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Why do two contradictory personalities exist in a person?

If you talk about personality, what do you think your personality is? Introverted, extroverted, lively, or calm?

In fact, each of us has more than one personality trait. We have many different personalities, and sometimes these personalities conflict greatly.

How extreme is your temper? Different personalities coexist with each other, but contradict each other!

Is there shyness and calmness in your personality? In most cases, when you meet someone you are not familiar with, you will always feel cautious.

You will feel that the air around you is full of embarrassment. Because of shyness, you may behave in an awkward manner in order to ease the tense atmosphere.

In the eyes of others, you look strange and petty. In fact, this is not the real you. Even if you are good at things, you will not perform well because of shyness.

But in front of your friends, you appear very calm, even a little nervous. In a familiar environment, you can naturally do what you like freely.

You become more confident and calm, and when you do what you are good at, your whole person seems to be glowing. Only at this time will you show your true strength and true self.

You will not mess up the things you care about because of shyness and nervousness. Nor will I make a fool of myself in front of the people I like.

Everyone has a hesitant character, and it is easy to get entangled in small things for a long time. When buying something, I hesitate between two options and it is difficult to make a decision in the end.

It is natural to choose carefully in big matters. But I struggled with small things for a long time, unable to make a decisive decision, and wasted most of my time on a small problem.

But sometimes, in important matters, they appear to be very free and unrestrained. Sometimes you don't even know what your situation is.

People who don’t know you well may think that you have a cold personality, are not easy to get close to, have no smile, and may even think that you are very cold.

But in front of your lover, you are as gentle as water. You treat your lover carefully and seriously, and your smile is as warm as sunshine.

Just like He Yichen in "Why Shengxiao is Silent", he is a cold person outside, but when facing his lover, he takes good care of him.

It is said that men are more rational and women are more emotional, but in fact everyone is both rational and emotional. During the day, you can be a very capable person at work.

When you have a clear mind, you can make the most correct choice rationally. But when it comes to emotional issues, it's hard to stay rational.

Even if you are rational, once you encounter emotional problems, you can only secretly shed tears in the dead of night. Although I am obviously very sad, I can only rely on myself to digest it.

When we deal with others, we will have obvious double standards. He will find fault with others for little things, but he is very tolerant of himself.

It is said that he pursues perfection. When others do not do things well enough, he will constantly teach others. But when I don't do well enough, I will say not to care about these small details.

I didn’t realize that I had such double standards, and this kind of behavior would cause headaches to those around me.