Yourself, so as to do what you can and enjoy it.

Life.

When people reach middle age, they have seen the vastness of heaven and earth and the magnificence of mountains and rivers.

I have tasted the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and my wisdom in life has gradually enriched, and I have recognized myself.

Knowledge is getting clearer and clearer, so you know destiny, human feelings and distinguish right from wrong?

Know what to do and what not to do. You won't get drunk without three drinks. The ancients said that although wine is pleasant, it will also hurt the body. Many people think of drinking before opening a bottle, but they always drink too much and do harm to their health. Some people finally change their temperament, their mouths are talking and their hands are touching, which is really rude.

Teenagers don't drink, middle-aged people don't drink, and they don't drink in their twilight years, so as to keep themselves sober and self-disciplined and make their lives peaceful and long.

Second, don't drink rude wine.

Many people always think that their faces are bigger than the sky and wider than the ground. If they can't toast, they will persuade or even force them to drink. Confucius said, good for good, good for bad. Others respect me, and I should also respect others and cherish me. I cherish it. Those who destroy me, I am cold.

Don't drink with people who look down on you, who deliberately offend you, and who satirize you. People should have backbone when they are alive, and there is no need to stick a hot face on a cold ass.

Third, don't drink nameless wine, drink nameless wine, you entrust others to do things, relatives and friends visit classmates on some occasions, and it is inevitable to push a cup for a change. Shallow is not deep, thin is not alcohol. If someone invites you to a restaurant that has nothing to do with you, you should know how to refuse. A gentleman keeps quiet in times of crisis. Unfamiliar people deliberately advise the person who pours your wine not to drink as much as possible, not to clean up, and not to be ungrateful relatives. There are wolves on both sides. No matter how good the heart is, there must be a rational light. There is a relative who doesn't remember you helping him 99 times. If you don't help him for the hundredth time, or don't do it well, he can hold a grudge.

When people reach middle age, keep your eyes open and get to know more people. The world is warm, the tongue is not hot, and the stomach is unfamiliar. Don't exchange true feelings and money for chilling.

Second, don't leave the relatives of powerful people.

There is a kind of relatives who flatter you when you are happy, but look down on you when you are down and out, stay away from you and step on you. They hold the title of relatives, but they don't talk about family ties. They only care about interests. There is hot soup, and they want a piece. When you are down and out, they pour a pot of cold water to teach you to recognize the warmth and coldness of human feelings. Stay away from powerful relatives and make your life less smoke and more human.

Third, you can't hide your good relatives. Some relatives would rather see outsiders being good than people who are not relatives being successful. They envy and worship. When people around you surpass themselves a little, they are extremely hostile.

This kind of relative is not poor, but poor in heart. The more advanced people are, the more they will appreciate each other and achieve each other. Only narrow-minded people will hate the success of others and push them down. When people reach middle age, it is very wise to stay away from those who can't see you and get close to those who are willing to fulfill you.

No more than three things, no more than children, there is a hurtful contrast, which makes you look at other people's children more productive. Look at yourself, not even half as good as others. I have heard a saying that I love you only because you are my child. It has nothing to do with what kind of child you are. I couldn't agree more. Children are our works and unique. Children's success is not the most important thing. Parents' success means that their children are safe, healthy and happy!

Second, it's better than a house. There is a famous saying that it is thieves who steal happiness. Those who compare with others will not win, because there will always be someone better than you. Houses are used for living. No matter how big or small, it is your home. The most important thing is warmth. I can shelter my family from the wind and rain, bear the laughter of my family, and my nest is warmer than anyone else!

Third, compared with wealth, when I was young, I often thought that money meant everything.

Yes Middle-aged people should understand that no matter how much money, they will not be happy. Money can't buy feelings, health and time. If you want to live a happy life, you must rely on contentment to fill it. As long as there is enough money. Those who are satisfied are rich, and small wealth means security. This is happiness!

Confucius said, forty is not confusing, and fifty is destiny.

Years have faded our childishness and ignorance as teenagers, and added a little calmness and indifference after experience. When people reach middle age, don't be confused, live more transparently and calmly, and be happy only when you know how to live high. Don't live for others, the rest of your life is very expensive. Love yourself, live high and enjoy life!

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