As the saying goes: Silence is golden.

Speaking is instinctive for a person, but learning to shut up is a person's ability.

In this world, speaking is an art. Saying something to any person on any occasion is a kind of wisdom and a manifestation of high emotional intelligence.

People often say that you don’t have to say everything to know someone, but leave three points for others. Many times, keeping silent appropriately can better demonstrate a person's wisdom and cultivation.

Since ancient times, there has been a famous aphorism: "Disease enters through the mouth, and disaster comes out of the mouth." Warning people to be careful in their words and deeds so as not to make mistakes.

But with the progress of the times, it is undeniable that a person who is good at expressing and talking will often be liked by everyone and can even stand out in the crowd, but we cannot ignore the silent important.

Silence is also a kind of expression. Silence here is worse than sound. If you are not sure whether saying this sentence will make people happy, it is better to remain silent.

Wise silence and not talking nonsense are actually a kind of high emotional intelligence.

There is a famous line in the movie "Casablanca": "Now your temperament hides the road you have traveled, the books you have read and the people you have loved." And from a person's words , in fact, you can see his cultivation.

Getting along between people actually relies on communication. A person who can talk can speak with just the right temperature, which will warm people, will not hurt others, and will make people can't help but talk to them. Keep talking.

It must be said that people who can really speak can always make others feel very comfortable, and at the same time, they can also demonstrate a person's inner cultivation.

A truly cultivated person will not judge others at will, nor will he maliciously slander. Instead, he will keep an appropriate distance, remain silent, and not interfere too much in other people's lives.

As the saying goes: Guard your mouth when in a group, guard your heart when alone.

Regarding silence, it is not only a kind of respect for a person, but also a reflection of one's own cultivation and a kind of self-protection.

People who are truly smart and have great wisdom can always silently improve their self-worth and make themselves more outstanding while remaining silent.

Someone once said: Among all skills, the most cost-effective is to remain silent. Keeping silent is sometimes a manifestation of self-cultivation, and it is also the wisdom of knowing how to deal with others.

Therefore, when talking to others, you should be able to talk, talk less, and maintain appropriate silence.

But it’s easier said than done. In real life, some people can’t control their mouths. They always try to express themselves through their words regardless of the occasion or the target. But once you use too much force, you will push yourself into a desperate situation. Rather than making too many mistakes, it is better to keep silent.

The "Tao Te Ching" says: Words of faith are not beautiful, good words are not believed; good people do not argue, and debaters are not good. People with a rich heart never live in other people's eyes or in other people's mouths.

Truly wise people understand the power of language, remain restrained and silent, and understand that talking too much will lead to mistakes.

Silence does not mean knowing nothing, but knowing that silence is a quiet power, the best witness of time, and the top wisdom in communication between people.

In interpersonal communication, in addition to speaking, we must also know how to shut up and listen. When getting along with others, in addition to making ourselves comfortable, we must also consider the feelings of others. If a person chatters all the time, it will not make people think that you are eloquent, but will make people feel disgusted.

Communication is a matter of two people, not a one-man show. Stopping at the right time, keeping silent, and listening to other people's words is a way of doing things, a good cultivation of a person, and a manifestation of a person's wisdom.