The most impressive sentence I have ever heard is: In marriage, changing yourself is God, changing the other person is crazy. This is a practice for two people, which requires the efforts and management of both parties.

There are two things to do in marriage.

First: Try to meet the needs of the other person in the relationship.

You should remember that the same sex is different from the same sex, and the difference between the same sex and the opposite sex is even greater, so what your partner wants most in a relationship is a very important question.

Don’t guess, just ask him.

The second thing: your husband and wife should make money, take care of housework, take care of daily food, and your wife should also take care of her body, but. If you do the above points, the other party will not love you too much, but if you do not do well, the other party will hate you. Many wives mistakenly believe that as long as they take care of the housework, take care of their daily diet, and take care of their body and appearance, they will be satisfied and love her very much. Many husbands believe that as long as they make a lot of money, their wives will be satisfied and love them very much. The answer is no.

Many people enter a relationship, whether dating or getting married, first expecting high-quality returns and then making high-quality efforts.

In fact, on the contrary, we should calculate high-quality returns first, and then high-quality returns will appear naturally.

So a mature view of love is one of the important factors in achieving marriage.

Immature people tend to cater to each other in love and at the same time be self-centered in love.

Cannot control their emotions, do not understand the differences between each other and themselves, and like to impose their own values ????on each other;

If such a person cannot always learn to mature in love , he often makes a relationship fail.

In an intimate relationship, true maturity is to see oneself from the dissatisfaction with others and to understand the other person from one's own weaknesses.

In this way, when we no longer change each other according to our own requirements, love will naturally flow between two people.