From the first time I saw Gu Qingyu send Shi Yuan home in the alley in front of her house, Gu Qing Yu became the daughter-in-law of the Shi family. My mother's dislike of Gu Qingyu was written on her face and engraved in her heart.
At first, I thought Shi Mu was just worried about her son who was not good enough in all aspects, so she couldn't hold this high-ranking daughter-in-law, so she didn't agree that Gu Qingyu was a good match for Shi Yuan's marriage.
With the development of the plot, I found that Shi Mu's feelings for Gu Qingyu could not be expressed by a simple "dislike".
After watching Shi Mu's three superb performances, I gradually understood why Shi Mu had such complicated feelings for the nearly perfect Gu Qingyu.
One month after marriage, Gu Qingyu volunteered to visit her in-laws, but at first Shi Yuan refused his wife's request for various reasons.
In the end, Shi Yuan played hardball in front of his mother, and Shi's mother reluctantly agreed to Gu Qingyu's request.
Gu Qingyu feels that she is married to love. Even though Shi Mu is a difficult mother-in-law, it will not be a stumbling block to their love and marriage.
She really thinks that as long as she works hard and uses her sincere heart, she will be able to influence her mother-in-law and win her mother-in-law's favor.
So after stepping into her husband's family's door, she tried to lower herself, was cautious and forced to smile and said insincere words. Gu Qingyu really underestimated the mind of this "evil" mother-in-law.
When Yu Gang of Gu Qing entered the door, Shi Fu stood up with a big smile and warmly welcomed his daughter-in-law who had just passed the door, while Shi Mu always showed a look of love and disregard.
In the face of all kinds of flattery, Shi Mu still has a strange look and puts on a cold face to respond.
Shi's father called his daughter-in-law Xiao Gu, while Shi's mother kept calling "Miss Gu", which was obviously that Shi's mother was declaring war on Gu Qingyu, and she didn't want to admit the daughter-in-law in front of her from the bottom of her heart.
So when Shi Mu asked Gu Qingyu what she wanted to drink, she offered to drink a cup of plain water. Shi Mu let out a grunt from her nostrils, and then took out a tea set handed down from her family.
An old lady who is ill makes tea with flowing gestures, and her gestures are elegant and expensive. Her elegant and skillful tea-making movements have attracted the admiration of Gu Qingyu, who is in and out of the upper class.
When Gu Qingyu revealed that she wanted to learn from her mother-in-law, the mother whose vanity was greatly satisfied showed a triumphant smile on her face.
Then she just said in an understatement that my tea-making skill can only be called "having fun". The real master is Shi Yuan's little uncle.
Why should Shi Mu go to great lengths to show off her tea-making skills? After reading the ancient interpretation of tea culture, I finally understood the doorway.
In ancient times, tea culture was a luxury for those rich families to keep in good health or social etiquette in the upper class, and it was also a status symbol for them. Those noble families often show off their unique tea rooms, high-quality tea leaves and exquisite tea sets.
This wonderful performance, she wants to prove her family background. She is bound up with the reputation of "famous family". Even though her family is declining now, she still despises Gu Qingyu's family and background.
The daughter of her family friend Huang's sister's family and Shi Yuan are the right marriage, while Gu Qingyu is just an upstart who made a fortune in the tide of the times.
In Shi Mu Ming, she just wants to show her own scheming: No matter how superior and generous Gu Qingyu's life is now, there is an obsession in the heart of Shi Mu who thinks highly of herself, and she is not worthy of Shi Yuan at all. If Shiyuan didn't have the drug feeding accident, Shiyuan wouldn't have failed in the college entrance examination, so it is impossible for Shijia to get married with his family.
When the combination of two young people rose to the contest between two families, Shi Mu's psychology was seriously out of balance, and she changed from not liking Gu Qingyu to being unconvinced.
It is most appropriate to use the sentence that Shi Yuan despised Zhan Xiang.
When the two in-laws met for the first time, Shi Mu showed a condescending attitude everywhere at the dinner table.
When Gu Dad picked up the glass and laughed heartily, he said with emotion, "This old wine is good! The entrance is very fragrant and the mouth is very smooth. "
Gu Dad made such a polite remark on the wine table, which was originally intended to bring the feelings of the two in-laws closer together, so that her daughter could win the favor of her in-laws in the future.
Dad will be happy only if you are happy. This is an old father's most simple love for his daughter.
As soon as Gu's father took a sip of wine, Shi's mother quickly hit the nail on the head, which revealed that her family was from a noble family and was closely related to elegance.
Nothing has the most say in tasting tea than the houses of dignitaries, so Shi Mu showed off again on the wine table. She just wanted to prove that she was by no means an ordinary citizen at the bottom.
A few years old, which Gu Dad thinks has a unique taste, is just the ordinary wine she used to drink when she was a child!
Gu Dad's smile, which was not fully spread, was instantly deadlocked on his face. Shi Mu's words with a gun and a stick undoubtedly made Gu Dad worry about her daughter's future. How can a daughter with a strong nature get along with such an importunate mother-in-law?
Shi Mu repeatedly made verbal attacks. On the one hand, she didn't want to admit that Gu Jia was stronger than Shi Jia. On the other hand, she also wanted to prove to Gu Jia that this marriage was a complete success for Gu Jia.
Shi Mu attributed Shi Yuan's loneliness to unfair fate. Only because he lost a Shanghai hukou, he was left far behind by Gu Qing Yu.
Because this "unfairness" which is not recognized by Shi's mother is the chief culprit leading to the decline of Shi's family. Shi Mu really doesn't want to admit how excellent Gu Qingyu is, but she has the amulet of Shanghai hukou.
Because of this unfairness, Shi Jia has since fallen to the bottom. She was not convinced before, but turned to an angry mood. Only by constantly venting her anger on Gu Qingyu can she get some comfort and satisfaction.
In order to protect Shi Yuan's strong self-esteem, Gu Qingyu secretly helped Shi Mu pay 5, yuan for kidney transplant surgery in the name of charity.
After the operation, she learned that Gu Qingyu had paid for this expense. Instead of tears of gratitude, she gnashed her teeth and roared in front of her family:
"If I knew that the money for kidney replacement was paid by her, I would rather die than have a kidney replacement."
Shi Mu spoke these words word for word, gnashing her teeth. There is no doubt that the protruding veins on her face are not explaining that she hates this glamorous daughter-in-law.
when she treats other people's goodness as a donkey's liver and lung again and again, her hatred becomes more and more stubborn.
Shi Mu not only trampled on others' kindness, but also regarded it as the reason why she intensified her hatred.
Gu Qingyu is kind to her, and she can think of this kindness as a mockery of her; She hates the unfairness of the world and those who should have let her step on her feet, but now she is on the high ground. She feels that others robbed what should have belonged to her, which led to her downfall.
The midwife who has experienced life tanning has never been honest, kind and positive energy, but vanity, jealousy and unwillingness.
When she passed these anxieties and dissatisfaction on to the people close to her, what should have been a loving and warm home turned into a mire of pain and struggle.
Zheng Juan in The World once said such a wise saying: If you hate others in your heart, you will hurt yourself.
Shi Mu kidnapped the child in the name of love. Her abnormal condition and madness not only destroyed her body and mind, but also distorted her child's personality and ruined her son's bright future.
home is a harbor, and love is a retreat. However, true love is never a simple matter.