Look at this:

First of all, master the fox's "sour grapes" philosophy.

The fox said that it would be sour if he didn't eat grapes, but it was actually a wise move. His departure can only show that he doesn't know how to cherish, not that you are not good enough. Since he doesn't love you, what's the point of picking that sour grape reluctantly? He does not belong to you. Think of it as sour grapes. No matter how good he is, not loving you is the biggest disadvantage for you.

Second, learn to forget and learn to wait.

Time is the best therapeutic tool. As long as you live, no matter how serious the injury is, it will heal one day. Of course, the premise is that you don't open the wound while shouting pain. So don't believe the nonsense that it takes a minute to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. After being lovelorn, what you have to do is to continue to do your job well. Don't refuse your friend's invitation. Cry loudly if you want to cry, and revel if you want to play. Waiting for one day, when you think of that vague name again, you have almost forgotten his appearance, and there is no ripple in your heart. Well, then you can.

Third, we should look at the beginning and end of a relationship with a normal heart.

We should treat gathering and parting with a normal heart. It takes two hands to make a sound. Love is a matter for two people. After it's over, both sides are responsible. Resentment, regret and accusation are useless, let alone kowtowing in front of men with runny nose and tears. It is useless and will make you miserable. When he turns away, the earth is still turning, the sun rises and sets every day, and your life goes on. Anyone can live without it.

1 Don't give up on yourself.

How stupid it is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes.

Don't keep his things.

Don't be reluctant, I hope to leave a souvenir. I still remember my head when people leave.

The old saying "out of sight, out of mind" is not spoken casually, it is a kind of honed wisdom.

Don't go where you often go.

Don't try to be friends with him.

I will never believe the story that lovers can't be friends.

After two people who once loved each other let them break up, they can be pure as water from now on.

Either they are playing adult fairy tales that deceive themselves, or they have ulterior motives, hoping to turn the tide and mend fences.

Don't rush to start a relationship again.

At this time, you don't know whether you really love or are eager to fill it, which is unfair to you and him.

Don't stay alone.

Talk to friends, party in crowded places, and put yourself in a cheerful crowd, and your sadness will recover faster.

7 don't retaliate.

If you can find your own happiness from now on, why not live a hard life?

Even if you hurt yourself, he still lives well, no longer loves you, no longer pities you. Even if he will regret it all his life, is it still meaningful to you?

Don't look back.

A good horse will never turn his back on the grass. It's really the last lesson of our ancestors. If you want to hang yourself in the forest, why do you always hang yourself in the tree?

Finally, I ended with a sentence from Duras: We can not love, but don't lose the ability to love.

Therefore, we should keep in mind our "love ability" and confidently wait for the upcoming relationship when the new Prince Charming arrives.