In the corner you can't see, there are many things you don't know.

People are always eager to express themselves, get it off their chest, point at people and things they don't like and make arbitrary comments.

However, you haven't experienced other people's lives, and you don't know what difficulties are behind people. Why jump to conclusions and speculate maliciously?

There is a question in Zhihu: What kind of experience has it been to 100 countries?

The well-received answer is this:

"I understand that there is no absolute right in this world, and I can accept that others have different three views and their derived ways of thinking."

People who have really seen the world will not judge others who have not seen the world.

Because the more temperature changes a person has seen in the world, the less prejudice he has against the world.

This society sets too many rules and regulations for everyone: what girls must do and what boys must do.

However, the world is not black and white.

A truly cultivated person will appreciate the difficulties of others and respect their differences.

"Look at your WeChat avatar and you will know that you have never seen the world."

"Look at your WeChat name, I guess you are a scum man."

"Looking at your circle of friends can reflect that you are easy to chase."

In psychology, there is a word called "label effect".

It is easy for us to label and judge others with our inherent knowledge and experience.

However, too many people choose the truth they want to see from their own prejudices. Discriminate against the differences between others and yourself, and evaluate and question others from the moral high ground.

I like a sentence very much: sit still and think about yourself. Gossip is not aimed at people.

No one has the right to evaluate and interfere in other people's lives.

"Don't presume to evaluate me. You only know my name, but you don't know my story

"You only heard what I did, but you didn't know what I experienced."

May you and I respect differences and judge others without prejudice.

I also hope that you and I will not be easily labeled by others, as brave live high wants.