I have seen a very insightful concept called "good times management".

What it means is that when people are going particularly well, they must suppress their own momentum.

When a person is going smoothly, it is easy to get carried away. Once he becomes unsteady, he is very likely to go astray.

A smooth journey is a blessing, but if you stay in good times for too long, you will ignore potential risks.

Italian General Joubert once said: "When people are most proud, they often have the greatest misfortune."

The most difficult thing in life is to be able to do something in the highlight moment. Not arrogant or arrogant.

Only when things are going well but not floating, and when you are full but not overflowing, can you be called sober in the world.

During Wu Zetian's period, Lou Shide was appointed prime minister, and his younger brother was also promoted. Lou Shide was worried that his family would be too glorious and would attract the jealousy of others.

So he said to his newly promoted younger brother: "What will you do if someone spits in your face?"

The younger brother replied: "Don't worry, elder brother, even if someone spits on your face, what will you do?" Spit on my face, I wiped it myself, and didn’t care about it.”

However, when Lou Shide heard this, he said: “This is exactly what I am most worried about!”

The younger brother looked helpless: "What should we do?"

Lou Shide said: "You should smile at the person who spits on you and show acceptance until the spittle dries up on its own."

This is the origin of the idiom "it's easy to do it".

Although Lou Shide holds a high position, he has no edge in his conduct.

The more things go smoothly, the more important it is to behave in a low-key manner and do things in a high-profile manner.

The biggest enemy is not the people who make things difficult for you, but the uncool yourself.

Looking back at reality, many people become complacent and self-righteous after they have just achieved some results, and ultimately end up with the fate of "if morality is not matched, there will be consequences".

Bai Juyi wrote in "Taihang Road": "The difficulty of traveling is not in the water or the mountains, but in the changing of human relationships."

Life is impermanent, we never know, next What happens in a moment.

In the face of various life situations, only when you are proud and don't lose your composure when you are frustrated can you move forward steadily.