1. What are the poems about "hardness and softness"

1. If life is just like the first meeting, why is the autumn wind sad to draw a fan. ____Nalan Xingde's "Mulan Ci·Naigu Jue Jue Ci Cambodian Friends"

2. The flowers drift by themselves and the water flows by itself. One kind of lovesickness, two places of idle sorrow. ____Li Qingzhao's "A Cut of Plum Blossoms·The Fragrance of Red Lotus Roots and the Remaining Jade Mat in Autumn"

3. The spring breeze is so proud that horses have hoof disease, and they can see all the flowers in Chang'an in one day. ____Meng Jiao's "After Admission"

4. The west wind withered the green trees last night. Climb a tall building alone and look out to the end of the world. ____Yan Shu's "Butterflies in Love with Flowers· Chrysanthemums on the Threshold Worry about Smoke orchids Weeping Dew"

5. Huanjun Mingzhu sheds tears, wishing they could not meet again when they were not married. ____Zhang Ji's "Yin of a Jie Fu·A Letter to Master Li Sikong in Dongping"

6. Spring is late in the lonely empty courtyard, and the pear blossoms are all over the ground and the door is closed. ____Liu Fangping's "Spring Resentment"

7. Searching and searching, deserted and miserable. ____Li Qingzhao's "Slow Voice·Xun Xun Mi Mi"

8. Looking at the sky at dawn and the clouds at dusk, I miss you when I walk, and I miss you when I sit. ____Tang Yin's "A Cut of Plum Blossoms, the Pear Blossoms Are Closed in the Rain"

9. Missing you is like the full moon, whose brightness diminishes every night. ____Zhang Jiuling's "Fu comes from the king"

10. There is no way to eliminate this feeling, so I just frowned, but it was in my heart. ____Li Qingzhao's "A Cut of Plum Blossoms·The Fragrance of Red Lotus Roots and the Remaining Jade Mat in Autumn"

11. People sleep in the willow garden during the day when the wind is calm, and when people sleep in the day, the wind is still in the willow garden. ____Su Shi's "Bodhisattva Barbarian·Passionate about Xia's Boudoir"

12. Suddenly seeing the color of willows on the street, I regretted teaching my husband and son-in-law to find a title. ____Wang Changling's "Girlfriend's Grudge"

13. The sky is as cold as water at night, and I lie down to watch Altair and Vega. ____Du Mu's "Autumn Eve"

14. Chang'e should regret stealing the elixir, and her heart will be filled with blue sea and blue sky every night. ____Li Shangyin's "Chang'e"

15. The love for beauty is cut off before old age, and I sit leaning against the smoked cage till dawn. ____Bai Juyi's "Ci of the Harem"

16. When the king returns home in pregnancy, it is the time when the concubine has a broken heart. ____Li Bai's "Spring Thoughts"

17. You are as clear as road dust, and your concubine is as muddy as cement; ____Cao Zhi's "The Moon on a High Building"

18. Spring comes and autumn passes, and I miss you. As autumn passes and spring comes, information is scarce. ____Yu Xuanji's "Girlfriend's Grudge"

19. Rubbing her blue shirt and apricot-yellow skirt, she leaned against the jade railing alone and touched her sandalwood lips speechlessly. ____Qin Guan's "Nan Gezi·Fragrant Ink Wanwan Painting"

20. Thousands of sails are not the same, but the slanting light and the flowing water are long. ____Wen Tingyun "Looking to the South of the Yangtze River: Freshen Up"

21. The courtyard is a little deep, with willows piled up in smoke and countless curtains. ____Ouyang Xiu's "Die Lianhua·How Deep the Courtyard"

22. Xiaoxuan was sitting alone in a lovesick place, feeling very bored. ____Shi Xiaoyou's "Eyeful Eyes·Gloomy Clouds and Light Rain"

23. The dream of a bed of ice and silver cannot come true, the blue sky is like water and the clouds are light at night. ____Wen Tingyun's "The Resentment of Yao Se"

24. The fish book fades with time, and the candle sheds tears in the waning moon. ____Xu Can's "Bodhisattva Barbarian Autumn Boudoir"

25. The white-headed maid is here, sitting around talking about Xuanzong. ____Yuan Zhen's "The Palace"

26. He wanted to talk about palace affairs with passion, but the parrot in front did not dare to speak. ____Zhu Qingyu's "Gong Ci/Gong Zhong Ci"

27. When the people are gone, the water is empty, and the flowers are flying, and the door is ajar. ____Qin Guan's "Nan Gezi·Fragrant Ink Wanwan Painting"

28. Who can comment on the pleasures? Ecstasy under the flowers, ecstasy under the moon. ____Tang Yin's "A Cut of Plum Blossoms·The Rain Beats the Pear Blossoms and Closes the Door"

29. The drizzle dreamed of returning to the chicken plug far away, and the cold wind blew through the small building. ____Li Jing's "Breaking through the sand of Huanxi·The fragrant lotus leaves are sold out"

30. The lonely shadow pities the night forever. Yong Ye pity Gu Ying. ____Su Shi's "Bodhisattva Barbarian: Palindrome of Autumn Boudoir's Grudge"

31. The sunset is getting dusk through the screen window, and no one in the golden house can see the traces of tears. ____Liu Fangping's "Spring Resentment"

32. I don't know how far you are after we say goodbye. It's so desolate and depressing. ____Ouyang Xiu's "Jade House Spring·I don't know how far away you are after leaving"

33. I regret being a merchant's wife, and I am destined to meet a poor husband. ____Xu Zaisi's "Yangchun Song·Bride's Resentment" 2. Famous aphorisms and ancient poems about using softness to overcome strength

What does it mean to refine strength and turn it into softness around the fingers.

Lao Tzu said: "To be soft is to be strong." This is another way to success revealed by Lao Tzu. Lao Tzu said, people, people, if you keep that softness, you will become strong, strong, and powerful! Lao Tzu also said: "The weak overcomes the strong." "Weak people are born." "Weakness is the best." In weakness, I saw the lasting strength and the power of success.

Laozi Guirou elaborated on this idea many times in the book "Laozi". If we want to succeed, we must have the ability to achieve success through weakness. Don't be afraid of being weak, just be afraid that you won't be able to maintain your weakness. To soften hardness, you can win and be successful, always full of vitality.

People always hope to grow up and become strong. This is from being weak to being strong; but if strength turns into stubbornness or becomes aggressive, then the root of the disaster has been laid and the person is not far away from being a "disciple of death". If we dialectically understand and apply the concept of "guirou", it will also be of great value to modern people.

Observing all things from a philosophical perspective, Laozi discovered that when all things are alive, their shape is soft due to the nourishment of "life". However, once they "die", their shape becomes hard. , become withered. From these appearances to the deeper levels, Laozi believes: The strong are the disciples of death, the weak are the disciples of life; the strong are at the bottom, and the weak are at the top; the weakest in the world can control the hardest in the world. The book "Laozi" also said: "The soft is stronger than the strong." (Chapter 36) "The soft is stronger than the strong, and the weak is stronger than the strong." (Chapter 78) All these discussions, if you look deeper into the inside, you can see that " "Weakness" is an important category in Laozi's philosophy. It is the nature of Tao, a manifestation of the way of heaven, the truth of nature, and of course the great wisdom of life.

Why is a baby so full of life? Why is vitality so strong? Among them are the mechanisms of "softness" and "weakness". When an old person reaches the age of eighty or ninety, his bones have become stronger and his vitality has become weaker. In fact, on the surface it is "softness" and "weakness", but inside it is about the potential and potential of a kind of life. The deep layers of "softness" and "weakness" in babies contain a powerful life force.

Let’s observe some phenomena again. The hardest thing in the human body is the teeth, and the softest thing is the tongue. When people age, all the teeth fall out, but the tongue remains intact. Big trees are harder and stronger than small grass, but when tsunamis and typhoons come, big trees can be knocked down or even uprooted, while small grass remains the same. A strong earthquake came. Some high-rise buildings collapsed, but some small bungalows were safe and sound. Water is the weakest and stone is hard, but water droplets can penetrate solid stone. The ants are so weak that they are insignificant, and the dam is so strong that it can compete with the torrential floods, but the weak ants can cause the dam to burst thousands of miles away. The air is the weakest, but it is pervasive. If the air is not flowing and the silence is extreme, it can corrode copper and iron that have lasted for thousands of years, and the beams and columns can be rotten; once the air is flowing to the extreme, it can fly sand and stones, and uproot houses and move hills.

And so on, countless common phenomena like this were captured by Laozi’s sensitive mind, although the truth behind it is very complicated, such as life cycle issues, object movement issues, and the environment. questions and so on, but he extracted and refined it into a philosophy, a kind of wisdom of life, which is very enlightening. Lao Tzu said: "Those who are strong will die." He therefore wants people to learn to use softness to overcome hardness, and there is firmness in softness. Steel can be tempered a hundred times, and it is a kind of steel that becomes soft around the fingers. Our general concept of educating people since ancient times is: people must be strong, strong, and tenacious. This is good, but I remind people: be weak. This is a great wisdom. Of course, for this kind of great wisdom, you have to apply it vividly and treat it dialectically. If you dive into a blind alley, it is not the wisdom of Lao Tzu. For example, one of the important ones is that Lao Tzu teaches you to find the lasting driving force of life in weakness, experience it bit by bit, step by step, layer by layer, to accumulate energy, experience, and wisdom, and finally achieve success. 3. Sentences about softness

1. Because of action, there is gain. Youth is meeting the seven selves. One is bright, one is sad, one is gorgeous, one is adventurous, one is stubborn, one is soft, and the last one is growing. Sometimes, growth is not a process, but happens in an instant. ..

2. .We cannot predict the future path, so we have to concentrate on taking every step. What is going to happen will happen, whether you are anxious about it or not. Move forward, look forward, life is that simple. Every strong person has a soft heart, correct his attitude and be gentle.

3. Xiaoping, you held hands gently, in the soft time; you met me, when you were young and smart, I didn’t even understand; you were as clear as water, with bright eyes; your long hair hung lightly, like Loulan girl who came here 500 years ago; you often listen to me telling stories and talking about the not-so-distant future, and listen carefully.