The clarity of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate; the transparency of the heart is not because there are no distracting thoughts, but because it understands the choices.

The so-called contented person is always happy, which means knowing how to make choices, being willing to give up, and knowing when enough is enough. Contentment is a state of tranquility and peace; constant joy is an optimistic and open-minded attitude towards life.

Life is not bitter, but what is bitter is that we have too many desires; people’s hearts are not tired, but what is tired is that we cannot let go of too much. The clarity of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate; the transparency of the heart is not because there are no distracting thoughts, but because it understands the choices.

Everything that has answers is small things, big things only have choices, and people who make choices are different.

If you know how to choose, you will be calm and calm; if you know how to be satisfied, you will be able to cultivate your mind; if you know how to delete, you will be relaxed; if you know how to be flexible, you will avoid detours; if you know how to reflect, you will improve yourself; Knowing how to be grateful can warm your mood.

A child chooses between candy and cake, a teenager chooses between ideals and reality, a businessman chooses between interests and conscience... In fact, no matter whether you are willing or unwilling, No matter how reluctant we are to let go, we must eventually learn to let go.

Don’t indulge in fantasy, don’t be confused about the future, take today’s path and live the present life; don’t envy prosperity, don’t deliberately carve out things, be simple to people and be practical in work; don’t be too stingy, don’t be too stubborn, Know how to choose.

Life requires a kind of elegance. It is not a kind of training or dressing up, but a kind of calmness after experience, relief after going through vicissitudes, wisdom after seeing the ups and downs; it is learning to look down on and let go, knowing how to cherish and choose; it is a kind of contentment that is not surprised by favors and disgrace. .

The most fearful thing about marriage is that you never really fall in love with that person, just because of some practical interests. Aura and benefits can indeed provide temporary psychological satisfaction, but to be committed to a marriage for a long time, you must love without distractions, or have loved before.

There is no job in the world that is not hard, and no place in the world that is not complicated. Don't lose your temper randomly, no one owes you anything. Learn to keep a low profile. There will always be gains and losses when choosing. Don’t worry too much. Learn to be down-to-earth and pragmatic, and the harder you work, the luckier you will be. When a person has enough connotation and material backing, life will become full of confidence. If it is good, it is called wonderful; if it is bad, it is called experience.