First of all, we should chat, so that children can trust you and enter his world. Only a good parent-child relationship can educate children effectively.
Second, after children are willing to open their hearts with you, we should understand why children take money and for what purpose. If it is a good purpose, it means that the child is still kind, maybe it is that there is no one to guide him and he doesn't know how to get money in the right way and achieve his wish. Third, we should educate our children from an early age that they can get their own things through their own labor, and let them understand the principle that their own things are at their disposal and other things can only be taken with permission. Set a principle for the child, so that he can know what is his own, what is others', what should be taken and what should not be taken, whether at home or in front of outsiders. The premise is that you should respect the child's own rights. If it is his own toy, let him control it, and you can't deprive the child of the right to make his own decisions without authorization. For example, even if a child doesn't play with a toy at ordinary times, you can't come at home and other babies will take it out for others to play with. This is disrespectful to other people's behavior! Children are equal to us adults. When you take his things, you must ask the child if he is willing. If you are unwilling, you should guide him to discuss with her. Only in this way can your child grow up to be independent, confident, brave, not cowardly and upright.
Question 2: Why do children steal money? How can children educate you when they steal money? You ask children why they steal money and how to educate them. As an online counselor in Jieliang Psychological Counseling Room, I think this at least shows that you, as the parents of children, lack effective parent-child communication when you get along with them, which leads to you not knowing more about their psychological dynamics. It also makes children unable to understand their parents more, so that parents and children can't build a parent-child relationship of mutual trust, and it is easy for children to do things that parents think are out of line, such as stealing money. Therefore, understanding the psychological characteristics of children's physiological age and learning to communicate effectively with children are the first things you need to do when dealing with the problem of children stealing money.
question 3: how to educate a 1-year-old child to steal money? It is estimated that everyone had this experience when he was a child. At that time, it was nothing more than being beaten. But now parents can't be so educated. Communicate with him more at ordinary times. How can a child think of taking so much money? Ask if there are any people who have taught their children anything at school, tell them what they want to buy at home, or ask if they want money, but they can't take it themselves. Then keep the money secret, at least don't let him find it himself. Children should be educated slowly.
question 4: how should children be properly educated to steal money? Why do children steal money? 1. The main reason is that children have no money. 2. Children have no wrong consciousness about stealing money. 3. The concept of family education is incorrect.
question 5: how to educate children to steal (including stealing money) when they steal money from their own homes is actually a habit. That is to say, stealing money from the beginning, the child tasted the sweetness. Because stealing money can buy what she wants. One to two, the child's desire is out of control. After a child has this problem, it takes a process to get rid of it. First of all, as parents, we must not just beat and scold to solve the problem ...
Question 6: How should we educate our children when they find out that they have stolen money? At this time, parents should not get angry first, but first see what their children do with money. If it is an abnormal activity such as surfing the internet, our parents should resolutely stop it and let the children sum up and promise themselves! If it is a reasonable request, such as eating and buying school supplies, you should communicate with your children and get other people's things. You must ask others' permission and don't make your own opinions. This right thing has also become inaccurate! Distinguish the reasons and make different exchanges.
Question 7: How to educate children to make this mistake when they steal money for the first time, and resolutely let them remember that there will be a next time
Question 8: How to educate children to steal money? In fact, there are parents' reasons as well as environmental reasons for children to steal money, and his frequent friends will also affect him. Parents should not think about changing him by force. It is useless. They should find their own reasons and hope to adopt them
your question is very good! Under the current social environment and exam-oriented education mode, our children are easily infected with bad habits, such as being willful, rebellious, disobedient, dishonest, addicted to the Internet, stealing, tired of learning, and inattentive in class, especially in teenagers! The purpose of education is to change children's wrong outlook on life, values and world outlook. Although there are many ways to educate children, some people adopt tiger mother and wolf father education, saying "winning at the starting line". People's life is actually a marathon-style long-distance running process. Even if they win the starting line, how far they can run, how long they will persist and who will laugh at the end is still unknown. Therefore, the example of so-called tiger mother education by some people is not worth popularizing and imitating widely, so education will cause permanence to most children. If children are beaten for corporal punishment education, the consequences may be quite serious, and they will retaliate against the elderly parents and grandchildren in the future, so violent education is harmful! On the contrary, it is more important to cultivate children's healthy personality and optimistic spirit. If you want to fundamentally educate your children and cultivate their good interests and habits in study and life, I suggest you make them like Disciples Rules as soon as possible!
The sage teaches filial piety once and for all, believing in loving the masses, and loving the kindheartedness and having spare capacity, being filial to parents, calling on them not to slow down their parents' orders, not to be lazy, teaching them to respect their parents' responsibilities, inheriting their responsibilities in winter, and being gentle in summer ..... (Reading more will definitely improve children's sense of responsibility and inspire their wisdom). You see, this is really a "great filial piety" and a best tutor! How well written! It is catchy, easy to read and easy to teach. There are many video story teaching materials on the Internet, and there are many versions suitable for children at all stages. As a parent, as long as you are willing to encourage your child to watch with you more (this is very important, you like to watch with him, and children are naturally curious and easily influenced by others), you will definitely make your child like her. If you can work hard in real life and try your best to implement the teachings inside, why not educate your child well?
At the same time, your question involves the family education of teenagers' ideological and moral character, behavior language and academic performance, which parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. The correct guidance of parents plays a decisive role in the process of children's healthy growth education. Therefore, in daily family life, parents and children are sincerely recommended to watch the series documentary "Sage Education Changing Fate" (also known as "Disciple Rules Instructions"), which is an excellent large-scale public welfare forum for excellent Chinese traditional culture education planned and supervised by Chen Dahui. This is a very favorable free network resource about moral education and family education, which can help children feel the truth of life in a happy and grateful atmosphere, help them improve their healthy growth and study progress, understand why disasters and accidents happen, and avoid disasters. It can prescribe the right medicine for all kinds of problems in children, and it is a good treatment! There must be the answer you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for our parents and elders to learn. It is indeed a rare classic family education program! There are many wonderful case studies in this program, discussing various ways to solve children's education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free, which is of great help to improve children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion and disobedience, internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence, inattention, etc. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by some simple methods or measures, and become a filial and obedient child, but we need to carry out comprehensive and systematic family education, and we can treat both the symptoms and the root causes from the root. There are many experts, teachers and parents in this film who personally speak and report to the public with their unique experiences, which reveals that parents' educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, parents are advised to watch it with their children, and the tutoring they receive from childhood will affect their children's life, from which they will certainly get unexpected results!
There is a classic warning saying in the film: People can teach well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!
However, at present, we are facing various realities: serious lack of social integrity! All kinds of media exaggerate and misdirect, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is hard to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting less and less > >