If life is just like the first time we met, why should the autumn wind draw a fan sadly? It is easy to change people's hearts, but they say that people's hearts are easy to change. These four lines of poems by Nalan Xingde tell the story of the joys and sorrows of so many people, and how many people express their love and hate. Yes! How wonderful it would be if life were just as beautiful and enchanting, joyful and exciting as when we first met, without the subsequent betrayal, sadness, helplessness and grief!
Zhang Ailing said: "I thought love could fill up the regrets in life, but it is love that creates more regrets." Hu Lancheng's lack of single-mindedness in love deeply hurt Zhang Ailing's spirit. But she was criticized by people who pitied Zhang Ailing. Every time I read Zhang Ailing's poems and articles, my eyes can't help but moisten, my heart can't help surging, and my feelings can't help but darken. I know what Hu Lancheng means to Zhang Ailing. Although Hu Lancheng is bad, she still can't help but love. There is hatred in love, but she still loves despite hatred. That kind of love is not for a day or two, not for a year or two, but for a lifetime! Poor infatuated people in the world. This is evident from the vicissitudes of life and the fate that affects people.
Mr. Yang Jiang said this in his speech on his 100th birthday: "I am an old man. I only speak old words. I am a laggard in the times. I have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. I only rely on material things. Under the above trend of the times, I would like to remind young friends that the most important thing in a union between a man and a woman is love. Only when the two parties understand each other can they appreciate, attract, support and encourage each other, and be happy and well-matched. Not important. "Yeah! Mr. Yang's words are precise and accurate, criticizing the current ills, his loyal words are off-putting, and he is a warning to the world. In this materialistic world, it is really difficult to be a human being. You will meet many people in your life, but how many will be by your side in the end? Some people get close to you because they like you, and some people get close to you just because they need you. Pure liking is always beautiful, but weighing the pros and cons is always chilling. People's hearts are cold and desolate. Things in the world are impermanent, and it is difficult to tell what is true and what is false. It is precisely because Mr. Yang Jiang has seen through the prosperity of this world, endured all the sufferings in this world, and understood the sophistication of this world that he wrote that sincerely admirable and wise saying - live a simple life. A noble soul is the highest realm of life. She understands the sorrow that good things in the world are not fast, and the clouds are easily scattered and the glass is broken. She also knows the smiles of old friends are as bright as the trees in the garden, and the vicissitudes of autumn winds. Although she returned home with a soul full of fragrance, she left her good medicine and advice to the world forever.
Later, when we all grew up, we would describe some encounters with a heavy stroke of color, and some partings would be understated. Because life is indeed not easy, and personnel events are inherently difficult to predict, let alone grasp. There is not much we can do. We can only look down on it, want to see something, make ourselves happier and stay away from sadness. Young and frivolous, they don't know how to restrain their sharp edges, they only know that the winner is the king. You know, there are some feelings that cannot be told and no one can tell them. There is some suffering that cannot be sympathized with, and one can only deceive oneself and others. When we were children, we didn’t express our feelings with words; as adults, we didn’t mean what we said. Time takes away not only our world, it takes away what we should have been like.
I love strong winds and strong alcohol, as well as solitude and freedom. Why bother to be trapped by love, why be hurt by love. In this complex world that is both true and false, imaginary and real, the most reassuring thing is to maintain a piece of pure land, cultivate a piece of prosperity, and feel at ease. You can pass through the flowers without a single leaf touching you. People always tell me stories, but I don’t understand them. I only know that I am looking for another myself, I am waiting, and I am also waiting. When the spring flowers bloom and it is April in the world, I will appear with you. You break the stalemate in my heart and understand it all. You are as moist as water and as comfortable as clouds.
Understanding all this lies not in expressing but in listening. To see through it all lies not in being meticulous, but in being profound. Don't ask how long the story is, the rest of your life is still very long, and don't ask how long it will take to tell the story, we are always on the road.
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Don’t cry sadly because it’s over, smile calmly because it happened.