Talk about civilization and establish a new style.
1, life is short, but even so, people still have time to pay attention to etiquette-Emerson.
2, people are polite and safe, and rude and dangerous. -Book of Rites
3. Knowledge makes people gentle, and communication makes people perfect. -Joe. Shrinking worker
4. The letter is responsible. -The Analects of Confucius
5, Deguang, respect for honor.
6, a gentleman is good, but also the good of others. -Book of Rites
7. Politeness and thoughtfulness cost nothing, but are more valuable than anything else. Spain. Cervantes
8. Politeness is the easiest and most precious thing to do. -Gonchard
9. There are two kinds of peaceful violence, namely, law and courtesy. -De Goethe
10, see no evil, don't listen to evil, don't say evil, don't move if you are evil. -Confucius
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Basic knowledge of building a new style with civilized etiquette
First, introduce etiquette.
As far as the basic methods are concerned, introduction can be divided into: self-introduction, introduction for others and introduction. In the process of introduction, both the introducer and the introduced person should be warm, decent and generous, and the whole introduction process should be smiling. In general, when introducing, both parties should keep standing posture and respond to each other warmly.
Introduce others
We should follow the principle of "let elders and guests be prophets". That is, first introduce young people with low status to elderly people with high status; Introduce the host to the guests first; Introduce the man to the woman first.
The introduction should be concise and clear, not vague. You can briefly introduce the occupations and native places of both sides to facilitate the conversation between two strangers. When introducing people, don't point with your fingers, but politely signal with your hands.
Be introduced
When being introduced, you should face each other and show sincerity in understanding each other. After the introduction, you can shake hands and say "hello!" ""Nice to meet you! " "I've heard a lot! "Such as polite words to be friendly.
When a man is introduced to a woman, he should take the initiative to nod and lean slightly, waiting for the woman's response. Generally speaking, men don't have to reach out first. If a woman holds out her hand, it is polite for a man to immediately hold out his hand and nod gently. If you are willing to shake hands with a man, you can reach out first.
self-introduction
You can introduce yourself while reaching out and shaking hands with each other, or you can take the initiative to say hello! To attract the attention of the other party, keep your eyes on the other party, and then report your name, identity, unit and other related information to the other party after you get a response. Warm and friendly tone, courteous attitude.
Second, handshake etiquette.
Shaking hands is a way to exchange ideas, feelings and friendship. When shaking hands, be careful not to get wet or dirty hands, don't wear gloves and sunglasses, don't cross your hands, don't shake hands or push and pull, and don't sit and shake hands.
The order of shaking hands generally pays attention to "the honour person decides", that is, after the lady, the elder, the married person and the person with high status reach out, the man, the younger generation, the unmarried person and the person with low status can reach out and respond. People of the same age should take the initiative to shake hands. If a person wants to shake hands with many people, the order is: elder first, junior first, host first, guest first, superior first, subordinate first, lady first, man first. When shaking hands, use your right hand and look at each other to show respect. When men shake hands with women, they usually only gently hold each other's fingers, and should not hold them too tightly for too long. After holding the right hand, put the left hand on the hand, which is a common courtesy in China, showing more goodwill and respect for each other.