1. There must be a method for success and a reason for failure. ?

2. Three elements of treating others: unite capable people to do great things, unite good people to do practical things, unite bad people to avoid bad things. ?

3. Three elements of progress: you can do it yourself, someone says you can do it, and those who say you can do it can do it. ?

4. Three elements of speaking: being able to speak when you should speak - level, not speaking when you shouldn't - being smart, and knowing when to speak and when not to speak - clever. ?

5. Three elements of work: being able to do it when you should do it - ability, not doing it when you shouldn't - being wise, knowing when to do it and when not to do it - wisdom. ?

6. Being a person is like water and doing things is like a mountain. As a person, try to go as low as possible, let others go, and step back as much as possible when encountering benefits and reputation, leaving room for yourself to grow bigger. You must have your own opinions and goals when doing things, and stand there like a mountain in order to get things done. ?

7. The winner looks at the answer to the question, while the loser only sees the question; the winner is often a component of the answer, and the loser is often a component of the question; the winner There is a plan, and the loser has an excuse. Winners often say: Although it is difficult, it can still be done. Losers often say: Although it is possible, it is too difficult. ?

8. Excessive expectations bring about hopelessness in children; over-protection brings about incompetence in children; over-indulgence brings about ruthlessness in children; too much interference brings about incompetence in children. Helplessness; too many accusations make children feel helpless. ?

9. The seven virtues of a wise man in the eyes of the ancient Jews: first, do not fiddle with others; second, do not interrupt others; third, do not rush for success; fourth, ask questions in a targeted manner; fifth, answer It must be consistent with the situation; sixth, the conversation must have a beginning and an end; seventh, it must be based on reality.

10. A person’s two eyes are parallel, but they see people differently. People have two ears on both sides, but they always tend to listen to one side of the story. A person has only one mouth, but he can always tell two sides.