In August, 2003, after six months of adventure and fear, the kidnapping case of Sahara Desert 15 European tourists was finally solved. 14 people survived, but only German female tourist Michelle Spitzer was not spared. Looking back on the whole kidnapping process, Michelle's death was no accident. To some extent, she didn't get along well with others and cooperated with others, which led to his death.
In this death journey, it is particularly important to get along and cooperate with passengers and kidnappers. Personal experience and charm determine their ability to get along and cooperate with others in this group and their position in this group. Michelle's stubborn personality and uncooperative attitude make her severely isolated in this group. Michelle doesn't trust anyone and often has conflicts with her peers, all because of trivial things. The kidnappers are extremists. They asked the disadvantaged groups to wear headscarves and coats. Among the abductees, only Michelle refused to cooperate. Under the repeated persuasion of her peers, Michelle became more and more alienated from her peers and had to stay alone. Most of them are good. She just lay on the blanket, sighing and talking to herself. Because of the growing emotional distance between Michelle and her traveling companion, even the kidnappers didn't punish her after she disobeyed again. Because they have realized how isolated Michelle is among the hostages, there is no need to make an example of her.
Michelle died silently, and the group (including kidnappers) became more harmonious and caring, which can be seen from the smiles in the photos of kidnappers and hostages. Hostage Mark Heidi said: "It's not that Michelle finally stopped making us nervous, but that we saw that if we can't get along well and cooperate with each other, it will lead to worse consequences."
Being friendly with others and cooperating with others is a virtue at any time, which is the need of society. Getting along with others and cooperating well can make your personality noble, share others' success with an open mind, and affirm others with appreciation, so that your life realm will be improved; Getting along well with others and cooperating well can establish healthy and harmonious interpersonal relationships. In the fast-paced modern society, learning to adapt and understand in a perfect living environment will make people more harmonious and less estranged; To get along well with others and cooperate well, we must overcome that narrow mentality. A person who is always thinking about his own gains and losses, a person who is always wary of others, and an arrogant person will never feel the happiness of getting along and cooperating.
The happiness of getting along and cooperating is not obtained by cheap flattery and unprincipled praise, nor is it a spiritual bribe that flatters servility, but a true value judgment based on objective facts.