"She is the most fascinating oriental beauty I have ever seen in my life," Ms. Wen Jieruo, Mr. Xiao Qian's wife, said in "Impressions of Lin Huiyin".

Reading a book in the morning, Lin Huiyin’s charm from the inside out makes people stop in his tracks. Holding the book and looking at it. But I can't comment on what kind of person she is yet, but from her poems and her stories, I read a lot of things that I should learn and learn from at my age.

How to be a woman like her?

It is said that a poor man raises his son and a rich daughter raises his daughter. This is true. The reason why Lin Huiyin is a little more beautiful in appearance than the women of that era is more because of her elegance and generosity reflected in her spiritual wealth.

Her family education as a child and her hard study to develop her good habits and attitude towards others are worthy of learning by more people in modern times.

In today's society, both parents are busy with work, and the only obligation is to give birth to children, but it is the elderly parents who educate them. But do you understand that there is a gap and generation gap between your parents’ era and now. Their suffering becomes double love for their children. So, because the children are young, they dote on them, and because they do not take good care of young people, they give them a lot of money. They always think that this is love for them. However, as time goes by, when the children grow up, they only think that money is love, and there is no money. Not love.

Therefore, regardless of boys or girls, we should pay more attention to spiritual culture and cultivate children's interests and hobbies on the basis of material care.

What is romance? It's just a little lubricant added to ordinary life.

For example, two people who are busy at work come home from get off work. The wife puts on her apron and is cooking delicious meals in the kitchen. The husband just comes out with the red wine he has collected for several years and lights candles to create the atmosphere of a candlelight dinner. The atmosphere, even though both of them were out of breath due to busy work that day.

But let me ask: Who would cry in such an environment?

Early in the morning, everyone raised their glasses and started drinking along with the relaxing and slightly beautiful dance music.

Most romantic people are also people who can arrange their own time, adjust their emotions reasonably, and have temperament.

They will dress appropriately on different occasions and speak meaningfully. Read more books, practice calligraphy more, and cultivate your own fun, so that you can be yourself in the boring life and work, and please your kind and lovely soul.

"A serious attitude is a process, and what you pay will not be sacrifices. If you insist on facing your life seriously, you will be the most beautiful woman." It is sung in the song "Serious Women are the Happiest".

And Lin Huiyin is really the person who expresses this seriousness vividly. As for writing poetry, as for the construction career...

Isn't there ever a time when she is unhappy? Does she never complain? Her love life has always attracted people's attention, with Liang Sicheng, Jin Yuelin, and Xu Zhimo...

She is a serious woman. She travels all over the country, conducts inspections on foot, climbs beams and pillars, and faces Although he lived a life of refuge and was plagued by illness for several years, he never left the academic field of architecture with his tenacious perseverance. This serious attitude of not admitting defeat is worth learning from our modern women who lack the ability to autonomously.

She is enthusiastic and her conversation is comforting.

Develop good habits, be enthusiastic towards friends, be polite and generous in dealing with others. Understand and learn the communication mottos of the times, greet the known or unknown life with enthusiasm, be sincere, positive and optimistic.

General MacArthur said, "Without enthusiasm, the soul will be damaged." Therefore, we can see the importance of enthusiasm.

A good attitude helps to adjust one's own shortcomings in time and grow stronger in the face of adversity. Nine times out of ten things in life will be unsatisfactory, and no one will have smooth sailing. No matter how unsatisfactory things are, there is always a solution, and blindly avoiding them will be a big mistake.

Learn to adjust yourself, accept all challenges, and usher in a new life.

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The cover of the book is an obvious statement: "The level of woman you want to be depends on your wisdom and cultivation." Learn a little bit, and one day If you understand a little bit, it won't be a problem what kind of person you want to be.