Recently, a star was photographed by a weekly magazine having an affair with a skinny long-haired girl. He himself did not deny it. When the reporter visited her husband for the first time, she said, "I have to face it with him. If he did something today, he would have to take responsibility for it himself, but because the home is ours, I can't escape." Show high EQ and strong side. As soon as the news came out, netizens also talked about it in succession. Some netizens asked: "Why can't successful men always resist temptation?" As a result, someone replied, "It's not that a successful man can't resist temptation, but that no woman will seduce an unsuccessful man." The quick reaction made me laugh in front of the computer. This reminds Cynthia of the golden sentence circulating on the Japanese internet: "A man's affair is a part-time job, and a woman's affair is a job change." It means that when a man has an affair, he usually stays married, develops steadily and outward, and will not let go of his day job, but wears several hats, stepping on his wife and mistress. When a woman has an affair, she is happy to ask for it. She simply declares to her husband that "I quit", throws in her resignation and flies away with Xiao Wang. But why do men have affairs? I want to extend the above famous words so that wives can understand them and take precautions. The so-called part-time job means that you already have a full-time job and still use your off-duty time to work part-time. Why do you have the idea of having several jobs when you have a fixed salary? There are no more than the following reasons: First, the salary is not enough, so I want to have other income. The second is to develop interest, that is, full-time job is not an ambition. It is just a choice that you have to bow to reality in order to maintain your life. If your part-time job is just in line with your own interests, you will be willing to invest, and then expect it to grow stronger and cover your daily expenses, and you will resolutely change jobs. Why do married men steal food? It has the same effect as the above motives. "Not paid enough" is like not getting enough attention from your wife, so I hope to get it from other women. This attention is all-encompassing, including love, worship, enthusiasm, seduction, praise, teasing, etc. What any man wants from the opposite sex is counted. The mistress satisfies her husband's spiritual desire in marriage, but it can't completely replace the original match, so a man will never change to a new owner. Non-interest lies in the fact that men are increasingly distracted, heartless to their wives, but they like the feeling of family. If a good mistress can also give him a baby and a home, it is likely that he will want to divorce. The above analysis is not to rationalize the affair, which is wrong, and there is nothing to talk about. If you feel that your wife doesn't care enough, or your husband finds that he has lost his mind, you should propose to communicate with the other half to let the other side know the current situation, instead of stealing food behind your back and enjoying the happiness of everyone by marriage. There is a saying: prevention is better than cure. Used in sexual relations, that is, prevention beforehand is better than repair afterwards. A married woman is both a wife and a boss. If she wants to avoid employees working part-time everywhere, she is nothing more than doing everything herself, caring for employees, with generous salary and benefits. The most important thing is to unite his centripetal force for this family. She is a happy enterprise, and her husband will be convinced for life. Is the man having an affair because he doesn't love his wife? 2. How many men have an affair? According to statistics, the cheating rate of men is 7%. It is understood that only 8% of men choose to cheat because their sexual desires are not met, while nearly half of men cheat because their psychological needs are not met. How many men have an affair Many married men said that they seldom get praise and affirmation from their wives after marriage, and they are always found fault, and they are very depressed. In addition, men were not as good at expressing their feelings as women, so their inner depression and dissatisfaction with their wives accumulated over time and eventually derailed. Therefore, in order to prevent husbands from cheating, wives should praise their husbands more and give them some worship, so that their self-esteem can be satisfied and their mood can be happy, so that the chances of husbands cheating will be greatly reduced. In fact, this has a lot to do with the last reason. Many married men said that they were always angry with their wives at home, but when they came to companies and units, their female colleagues greeted them with smiles and were respectful and polite. Second, how many men are having an affair? The divorce rate in China has been rising for 12 years. In 216, the list of the top ten divorce rates in China showed that the divorce rate in Beijing was 31%, which was the highest in the country, and now it has exceeded 5%. According to the survey data, the six main reasons for divorce between husband and wife are: the need to buy a house, bad hobbies, discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, personality disharmony, domestic violence, and the possibility of one party's derailment. In China, the cheating crowd, stay-at-home mothers and IT men have the highest cheating rate. How many men will have an affair? According to the survey, in China, 67% of cheating women are stay-at-home mothers seeking passion, followed by 13.8% of teachers, 8.6% of doctors, 7.2% of secretaries and 6.1% of designers. How many men will have affairs? IT men have the highest cheating rate, accounting for 1.6%, financial industry 8.2%, education 6.5%, doctors 4.6% and lawyers 3.8%.