There is an old law professor who talks about morality and law. He said: "the law is to prevent people from getting worse, and morality is to make people better!" Laws must be observed by everyone, and morality is self-disciplined! When you use morality to restrain others, not yourself, it is immoral in itself! " Who likes moral kidnapping?
The weak. I'm so old, standing next to you, and you won't even give up your seat! ! How do you know that the little girl opposite has just come out of the hospital? I donated 300 yuan without money, and you donated 100, with a monthly salary of tens of thousands? ! Do people still owe you money after earning 10 thousand? The weak people generally feel that the whole world owes him.
The mentality path of Notre Dame mentality is: if you don't do this, it shows that your moral standards are problematic. If I were you, I would definitely do so, so I have the right to blame you!
Learn to reject moral kidnapping. I really feel too tired to be kidnapped by morality. In life, moral kidnapping is everywhere: I do it, you are free! No, it's not from China! The whole country is talking about Diaoyu Island, but you are sunbathing. Do you have love or not? Country! Heart! Whether you win or not! Country! People? ! This painting is easy for you, and you don't even help? ! Hmm. Wang divorced, and all the other stars spoke, but you didn't? Wang trusts you too much! you ...
I apologized to you. What do you want? There are three kinds of unfilial, and no queen is the biggest! Who is worth reading like this? I worked hard to raise you! If it wasn't for you, your father and I left early. Can you live up to me? How can you be happy when I am so sad?
If you are kidnapped by morality, your life will be at a loss. It's wrong for you to lead a donkey, ride a donkey, take a child to ride a donkey, and ride a donkey yourself. The old man thinks that it may be right to take the children to carry donkeys. In short, after you are kidnapped by morality, others will not recognize you, but you will certainly not be able to live in peace!
A famous person said that if everyone in this society speaks rules, then social civilization will gradually form and moral level will be improved. If everyone in a society blames others with morality, then the social moral standard itself is problematic. Do as you would be done by. Don't give others what you don't want, but don't impose what you want. Because what you want is not necessarily what others want.