criticisms, improve his ability to deal with blows, and cultivate a strong heart.
In an interview, Sa Beining, a well-known CCTV host, was asked by the host Li Jing about his experience as the director of a radio station at Peking University: He had just arrived at Peking University from high school and did not understand each other. Radio director, how were your talents discovered? You can't recommend it yourself, right? Sa Beining said: I just raised my hand myself, I am a relatively thick-skinned person. Not everyone who raised their hands could be accepted, but I was the only one who raised their hands.
The "Today's Statement" column went to Beijing to be the host of the election. Because she was busy filming a drama at the time, Sa Beining missed the interview opportunity. Unwilling to give in, he called the producer of the column. Unexpectedly, he actually got an interview for himself and finally entered the stage of CCTV. Without the opportunity to fight for himself, Sa Beining had the shamelessness to take on challenges and faced difficulties, opening up a path to success for himself.
Shameless children dare to think and do. As long as they have a goal, there is no hesitation or embarrassment, only action. No matter what the result is, those who dare to challenge will have more chances of success than others.
A child with a thick skin will not be indifferent even if he is not afraid to get along with strangers. He is very comfortable and happy to get along with such a child, so a child with a thick skin can easily make friends and be popular. .
Parents should take their children to public places more often, teach them more skills in getting along with and communicating with others, and exercise their expression skills. Good social skills will be advantages in future study and career.
In "The Exciting Offer", Zhan Qiuyi failed in the chief intern selection competition. Lawyer Shi analyzed and gave advice: You have strength, but you are not good at showing yourself.
Later, Zhan Qiuyi changed from being "shy" to "shameless" and performed well in lawyer negotiations and debate competitions. A child with a thick skin will not be shy and has the courage to show himself and let everyone see his advantages, which is fighting for opportunities.
Some children are embarrassed to refuse in the face of other people's unreasonable demands, putting themselves in a dilemma and increasing their burden and pressure. A child who is thick-skinned will be brave enough to say "no" when faced with other people's demands that go against his or her own heart and abilities. In the process of growing up, parents should not let their children share against their wishes for the sake of so-called politeness. They should follow their hearts and children have the freedom to say "no".
Thick-skinned is not always a derogatory term. A child with thick skin has courage, the ability to resist setbacks, and the courage to show himself. They can recognize themselves and will not be knocked down by failure and external criticism. Such children are more likely to get opportunities, win success, and live happily.
Random Thoughts:
Life is like a marathon. We all start together and persevere until the end to be the winner. A cheeky child has few worries and only has to move forward courageously. Live a simple and real life and follow your heart. Yes, that’s what every parent wants their children to do.