It is indeed right for others to lend them a helping hand when they are in trouble. But to think clearly about the consequences, you can't take everything unconditionally, no matter who he is.
if there is a serious accident in the company, and the superior comes to investigate the responsibility, the person in charge says to the people below: Just say that I was away that day, and you made your own decisions. As long as I am exempt from punishment, I have my own way to protect you.
The subordinates actually agreed. It is very dangerous to take the fall for the boss. Everyone's responsibility * * * comes together, and everyone should bear their own share. Take the fall for your superiors. If you are severely punished, it will be too late to regret it.
In order to nip in the bud, as a subordinate, you should distinguish the responsibilities of your work at ordinary times, do your own thing, and don't have the psychology of taking the blame for your boss. There will always be some benefits in the future. The benefits should be won aboveboard, and it is neither honorable nor economical to take the blame for it. Perhaps the benefits that the superior can give you are only 1% compared with the damage that you have suffered.
So, if someone asks you to share the responsibility for him, you must make clear the nature of this responsibility, and you must not promise casually, lest you regret it.
2. Prevent others from setting traps
Some colleagues often ask you for advice. They take your advice on the surface. Act according to your wishes, but in fact you want to be irresponsible at all. This kind of people must be vigilant and try not to give them any advice. The characteristic is that when they take the initiative to ask your opinion on a certain problem and ask you how to arrange a certain job and how to do something, they should pay attention to this trap.
If you are surrounded by such irresponsible people who are good at shirking their responsibilities and entrust others too much, you must not be afraid of losing face. No matter how sincere and humble you are in the face of entreaties or even orders, you should be calm and stay out of the way. You can find out all kinds of reasons to refuse in a winding way to prevent the other party from beating a rake.
3. Don't be used as a gun by others
Everyone who is used as a gun has one fatal weakness or another. Or lack of analytical ability, poor ability to distinguish right from wrong, or poor resistance, confused by false phenomena, and thus used by people with ulterior motives, it is too late to regret. And those who are in the active position (those who borrow guns) often hide in the dark, manipulate or command these people who are guns, and carry out every process according to their predetermined instructions. As a result, people who borrow guns often use their hands and mouths as guns to do things that they desperately want to do but are inconvenient to show their faces, and say what they want to say but are inconvenient to stand in the light, which not only protects themselves, but also achieves their goals, killing two birds with one stone. There are too many things that others are used as guns on the issues of unit housing distribution, job title evaluation, promotion and further study abroad.
4. Don't meddle
To meddle is to meddle in things that others don't need your attention. As the saying goes: meddling is not in life, some people like to meddle. The biggest difference between meddling and what you are in charge of is that the other party is willing to accept it differently. There is an old saying in China: Every man sweeps his own snow, but many times he thinks it is selfish, but there is a reasonable side to being a man.
I have a friend who is warm and cheerful, and is keen on solving family disputes for others. As soon as I hear that someone in my circle of friends has something to do, I go to others to lobby, which makes people ignore her, and neither does it. It's often kindness that doesn't help
in our life. Many people are driven by blind enthusiasm. I don't know what they should and shouldn't care about at all. They are so enthusiastic that they are often afraid to avoid them.