1. I would rather eat chaff with good people than eat a feast with bad people. —— Thomas Fuller 2. The true measure of a friend is behavior rather than words; those who seem to say all the nice things are actually far from this standard. ——Washington 3. Friendship established on the basis of business is better than business established on the basis of friendship. ——Rockefeller 4. Deceptive friendship is a painful wound, and false sympathy is a sharp poisonous arrow. ——Lenin 5. When you are in good times, those who come only upon invitation are your true friends. But when you are in bad times, those who come without invitation are your true friends. - Chiofrasta 6. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others - things that require time, physical strength, thoughtfulness and dedication to do. ——Carnegie 7. When I am with someone who is too strong, I will not feel my existence. Making friends is not about choosing the perfect ones with our eyes, but about attracting like-minded ones with our hearts. ——Roland 8. Building relationships is a process of digging a well. What you pay is a little bit of sweat, but what you get is a steady stream of wealth. ——Harvey McKay 9. The greatest wealth in life is personal connections, because it can open up every door of the abilities you need, allowing you to continue to grow and contribute to society. ——Anthony Robin 10. One of the concepts that has achieved the highest performance in the field of sales is the "money tree" concept. Network sales is a process of branching out and bearing fruit. ——Born Tracy 1. Communication is an inevitable companion of human beings. ——Marx, "Selected Works of Marx and Engels"? 2. A conversation with someone is often more enlightening than years of working behind closed doors. Thoughts must be generated in interactions with others and processed and expressed in solitude. ——Leo Tolstoy 3. A heart-to-heart conversation is a display of the soul. ——Wan Caverin 4. Everyone needs someone to talk to him openly and honestly. Although a man can be very heroic, he can also be very lonely. ——Hemingway 5. Be a good listener and encourage others to talk about themselves. ——Dale Carnegie 6. Everyone knows that listening is important to communication. …but few organizations take care to listen to their employees and their customers. ——William Nichols 7. The reason why some people have communication difficulties in real life is because they have forgotten an important principle: making others feel important. ——Dale Carnegie 8. The most unbearable loneliness is the lack of true friendship. ——Bacon 9. Understanding is definitely the soil that nurtures the fruits of all friendships. ——Wilson 10. The most beautiful thing in life is his friendship with others. ——Lincoln 11. Oh, my friend, this is what I mean. Because of you, the blue sky is vast; because of you, the roses are red and gorgeous. ——Emerson 12. Friendship is as valuable to the human heart as alchemy often says that their gems are to the human body. ——Bacon 13. If you are not a true friend, no matter how heavy the gift is, it will not open your heart. ——F. Bacon 14. It is better to have a person who cannot read a word than to have an evil man who has read thousands of books. ——Jin Ying 15. The best way to maintain friendship is not to betray your friends. ——Miznier 16. You will usually find yourself talking more when you are with someone who has nothing to say. ——Pafisa 17. Friendship is a free and happy wish for oneself, which always harmonizes the natural sympathy behavior, beyond lust, interest, competition and accident. ——Alan: Do your best for others, and in the end, do your best for yourself. ——(UK) Ruskin When people are strong, I use softness to overcome them; when people use skills, I feel them with sincerity; when people use anger, I use reason to bend them. ——Jin Ying Beautiful things are often because they are sincere. ——Roland A fence has three stakes, and a hero has three gangs. When everyone gathers firewood, the flames are high. A kind word warms three winters, but a bad word hurts someone in June. Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you - The Analects of Confucius People must love themselves, and then others will love others; people must respect themselves, and then others will respect others. ——Han Yangxiong's "Fa Yan Gentleman" Those who do not respect themselves will be humiliated, and those who are not afraid of themselves will be in trouble.

——Qing Dynasty Shen Hanyu's "Worrisome Phrases" You don't need yourself, but you don't need others. ——Zhang Juzheng of the Ming Dynasty, "Preface to the 70th Birthday of Mr. Xu Xianggong, a Young Master Cunzhai" If two people are of the same mind, their sharpness can break through metal. ——"Zhouyi" We are born in a network of relationships, parent-child relationship, husband-wife relationship, classmate relationship, colleague relationship, friend relationship, male-female relationship, kinship relationship, superior-subordinate relationship, debt relationship, supply-demand relationship. We are like fish in the network, we can never swim out, and we even enjoy it. The higher a person's inner quality, the more indifferent and exclusive he is to relationships and interpersonal interactions. Among the resilience of most people, there are not many qualities worthy of our appreciation, but the opposite qualities abound, and relationships and interpersonal relationships are everywhere. Interpersonal communication is a channel. With these channels, people's inner juices can flow out unscrupulously. If you look at relationships from this perspective, they are just human nature's sewage pipes. In the end, you find that it is easy to make mistakes when telling the truth, so you stop talking. You find that anger, contempt and pride will affect interpersonal relationships, so you omit expressions. You find that dancing will affect your image, so you no longer make any exaggerated movements. You finally live like an anthropological code of conduct. Expressions are removed, emotions are hidden, and there is no trace of popularity. Life is not black and white, either/or most of the time just means things are in their natural state. If you're looking for the perfect job, you'll probably never find it. And other people don't look the same. So good. If you pursue perfect interpersonal relationships, you may be lonely all your life. With true consideration, you don’t realize that most of the thoughtfulness that makes people burst into tears of gratitude is a way to win people’s hearts. The most considerate person will give you the space to make a choice. Being enthusiastic about you is also a kind of pressure, so true love is often cloaked in a "cold" coat. Moderate coldness is exactly the most suitable temperature in interpersonal relationships. I only need three real friends, and truly rich friends will give them to you. Really powerful friends who help me materially give me a wide range of interpersonal relationships. Really caring friends give me spiritual comfort. The first two are fair-weather friends. Although they are unreliable, they can be used for a while. Aristotle said that if in this world Without women, all the money in the world is meaningless. Social research shows that women have a huge advantage over men in interpersonal relationships. This shows that public relations has always been women’s traditional advantage. Regarding interpersonal relationships, I gradually summarized the most important one. The principle that is in line with my temperament is to respect each other and let things happen. I believe that all good friendships are formed naturally and are not deliberately obtained. I also believe that no matter how good friends are, there should be distance. Friendships that are too lively are often empty. Give up temporary anger or temporary gains and losses, endure the pressure from the outside world, and we will get more. A person who knows how to endure will not destroy the interpersonal network he has built because of temporary anger or temporary gains and losses. There should be no money exchanges between friends. Don't lend money to friends. If you lend money to others, just like Mr. Hu Shi, I will not ask for repayment if I borrow it. Can money exchanges between people make our interpersonal relationships more successful? People with strong hearts will be better at interpersonal relationships. Playing a few dirty tricks and making jokes is just a little cleverness. The middle level of intelligence is extremely low and is familiar with the laws of people's hearts and the rules of social games. Great intelligence is to follow the way of heaven and think about the universe and life. A person's success depends on his professional knowledge. 85 relies on his interpersonal relationships. Therefore, for boys, good social skills are not only an important part of their own development, but also an important obstacle to future social success. In terms of creating external and material value, social and interpersonal relationships are very important. Efficient, but in terms of creating inner and spiritual value, people who are quiet and alone are more constructive and kind. They are the people with the least friction with the world, and they are more likely to become happy people. Children who are not harsh in mentality will grow up. His attitude towards doing things will be more comfortable, his interpersonal relationships will be more harmonious, and he will get more help and opportunities. Making friends is not about knowing more people, the better, but becoming familiar with this circle and the people in that circle. Try to become these. The value of interpersonal relationships between people like this is the greatest