My happiest time every night is reading "Five Thousand Years of China" with my mother. My mother and I jumped into the long river of Chinese history. This long river started with the creation of Pangu, flowed through the farmland of the Yan and Huang emperors, flowed through the urban stations in the prosperous Han and Tang Dynasties, and flowed through Genghis Khan's golden horse...
My mother said that she liked the Tang Dynasty the most, because during this period China was one of the most prosperous countries in the world, and also one of the most free and open countries in the world. This can be seen from the Tang Dynasty period. Reflected in clothing. But what I like most is the Spring and Autumn and Warring States periods when there were so many talented people.
The Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period were the heyday of talented people in Chinese history, with civil servants and generals emerging in endlessly. I never get tired of hearing stories such as "Withdrawing from three homes", "Bearing a thorn to plead guilty", "Jing Ke assassinating the King of Qin", and "Yan Zi's mission to Chu" is my favorite story, because I admire Yan Zi very much. An outstanding diplomat of the period. Although he is short in stature, he is smart, virtuous, astute, and eloquent. He can complete the mission well every time he goes to various vassal states. Because Yan Zi was short in stature, he was ridiculed and molested by King Chu Ling when he was sent to Chu State. However, Yan Zi won the sincerity of King Chu Ling with his quick wit and good reasoning, so Qi and Chu became friendly countries. .
My mother told me: Through the story of Yanzi, we should understand the truth that "people cannot be judged by their appearance, and sea water cannot be measured", and it also reflects Yanzi's valuable qualities of loving the motherland and resolutely safeguarding the dignity of the country.
Mom's remarks
The famous psychologist Li Zixun once said: "Playing and listening to stories are the two cornerstones of children's intellectual development." The family education book "A Good Mother is Better than a Good Mother" Teacher Yin Jianli, the author of "Teacher", likens extracurricular reading to a "magic wand". Once a child is clicked by it, he will become smarter and have more potential in learning and talent. Therefore, I paid great attention to Qin Zheng’s extracurricular reading when he was very young. When he was in preschool, the CD of the "Children's Pictorial" that I ordered for him contained many stories about historical figures. I have read stories such as "Tian Ji's Horse Racing" countless times and memorized them by heart. This reminded me that I wanted to read Chinese history with him. I know that reading history makes people wise, because history contains experience and true knowledge. Learning history will help him understand yesterday, grasp today, and create tomorrow!
Every night before going to bed, Qin Zheng and I read "Five Thousand Years of China" together, and this habit has never stopped. I held the book and pointed at the words and read line by line. He sat next to me and listened so intently. Sometimes I deliberately mispronounce a word, and my son can spot my mistake and point it out. Through this kind of parent-child reading, Qin Zheng not only learned historical knowledge, but also learned many Chinese characters, which can be described as "killing two birds with one stone."
I hope more families will pay attention to their children's reading, let books become another partner of their children, and make reading a way of life for us. No matter how busy we parents are at work, we can spare even ten minutes every night to read their favorite stories or popular science knowledge with our children, so that our children can fall asleep with sweetness. This is also our happiness and responsibility as parents!
When I close the book "Little Doudou by the Window", the cute figure of Little Doudou seems to be in front of me, which reminds me of my childhood, the carefree and happy time. We are full of curiosity about everything, let us explore the world and discover problems bravely. Life is so happy, but growing up is so difficult!
The book "Little Doudou by the Window" looks at the world from the perspective of a child. Her daily life, her weird thoughts and unexpected behaviors have to make us adults understand. I feel ashamed that when we look at things that children do as naughty and mischievous from an adult perspective, children are interacting with us and communicating with adults with their pure hearts. Fortunately, in Xiao Doudou's world, there are two understanding adults - Mr. Xiao Lin and Xiao Doudou's mother.
The book focuses on Mr. Xiaolin, the principal of Ba Academy. His unique children's education method enables children to grow up healthily, develops their nature, and guides them to become loving, compassionate, confident, and strong people. Make friends with children, understand their incredible ideas, and guide them, so that the experience in school will be remembered by the children. What moved me the most was that every time he had lunch, he always called "the taste of the mountains, the taste of the sea" in the restaurant, and always designed countless interesting activities to arouse the children's emotions and learn while playing. , break through the shackles of one's own thoughts, show oneself boldly, forget one's own shortcomings, let children with physical disabilities forget their misfortunes, and dare to fight hard, and the prizes they get are all kinds of vegetables for the children to take home. , cooked by mom, and eating their own war products on the dinner table, let the children understand that hard work will be rewarded! Thinking of this, I seemed to be having a conversation with Mr. Xiaolin, learning from him the methods of educating children, allowing myself to see them from the perspective of children, and I discovered how cute, how kind, and how kind those naughty and troublemakers are. The difference!
After talking about Mr. Xiaolin, I must talk about another character, Xiaodoudou’s mother. Whenever something happens to Xiaodoudou, her mother is always silently supporting her and never watering Xiaodoudou. Doudou's cold water always listened patiently to Xiaodoudou's explanations. He never blamed Xiaodoudou for his ignorance. Instead, he let the children try it first to feel the real world and the differences of everyone!
By reading this book, although we cannot take "Ba Xueyuan" home, we can create the atmosphere of Ba Xueyuan at home, and from then on we will abandon the parents' coat and no longer yell at the children. , no longer always doubt their children, no longer let their children be downcast because of their grades, comprehensively analyze their children's strengths and weaknesses, point out their shortcomings objectively and realistically, and give them the opportunity to make up for their mistakes. I believe that our children are the most Great children, I believe they can bravely face daily progress and failure.
Finally, I believe that as long as each of us opens our hearts, truly makes friends with our children, and gives them a just world, every child will have their own Ba Academy.
Mom’s Remarks
When I read the novel "Little Doudou by the Window" by the famous Japanese writer Kuroyanagi Tetsuko, I felt a lot. It tells a true story when the author was in primary school. The author came to Ba Academy after being expelled from his original school for being naughty. Under the love and guidance of Principal Xiao Lin, Xiao Doudou, who was considered "weird" by ordinary people, gradually turned into a child that everyone can accept, and laid the foundation for her life.
The best thing about Ba College is that it teaches students to respect others and themselves. This is what we advocate now, "Love others, love yourself." But the principal has truly realized this.