The first emotional article

As I mature, I understand more that society is a big dye vat. In this life, we are destined to meet all kinds of people, and some of them can help us. There are noble people who lend a helping hand, but there are also villains who stand in the way and add many hardships to themselves.

No one has the word "villain" written clearly on their face. So when interacting with others, don't think about giving your all and treating others with your heart and soul, as this will always lead to disadvantages.

Although the villain with a dark heart tries his best to disguise his thoughts and turn himself into a normal person, his every move, words and deeds still directly expose himself.

You must learn to identify. When someone has the following three behaviors, never go up to them stupidly and mistake the enemy for a friendly force.

Those who talk about right and wrong are right and wrong. In daily life, most of them are calm, so everyone likes to listen to gossip, especially the kind of gossip that happens around them and has strange and bizarre things. It sounds interesting enough, but these gossips, They all laughed it off after hearing it, and no one insisted on getting to the bottom of it, or used these things as leverage for others.

But a villain with a dark heart will not think so. He will regard such gossip as a kind of information collection. As long as he knows enough, he can defeat enough people. . His gossip is not the kind that is innocuous or even funny-sounding. Instead, it is gossip about other people doing wrong things or other people's secret private matters. He is not spreading gossip, but stirring up trouble, as if he is afraid that the world will not be happy. Chaos, as long as everyone's image collapses, then in the end the person who maintains the image of a saint is himself. This is a very bad bullying behavior.

Good advice is unpleasant to the ear and beneficial to action; good medicine is bitter to the mouth and beneficial to disease. Everyone knows the truth of such famous sayings, but in real life, it is still impossible not to be confused and attracted.

After clearly recognizing the helplessness and suffering of life, I became more disappointed with life and realized that I was just the most ordinary person in the vast sea of ??people. This helpless mood was temporarily relieved when someone praised me, and I began to feel that maybe I still had some characteristics. After all, someone discovered my goodness and saw my own light.

If they only praise you occasionally, it may be out of good intentions among friends to build your self-confidence. But if the other person always praises you frequently or in some inexplicable way, you will It should be noted that these exaggerated compliments will not do you any good at all. Their real purpose is to make you feel elated, distort your self-perception, and inflate you. This kind of compliment is just sugar-coated bullets.

Some people may think that this is not a palace drama. How can anyone really sow discord? This kind of thinking is too pure, and he has not yet seen the dangers of society. Sometimes sowing discord is not just for the sake of pure emotional relationships. He sees further, and what he seeks is interests.

He is trying to sow discord, so that he can stand by and reap the benefits. When you and the people around you can't get along, naturally there will be no resources to lean towards you, and he can justifiably take it away. Something that already belongs to you. And he is the only person you are good with, so when you get something good, you can only share it with him.

His purpose in sowing discord is to make you the enemy of the whole world, watching you wander around like a headless fly, and all the final gains will be in his hands. The villain with a dark heart thinks about these shady methods every day, so it is easy to reveal the truth in one or two sentences and make it easy to identify.

[Conclusion]

In real society, villains will not reveal their true colors easily. In daily life, they are still as good as your brothers. , only when his interests conflict with yours, he will show his claws. The more you show an attitude of avoiding villains, the more likely you will be noticed by the other party, thus deepening your disguise.

So don’t treat someone like a snake or a scorpion, but observe a person’s behavior with a normal mind. When you find something is wrong, quietly distance yourself instead of using radical methods to deal with it. . Staying away from a villain is the best feedback. Don't give him a chance to get close to you.

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