The workplace is not a greenhouse sprint, but a field training. The competition is not intelligence, but endurance. Competition at the same level, no one is smarter than anyone else. Both short-term survival and long-term development are required. What succeeds in the end is long-term.
Second, avoid high-frequency errors.
There are three kinds of mistakes in life: low-level mistakes; Repeated mistakes; A fatal mistake. "Seriously" can avoid low-level mistakes. "Duplicate disk" can avoid repeating mistakes. Developing the good habit of "seriously continuing" can avoid fatal mistakes at critical moments.
Third, make achievements.
Ability depends not on subjective judgment, but on results. The quality of grades proves the level of ability. The direct way to test a person's ability is to see how many results he gets.
Fourth, workplace socialization.
There are only two ways to socialize in the workplace and establish a benign relationship, one is independence, and the other is strong alliance. The workplace does not believe in tears and the weak, and there is no warmth in the workplace. We need to work hard and go our separate ways.
5. Give others face.
Face comes at a price. Some people have to spend themselves to win the attention of others in order to save face, and some people are unwilling to bow their heads and give up the chance of success in order to save face. These are all costs. People give face in order to get opportunities. There is a trade-off between face and opportunity.
Sixth, build your own contacts.
What one person needs to strive for, another person only needs a phone call to get. This is the power of connections. What is a connection? Connections are resources.
Seven, learn to fight for it.
Only by "setting an example first" will the world make way for you. There is a famous saying: If you know where to go, the world will make way for you. Actually, it's no use just knowing where to go. More importantly, go first! In fact, no one really gives way in the workplace, just because you are a pioneer, and no one wants to stop you.
Eight, do your own thing.
The stronger the ability, the more time you have to focus on yourself; The more backward you are, the more you like to fuck other people's hearts. The more you worry about others, the less you worry about yourself.
Nine, learn to communicate effectively
Management is a kind of communication. Management communication is to achieve goals by influencing others. The stupidest management is to communicate with emotions. When the superior loses his temper, he loses the influence accumulated by countless communication.
Ten, learn to control your temper.
If you are angry, wait a moment. Whenever you want to get angry, be sure to repeat what you are about to blurt out in your mind, silently count from 1 to 10, and then decide whether to say it or not. Most of the time, the rotor doesn't bother to talk about it.