People with deep talent are not always silent, but have the following five manifestations.
First, look on coldly
The ancient Roman philosopher epiktetos once said, "What matters is not what happened, but your reaction."
According to common sense, when a person sees something unexpected, he can't help but exclaim. When you meet a surprise, you will be proud; If you suffer a painful thing, you will find someone to complain.
people have a direct reaction to the change of things. Ugly face, frown, exaggerated gestures and strange eyes all reflect people's inner activities and views on the outside world.
People who are very shrewd will also impose a cover-up on their expressions when they are silent-they should change with the constant.
the authorities are confused, but the onlookers see clearly. People standing on the periphery, although far away from the "scene", can eliminate the interference of others and find the truth of the matter.
Second, do things tactfully
There is a saying on the Internet: "Life is like a pencil that you keep using. It is sharp at first, but it gradually becomes smooth. However, it is not good to be too smooth, which means that it is almost time to be cut. "
A novice likes to sing high-profile and highlight himself. After several setbacks and ridicule, he will keep a low profile and hide his thoughts.
what you know is what you know, and what you don't know is what you don't know. It is "ignorant" not to analyze the ins and outs of things thoroughly. At this time, when you speak, there will be deviations.
people are living in the cracks. The more prominent you are, the easier it is to be calculated.
our ancestors advised us to "shoot a bird with a gun". You can live more freely by hiding yourself in the crowd.
People with deep talent have been erased by life and found a way to survive in society. He lives a good life, but he is humble, not high above, and not self-deprecating.
However, people who are too tactful are prone to make the mistake of "being too clever for being too clever". He always escapes when his interests are damaged, but when he is two-faced and too smart in interpersonal communication, it is annoying. Therefore, people with deep talent are tactful and have the initiative to take responsibility and distinguish right from wrong.
Third, be good at hiding
You can find the car along the rut; Follow the footprints, you can find people; Along the smoke, you can find houses and villages; Follow the stream, you can find the river ...
The wind comes and goes without a trace, but it can be found on the leaves.
it is not easy for a person to hide himself. As the saying goes, the fox's tail is always exposed.
people with deep talent can't completely erase the traces of life, but hide important information by distracting others' attention and creating new traces, so as not to let others grasp the handle.
"Small is hidden in the wild, big is hidden in the city". The master walks in the street, but lives a clean life without being disturbed.
Fourth, never make intimate friends
As the ancients said, "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water."
A true good friend is a plain communication, and does not need to interfere with each other's life and career excessively. Even if you don't contact for several years, you can still help your friends when they are in trouble.
friends who often get together to eat and drink, friends who like it in the circle of friends every day, and friends who chat in a group, will "go their separate ways" at the critical moment. Friendship cannot stand the test.
People with deep talent have few friends, but the quality of making friends is very high. For the sake of friends, I can do anything.
many people think that people with deep talent are very insidious and cunning, and they should avoid them when they meet. Actually, it's not like this. Being shrewd is an attitude towards life and wisdom in dealing with people. This attitude gives others the impression that it is "very quiet and always in the dark".
however, you have to believe that people with deep talent will not hurt others casually.
However, people with deep talent would rather have no friends than make friends casually. He prefers to be alone and be himself.