1, here we are.

2, people are dead,

3. New Year's Day,

4. The child is still young.

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Eight China tolerances:

1 for your own good

This sentence often appears in the scenes of parents to children, elders to younger generations and so on. People themselves should be independent individuals, elders or their parents, and actually can't enjoy the right to decide our lives. In China, parents often have a high degree of intervention in their children's lives. When children don't want to do anything, but they are forced to do it by their parents, parents often say this sentence, "For your own good." We are not saying that parents' educational decisions are all right, but behind this proverb, is it really a decision that is beneficial to children? Such an excuse is actually like a kind of moral kidnapping, which makes children endure their own desires and accept the compulsive intervention of their parents in the name of love.

2. Just get used to it

Habits are often not formed overnight, whether you form a habit yourself or get used to other people's habits. But the sentence "just get used to it" itself is a very inaccurate sentence. There is no need to force yourself to get used to some unbearable phenomena in life. It is someone else who is wrong, but that person tells you to get used to it. For example, there is always a person in the library who likes to make noise, and others advise you to get used to it. However, this phenomenon itself is an abnormal phenomenon, and it is even more illogical for us to force ourselves to be tolerant by habit.

3. It is not easy.

Individuals are individuals, groups are groups, and it is not easy for anyone. When someone uses this excuse to ask you to tolerate others, it actually obliterates your rights as an individual. When we defend our own interests, as long as we have confidence, we will not say that we should tolerate each other just because it is not easy for the other side. Sometimes, such tolerance will only encourage each other's mistakes. In the world of adults, no one is easy. If you want to make way and walk steadily, you must learn to be tolerant correctly.

4. Still a child

This is actually an excuse widely accepted by many young people now. Every New Year or other occasions, when you get along with some Xiong Haizi, when they do something wrong, someone will always say "I am still a child" in your ear. In fact, because it is a child, this matter cannot be easily tolerated. The child itself is a blank sheet of paper. When he found that he had done something without being punished, it was already the lack of education. Always treat children like this, not love, but an irresponsible performance.

5. Old age

Corresponding to some Xiong Haizi, there are some elderly people who rely on their old age to sell their old age. There have been many such examples in life, such as forcing others to give up their seats, abusing young people, touching porcelain and so on. These all appear in some elderly people. Many people will persuade them to be bigger and more tolerant. When this concept is widely spread, it will form a social atmosphere. Nowadays, many people are afraid to help the old man when he falls. Isn't this the result of this blind tolerance?

6. Here we are.

This sentence has become an online buzzword. This sentence is not only to forgive others, but also to forgive yourself. When you make up your mind to lose weight, but go to a cake shop, saying "I am here" may make you forgive yourself easily and eat a delicious but high-calorie cake.

7. New Year's Day

Spring Festival is an important tradition in China. Many people form the idea that it is best not to quarrel with others during the New Year, and it is best to be happy during the New Year. It is indeed a happy thing to celebrate the Spring Festival, but there is no need to let yourself spend it in tolerance of some people's mistakes. You have to believe that your tolerance for the New Year will always break out in the future.

8. Everyone is dead

The dead are the biggest, which is a very common concept in China. However, some people, even though they have passed away, should not forgive their mistakes so easily. The dead are not the weak, but the living are the most important.