1. Do subtraction.
When many children were just children, their parents enrolled them in various extracurricular classes. Chinese crash course, math rocket class, English hurricane class, violin key class, aerobics experimental class and so on. Children have little time to do what they like. Are you interested in this? Therefore, parents can't impose their will on their children and let them fulfill their childhood dreams. Instead, we should do subtraction and give children free time to do what they like, even if they really study grave robbery. Maybe this child will become an archaeologist of the motherland in the future.
2. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude
Children nowadays basically have their own hobbies. Our parents can encourage their children to combine their hobbies with the cultural knowledge of a certain subject. I used to have a classmate in high school who especially liked small animals and often got cockroaches, turtles and the like. However, his own education level is limited, and such a long-lived animal as the tortoise has been raised to death by him. The child's father followed the child to catch small animals, knocked him unconscious and brought him home. He also bought Buffon's book for the child. Children soon became interested in biology. Although they were criticized for bringing snakes into the classroom to scare the teachers, children's biology has always been the best.
Trace the source
There are many reasons why children don't like studying. Few people are born to hate learning, and their hearts beat faster when they see books. The reason why some children don't like learning recently is probably very simple, such as being criticized by teachers in class or criticizing teachers in class. For example, the exam was too bad, or the deskmate did too well, and so on. At this time, we should take the initiative to communicate with our children. You can't extort a confession by torture, scare children into confessing leniency and resisting strictness, or confess leniency and resisting strictness. After the child confesses, no matter how ridiculous the reason is, we should not laugh, but try to solve the problem quickly.
listen attentively to
When entering the new grade, children will feel strange about everything, so they will be willing to share it with their parents when they get home. For example, the head teacher is a melon-faced, or inverted melon-faced, or claw-faced. For example, there are many interesting clubs in the school-choir, dance troupe, boxer and so on. At this time, parents should listen patiently and discuss with their children. This is a very good political signal for children, and they will have a great sense of accomplishment.
5. Desk
Children need a quiet and clean learning environment. Few people can study in downtown, do their homework in the vegetable market and recite words in front of mala Tang stalls like Chairman Mao. Some children have no closed environment. Whenever he began to study, his father began to see where his father was going, and his mother began to take out her mobile phone to kill zombies, so that the children had no intention of studying.
Some children eat a lot on their desks, from Zhang Junya's little sister to two pieces together, which is the best benefit. Some children do problems while listening to music. The desktop is like a garbage collection station that has been abandoned for many years, and it is full of piles. They tried to find an eraser and rummaged through everything, but they couldn't find it in the end. Such a learning environment and venue is unacceptable.
strike a proper balance between work and rest
Now some parents don't expect much from their children, as long as they are as tireless as the ancients. Therefore, some parents will extend their children's study time at will, such as studying for two hours and taking a three-minute break. People's attention is limited by time. If people's orientation is not accurate, it is likely to make children feel disgusted and disgusted with learning, and finally they want to vomit when they hear the word learning. In this case, even if they sit in the study, they are still and their hearts are far away.