The first group of investigation results are: goshawk: aloof and arrogant, without mass base. Sparrow: I like to gossip.
Magpie: There is no principle in speaking, and good people are serious. Crow: Love to speak ill of others.
The results of the second group are: goshawk: high professional level and strong enterprising spirit. Sparrow: Can go deep into the masses and work hard.
Magpie: Good at uniting comrades and popular with the masses. Crow: Dare to stick to principles, not afraid of offending people.
Some people are used to looking at people critically, and all they see are shortcomings; Some people are used to looking at people with appreciation, and all they see are the bright spots of others. How to treat a person directly affects the harmonious coexistence with others.
How to treat people, how to treat others, what do you think about it, or what kind of personal experience and feelings do you have? Please write an article on the topic "Look into people's eyes". Note that the content written by (1) must be within this topic; ② Self-determination; 3 style selection; 4 topic self-made; ⑤ Not less than 800 words; 6. Please do not copy.
Bai Bi still has some flaws. Zhang Long used a magnifying glass to see the advantages of others and a small mirror to see their shortcomings. ━ ━ Inscription Some people regard themselves as pearls, so they see that others are covered with mud; Some people regard themselves as dirt, so they can always see pearls in others.
Some people in life are always accusing others of their shortcomings and finding fault with others, and often feel that there is no horse in the world. In fact, it's not that others have too many shortcomings, but that we don't appreciate them. It is not that others have too few advantages, but that we lack the vision of discovery.
I. Confucius Someone asked Confucius about his disciples. Confucius said, "Yan Hui is smarter than me, Zi Gong is more eloquent than me, and Luz is braver than me." "They are all better than you. Why do they still recognize you as a teacher?" "They regard me as a teacher, not because I am more talented than them, but because I can let them better remove shortcomings and develop advantages.
This is Confucius' vision! In the face of 3,000 disciples, we can always see the brightest bright spot, although everyone has various shortcomings. Perhaps it is this kind of vision that leads to the story of "a threesome, there must be a teacher" and the beautiful talk of "Confucius learns from others".
When you see flaws, you can see white jade more, so the sage's thoughts are still evergreen after thousands of years. Second, Liu Bei cares about one thing, two things, three things ... A "countryman" who plows Nanyang and a scholar who is "wet behind the ears" dare to let a sage run around like this! Is he too arrogant? Why not send someone to tie him up? Don't! Wolong, this is an ordinary scholar! In Liu Bei's eyes, Kong Ming is not a savage from humble origins, nor an arrogant madman, but a very talented person, a learned scholar, and a strategist who strategizes and wins thousands of miles.
He saw this, so he visited the thatched cottage and urged Kong Ming to come out of the mountain! So there was the miracle of burning Chibi and the great cause of the world. "I made Kong Ming feel like a duck to water!" Ma Jiajue was poisoned by his roommate because of a joke.
What's the hurry? Why only see the cynicism of others but not the warmth of classmates? Why do you only see the vitriol of others but not the generosity of others? The painful lesson is cast into a sentence: when you see a little flaw, don't forget that shiny white jade! No one is perfect. When you see a person, please appreciate the beautiful jade on him first, and then judge his tiny shortcomings. Give yourself a pair of discerning eyes. Give me a pair of discerning eyes, let me see clearly, clearly and see the real world. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━947
A butterfly, some people like it when they see its swaying dance, and some people suddenly hate it because they know it is a pest. In life, some people only see the shortcomings of others, so there is no glory in their eyes and darkness everywhere; Moreover, most people often look at others with appreciation and always find the bright spots in others. Their life is full of sunshine and flowers.
Cao Cao, a fierce man, was reviled by thousands of people for saying, "I would rather let the world bear me than the world bear me", and praised Du Fu as a poet because of the feeling that "a martyr is in his twilight years and a strong man has his wrist broken". How many people are saddened by his "begging for mercy" before the emperor, and how many people are relieved by his "owning a vast building and sheltering all the poor people in the world". There is not enough gold, and no one is perfect. Appreciate others with your eyes.
The failure of others does not mean that you have not struggled. Maybe it's just a mistake. If we tolerate a mistake of others with a tolerant attitude, others will feel warm and enhance their self-confidence, and we will be less eyesore, more surprises, less thorn in our flesh and more wonderful ourselves. Please don't forget how enthusiastically he extended a helping hand when you were disgusted by seeing others "living beyond their means" and when you were sad.
Give yourself a pair of discerning eyes and let yourself see things more objectively and fairly. If you are used to seeing people critically, please learn to appreciate them.
Appreciate every sweet smile and warm concern of others, and you will feel a little warmth seeping into your heart. It turns out that my mother's nagging every day is full of concern for myself, my father's "study hard" contains infinite expectations for himself, and the teacher's tireless hope is to be more perfect.
Accustomed to feeling the beauty of flowers and leaves, feeling the beauty of every life, you will add a lot of warmth to your life. If you are used to looking at people with appreciation, you should also learn to be picky.
Not everyone is perfect. If you read a little coldness from your smile, you may also feel a little sophistication from your concern. Don't make the same mistake as Zhu Gekongming and end up with a "painful street pavilion", lest you regret it! Give yourself a pair of discerning eyes, appreciate the golden bridge of friendship, give others a critical and fair evaluation and give yourself an answer. Take off your colored glasses and look at people in a different way.
Because a discerning person is a philosophy and great wisdom of being a man. Diary of Red Maple June 65438+10/October 65438+February Tuesday, 2004, I wandered lonely on the campus path, looking at the vibrant red maple in front of the teaching building, and couldn't help sighing.
2. The writing material is 1. Love is in dribs and drabs: you can write a small thing between you and your parents. For example, when you watch TV, you say, "That MM sweater is so beautiful ~ ~". As a result, your mother listened. After a while, you came home and found a brand-new sweater beside the bed. You look familiar, and it suddenly occurs to you that this is a TV series you have seen.
2. Unforgettable Spring Festival ... Positive: the joy of the Spring Festival, the relaxation after a busy year, the joy of reunion with family, the new feelings that the changes in the Spring Festival have given you, and so on; Negative: it can be ironic, such as giving lucky money, paying New Year's greetings-just a formality, shooting guns-having an accident, thinking about having a good rest, all kinds of things make you more tired than going to work, and it is difficult to buy tickets when you go home for a holiday, and so on.
3. Courage ... There are too many subjects to introduce ... Many things need courage, even if it is the first time to raise your hand to answer questions in class. I remember the first time I was an assistant to a teacher and told a student like me about the history of rock and roll development. My hands are shaking, my legs are shaking, and even my voice is shaking a little, but it will be fine after 5 minutes, and then it will be completed smoothly. And I was scared when I first came on stage. It takes courage to introduce you. You can find a little thing to write in combination with your own life and study. You can write about your own ideological struggle-but don't exaggerate. You can write about others' reactions and performances when you make decisions, your sense of accomplishment after you finish things, and your regrets and feelings after you give up. There are many subjects.
4. Being alive means that as long as you live in this material world and still have vitality or living matter, you won't stop activities (sports). Personally, I think there seems to be a famous saying that there is hope when breathing. You should write struggle, struggle and progress. Of course, this is very positive. If it is negative, write it out and criticize it. It should not be difficult to understand the ancients' "life without interest" as life without rest, and then compare it with "enjoying life".
5. My favorite famous saying: There is a sentence in The Count of Monte Cristo that I like very much: "Breathe and there is hope." Although this sentence is simple, it is classic and tells the most basic truth, especially when a person loses confidence or even despair, which is very enlightening. Because you are still alive, you have not lost your most basic and main weapon-your life. As long as life is still there, what is impossible? Maybe you will spend more time trying than others, but as long as you persist, there is hope. I have always regarded this sentence as my motto, because I have spoken the most profound truth in the simplest language. Don't give up unless the fire of life goes out.
6. Ideal confusion. Everyone has his childhood dreams. Some people want to be scientists, while others want to be soldiers. You must have your own childhood dreams. When reality is killing your ideal and you have to give up, will you be confused?
7. Learn in the game. The voice against not letting children play games. As long as you can control your time, appropriate games can relax your body and mind and activate your brain. In fact, I was holding an English dictionary at that time, and I broke through the Great Navigation Age 3 English Edition, and my English level improved rapidly.
8. Warm winter. The material looks warm, but it should be written that it is particularly warm this winter because of the deterioration of the environment, which leads to the greenhouse effect, and there is little rainfall and snowfall, so there is a large area of drought.
9. Through your black hair, my hand stewed kelp pig's feet ... As an introduction, you can consider writing some common expressions of spoof or misinterpretation-idioms, proverbs, song titles, etc.
3. Composition material 10 for you 15 ● The bits and pieces of history are like sand shells scattered on the vast beach. I walked quietly, greedily looking at these glittering and precious treasures, and sometimes I picked up one or two shells that touched my heart and collected them as a souvenir with a feeling of love and gratitude.
● History is a mirror. If Shang Zhouwang can speak out and listen to his advice, why did he end up in flames? If Cai Huangong listened to Bian Que with an open mind, why did he die of a terminal illness? If Xiang Yu had listened to the advice and accepted it, why did he end up ashamed to meet his elders in Jiangdong and commit suicide in Wujiang? On the other hand, if Qi Weiwang didn't take Zou Ji's advice, how could he achieve the result of "defeating the imperial court"? If Emperor Taizong didn't take Wei Zhi's advice, how could it lead to the situation of "Zhenguan rule"? To sum up, it is not difficult to see that those who are good at accepting people's words are prosperous; If you don't accept what others say, you will die.
● Throughout the ages, successful people. Are those who have retired from the abyss and formed a net.
If Columbus is just a "fish in the forest", how can he have a feat of discovering the new continent without breaking the wind and waves and sailing? If Copernicus was just a "fish in the forest" instead of painstakingly observing and creating new theories, how could he possibly write the masterpiece "The Movement of Celestial Bodies"? If it's just a "fish in the forest" instead of opening the Silk Road, how can money connect the western regions with that handsome saddle horse? How can Jian Zhen be romantic in the East China Sea if it is just a "fish in the forest" and does not open up sea routes? ("Speaking and Doing") ● The true essence of the heart should be like this. Success, like the moonlight shining on the flowers, the deep pool is slightly blue, no matter good or bad, no matter the detachment of success or failure, it is a post station with a whip and a horse, climbing high and looking far; Defeated, still dripping water wears away the stone and merges into the sea. There is a kind of pride that is poor and strong and does not fall into the blue sky. There is a kind of stubbornness of "being a self-taught person and constantly striving for self-improvement".
Rong, Jiangshan is still the same, the painting style is still the same, just like the sea and mountains, familiar with the years, flashy and arrogant; Bear the burden of humiliation, Han Xin, snow pine, like a fairy with feathers, know how to take a step back and broaden their horizons, and refuse to give up eating because of choking. Don't give up hope, hope makes people face up to difficulties and failures.
Difficulties and failures are not terrible. The terrible thing is that a person loses the hope and courage to fight against them. Qu Yuan is patriotic, "seeking up and down"; Once the state of Chu perished, it lost hope, leaving only the desperate road of jumping into the Miluo River.
Don't give up hope, hope to make people look forward to a bright future. With hope, there will be yearning for the future and the pursuit of a better life.
Heine, a German poet, wrote emotionally in a poem: "Everything plundered in winter will be returned to you in the new year." Don't give up hope, hope will increase people's motivation.
At all times and in all countries, how many people with lofty ideals have made unremitting efforts to realize their ideals. Beethoven, who was blind and deaf in both ears, uttered the heroic words of "I want to seize the throat of fate" and wrote the immortal "hero" movement.
A wisp of fragrance is free and easy, be true to yourself and show nobility and pride, which is the soul of Tao Qian's five poems! A river spring water, a sad song, be true to yourself, that's Wen Tianxiang's swan song! A page of history is a mirror, be true to yourself and show rationality and loyalty. This is Li Sao in Qu Yuan's water! How can I thank you? When I came to you, I wanted to leave a grass, but you gave me the whole green space; I wanted to have a lotus, but you gave me the whole lotus pond; I wanted to collect a red leaf, but you gave me the whole maple forest; I wanted to kiss a snowflake, but you gave me the whole snowfield; I wanted to taste a kumquat, but you gave me the whole orchard; I wanted to pick up a bunch of ears of rice, but you gave me the whole granary; I wanted to pick a bunch of chrysanthemums, but you gave me the whole garden. ● Love is the wind. "It's good for the poor to hear the wind."
Love is rain, "Love peony contains spring tears". Love is soil, you can dig it out by bending down. Which soil has no blood and sweat of ancestors and no green dream of future people? Love is a cloud. When you look up, you can see one. Which cloud has not seen the yearning of children and the memory of old people? Because of love, we are grateful, because of love, we are full of grief and indignation; Because of love, we are willing to be indifferent to quiet days; Because of our love, we dare to wear boots to meet them.
A life of humiliation, life is love; Deserve the righteousness above family, death is love; Clear and refreshing, live seriously, living is not love! 1. Gone days are like withered leaves and petals. What disappears is the innocence and romance of youth. I don't remember how much rain is floating on my chest and the wind is ringing in my ears. I only know that vicissitudes of life have already penetrated my heart and climbed up my face.
A person and the pursuit of peers, ups and downs are companions, and hardships are also companions. 2. Balzac said: "Misfortune is the ladder of genius, the baptism of believers, and the bottomless abyss of the weak."
After the storm, it will be the color of Tianshui where seagulls swim; Out of the thorns, the road ahead is covered with flowers; Climbing to the top of the mountain, there is a cloud of sky and mountains under your feet. In this world, a star falls, the starry sky cannot be dimmed, a flower withers, and the whole spring cannot be deserted.
Try your best to get through every level of life, and don't give up easily no matter what difficulties you encounter. Standing on the coast of history, we can trace back to the ditch of history: 3. Suffering is the stepping stone of genius, the wealth of capable people and the abyss of success for the weak; It is a milestone for those who never slack off, a burden for those who are complacent, and a disaster for those who don't make progress; For ambitious people, it is a ladder to climb up, and for ambitious people, it is the glory of life; There is no abyss for those who have no ambition.
For those who work hard, reward; For the cultivator, harvest; For proud people, this is just a passing sight; For those who have lofty goals, stop at a small station; For the strugglers, a lighthouse; For lazy people, a beautiful dream; For those who strive hard, another arduous journey has begun; For the contented, the peak of happiness; For a loser, an unreachable dream. 4. Pain is groping in the dark, and the road ahead is bumpy; Pain is a kind of sadness that no one understands, and it is helpless in the face of all setbacks; Pain is the deepest torture of the soul, and it cannot be confessed without tears; .
4. check the information. The composition teacher arranged for us to check the sketch information.
On Sunday, my father and I went to the bookstore to look for information. First, we looked together, but we couldn't find many books. Later, my father asked us to look separately.
How time flies! After more than an hour, we still got nothing. Dad said, "Let's go home and surf the Internet!" " When I got home, my father asked me to check myself, and he taught me.
I didn't know where to start at first, so my father told me step by step. But even if he doesn't do it, I can't find it. Sweating with anxiety, I said to my father, "Isn't it much faster for you to help me check?" Dad said, "Don't worry too much. I'll check it for you soon. " .
However, you can't use the computer to look up information. What will you do if I'm not with you? "oh! Only then did I understand my father's good intentions. He taught me how to use the computer. Finally, under the guidance of my father, I not only found the information about sketching by myself, but also learned how to find the information by computer.
5. Who will help me write my composition? Will give good grades. One day, Xiao Fang went to the school reading room and borrowed the book 100,000 Why. When she took it home, she found a few pages inside a little broken. If she doesn't mend it, she may fall and become incomplete. If she does, her classmates may think that she has broken the book. What should I do? Just then, my father saw Xiao Fang in a daze and went over and asked, "What's the matter?" Xiao Fang told dad everything. Dad thought about it and said to her, "Don't worry, Xiao Fang. Listen to dad telling stories. Once upon a time, there was a scholar whose family was very poor. He often borrows books from others to broaden his knowledge. Once, he borrowed a book from a man. When he got home, he found that several pages of the book were a little broken. He thought: If I don't mend the book, I may degenerate and become incomplete. If I revise this book, I may give people a misunderstanding. What should I do? After a long time, he saw a few words written on a wall: "Those who are clear will clear themselves", so he patched up the book regardless of the willy-nilly. A few days later, the scholar returned the book to the man. When the man saw that his book was revised by scholars, he thanked the scholars. It turned out that the book was damaged by that man. Do you know how to do it? " Later, Xiao Fang happily mended the book. A few days later, when Xiao Fang returned the book to the reading room, he was praised by the teacher.
From then on, Xiao Fang understood an important truth: as long as you do one thing right, you don't have to think about what others think, because-the Qing dynasty is self-cleaning.
6. How to look at the composition material It is generally believed that the material is the original material of literature and art, that is, the real life phenomenon and the people who have not been summarized and refined in life. Once the "material" enters the article, it becomes a "theme" and constitutes the material of literary and artistic works.
Simply put, the composition material is the composition material. There is a process in the collection and arrangement of composition materials. The material of the composition includes a wide range, such as interview records, scenes, atmosphere, sounds (audio and video recordings), pictures, sketches (sketches), oral materials, files, historical documents and so on. The material of the composition should be exhausted. Therefore, we should form a good habit of collecting composition materials. Be a person with a conscience in life.
Material can be accumulated from life, reading and reciting.
7. Ask for some classic materials and paragraphs to write. It is best to describe all kinds of characters directly. 1. Youth songs are picturesque, like clouds and water, and infatuated. Youth songs don't forget homesickness, friends, and you at the same table. The song of youth evokes the childlike innocence of youth, shuttles through the snow and accumulates on the grass. Saxophone's "Going Home" reminds people of distant worries. Song of Youth tells the story of youth, and an affectionate "talk" collides with the budding heart of youth. "Song of Youth" is full of tender feelings of youth, and it is beautiful because of affection. 2. Time is passing and we are growing. Youth is sometimes confused and sometimes degenerates. We must understand that youth is not romantic. It is a stage of life, the process of life gradually maturing, and the beginning of our dedication. So we should have a good start, cherish this unique youth and strive to realize its due value. Although it is hard to buy, it can give us a great new socialist cause indefinitely. Compared with today's youth, "youth" life is indeed full of "cruelty". However, the attitude of "youth" was so high: Yang Mo's "youth" was rebellious. Although white terror is full of the corners of youth, full of dangers, and beautiful life may be suspended at any time, the enthusiastic Song of Youth has never stopped; Wang Meng's "youth" is * * *, and constant mental excitement is the characteristic of that generation of young people. Even if their life is only radish, cabbage and tofu, their clothes are either black or gray, but these can't stop the cry of "Long live youth". 4. If you say that life is like a dream, it is only because you live in a dream; If you say that youth is a mystery, it is only because you don't understand the meaning of youth. Youth is a part of life. Only by integrating into life can you understand the true meaning of youth. Youth is not a gorgeous coat, life is not full of flowers, and the smile of youth is often mixed with tears. Is a few setbacks the whole of life? Out of the shadow of failure, the world will become a better place. Not all loss means no more possession. When you sigh that the sun is setting, the sunrise is rising from behind you. We may not be able to make ourselves perfect ... 5. Youth is a flower, beautiful but easy to fade. If you don't take care of it, it will wither before it is beautiful. Youth is rain, hazy but affectionate. If we don't grasp it, it will turn into tears and break when we are sad. Youth is the wind, which comes in a hurry and goes in a hurry. If you don't stay, you will pass away inadvertently and drift away mercilessly. Youth is hope, even if someone fails, there will still be a firm and persistent dream; Youth is freedom. If you want to sing, you can sing forever. If you want to cry, cry tragically. Youth is a kind of load, and people can't find a corner to rest in the cycle of giving; Youth is a struggle. Only when people know how to climb can they reach the Range Rover and struggle to succeed. Youth is an unrepentant road. If you leave, you can't go back. Youth is a heavy book, which can be filled with happiness and loneliness, but it can't stay on the title page because of waiting.