Before I saw Po, I never substituted it into reality until I saw Deacon. I constantly substituted reality in the process of reading, and then the story in my mind became similar to the strong woman who would appear in reality. She accompanied her husband through obscurity, shared joys and sorrows with * * *, bled and injured, and fell in love most in the darkest time of life.
Wang Xiaobo said in Thirty: "At that time, we had nothing, and nothing could stop us from enjoying the quiet night."
For Yan Lu before the age of 27 and 30, love is like this, licking blood on the knife edge, dancing on the cliff, holding rude camouflage uzi in both hands, shooting at the enemy's head one second, smiling at him with roses in the next, fighting to the death in the ruins, bloody and romantic. Sleeping with each other before the war is a comrade-in-arms and a backing on the battlefield. It is the most powerful arterial blood and the most fragile neck, which is a contradictory and charming existence. In life, the two are young partners, licking the sweetness of love together, writing "I love you to the end of my life" on the message wall, playing "luv letter" for him in the sun, covering his fingers with a gun cocoon, covering his back with a scar, and playing an old love song from childhood.
But feelings have the best time limit, just like some people can only suffer, but they can't share happiness. In reality, there are also husbands who abandon their wives and children after their success and have an affair outside. When they got home, they had nothing to say about their wife's life and death. After looking at their faces for a few years, they will only feel bored, and in the end they will suffer more than nostalgia. I can't help thinking, what's wrong? Is she old and yellow? So I threw out a cold sentence: "Go to the whole place, get an anti-aging injection and take some anti-aging medicine." His wife still loves him, so she agrees with this absurd idea.
Just like Yan Yi in the article, she accepted Jin Lu's suggestion of gland replacement only for a higher fit. Probably people who fall in love are blind and smart, and they also ignore that the crux of the problem is not whether it is suitable or not, but the young love that has already passed the shelf life. Later, I only dared to buy a rose, but I couldn't escape the fate of withering in my coat pocket.
The husband jumped repeatedly between the prodigal son and repeated education, and the wife was finally disheartened. When she tried to escape, she found that God had closed the last door and window-she was pregnant. Whether the child is bound or shackled locks her in the cold relationship between husband and wife.
Just like Wen Yi's helplessness and anger when he tried to make a clean break with Lu Jin after recovering his memory, only to find that he had a new life in his body.
In fact, it's not just children, just like the high-order dependence in the text is the law of that world. After being marked, O will be crazy about A. In real life, the social cognition that "girls had better not divorce easily" also restricts the free life of many girls. Even if she is good enough, even if she has no man and no marriage, she can live well.
Fortunately, Lu Jin finally turned defeat into victory.
But how many men will overcome their bad habits in real life? It's terrible to think about it carefully, and my back is cold.