Zhang Ailing once said: A man will not love a woman after he knows her thoroughly.

When a person loses his attraction, he loses the interest of others. Man is a born hunter. Only when they are challenging to explore, occasionally weak, and occasionally almost, can they be unforgettable.

Therefore, tying a person's heart is actually two words: understanding human nature. If you want to tie his heart, you must read his mind and be on the same stage with him.

1, don't bow, don't please, don't show yourself too much.

When we like someone too much, we all become very self-centered. Because we are afraid of losing, because we like possession too much, in order to keep him, we often study various skills to please him.

I don't know that being too active will only make you feel inferior, and even make the other person feel that you can't live without him, and he will be unscrupulous, because no matter what he does, you will support him and forgive him. In feelings, if you are too sensible and please, you will lose interest and challenge. It is better to be yourself all the time, be clingy occasionally, be gentle occasionally, be mature occasionally, be humorous occasionally, and change yourself differently without losing the principle.

Don't lower your posture at any time, let alone expose all your preferences, so that the other party can't guess you and can't control you casually. Instead, he finds you attractive.

2, there are principles and bottom lines, always lead an honest and clean life.

In this era of fast-food love, feelings come and go quickly. The feeling of getting something for nothing is very fragile, and it will be scattered with a touch. It's not that you don't love, but that you never loved.

Instead of eager to show love to him and trying to prove it, it is better to communicate slowly, explore each other and know how to leave a blank impression.

Before the other party shows sincerity, keep your pride and pattern, have principles, always keep the bottom line, and be a man with pattern.

3. Know how to refuse and remain independent forever.

Don't rely too much on each other, let alone obey each other in everything. You should live your own life, have your own ideas, and learn to refuse appropriately. Compared with obedient and clever you, he will appreciate you with his heart, and will not grovel for anything, even if you don't meet all his needs.

Keep yourself in love, but don't care too much about each other, pay more attention to your own needs, stick to yourself, and don't compromise with him at will. The more he likes you, the more independent and sober you are in thought and character, and the more he thinks you are smart.

A good feeling is not that one person surrenders to another, but that two people are independent of each other, illuminating themselves with different lights and attracting each other.