People who are jealous of you are often not as good as yours.

There is a saying that you are angry with your friends because you care about your friends, and you are angry with your enemies because you are not sure that you can defeat them.

People can't defeat you, so ~ will be defeated. ~ ~ Don't do anything wrong ~ Don't be afraid of ghosts knocking at the door ~~

Insist on being yourself and don't care too much about other people's opinions. In ancient times, there was a famous painter. One day, he had a whim to draw a picture that everyone liked when he saw it. After painting, he took it to the market for exhibition. Imitate Qin Xianglu in the Spring and Autumn Period? When compiling Lu's Spring and Autumn Annals, he put a pen next to the painting, with a note: Every viewer, if he thinks there is still room for revision, please mark the corresponding place.

The result surprised the famous painter, because he found that the whole picture was covered with marks-in fact, there was not a single painting that was not criticized. The painter was puzzled that he wouldn't be criticized so much for his own strength, so he began to doubt his ability. After thinking hard, the painter decided to try another way. So, he drew the same picture again, and then he still took it to the market for exhibition. The difference is that this time, what he wants every viewer to point out is no longer that the painting is poor or inappropriate, but that he wants every viewer to admit it. Mark the wonderful places. The result shocked the painter again. He also felt very puzzled-all the places that had been denied and accused were now marked, but this time it was a sign of praise.

Finally, the painter said with emotion, "Now I finally understand a secret, that is, I should stick to my own ideas at all times and don't care too much about other people's opinions. Because other people's views are always other people's views, there will be criticism when there is praise, and no one can satisfy everyone. It is important to have your own opinion. "

If a person's actions depend entirely on others' opinions, he will lose himself and become a slave to others' wishes. Please stick to your opinion, and don't let others' suggestions take the place of your opinion! Go your own way? Let others talk! Being influenced by others, not knowing how to stick to one's own position is doomed to no achievement, but only those who stand firm will succeed.

For everyone, we should have our own opinions on everything, and don't care too much about other people's opinions. In the face of two-way or even multi-way choices, the decision is always in our own hands. Maybe sometimes our own choices are not the best, but this is life. Let yourself be the helm, even if the ship is a little bumpy in our life, we will reach the other side of our life in the joy of sailing. If you always change yourself because of other people's opinions, you will live more and more without yourself. If you want to achieve the ultimate goal, you can't give up on yourself. You have to walk this road by yourself. Giving up on yourself will not only make you lose your achievements? Give yourself a chance, and your life will lose its meaning.