Zhang Ailing, who is so transparent to the world and love, is humble to the dust in her marriage with Hu Lancheng.
Hu Lancheng is not only a heinous traitor, but also a prodigal son.
Shortly after he married Zhang Ailing, he and two of a kind worked as nurses outside. He completely ignored Zhang Ailing's feelings and even told Zhang Ailing frankly that he was going to marry this nurse.
What is even more incredible is that Zhang Ailing, who dares to love and hate, tolerates the existence of nurses, and even worries that her husband is not doing well outside, and helps him with her own manuscript fee.
Such humbleness and forbearance not only didn't make Hu Lancheng change his mind, but he even went one step further and continued to drink outside, completely forgetting that his legally married wife was Zhang Ailing.
Whether it is marriage or love, when two people pay more and more unequal, the balance of this relationship will unconsciously tilt.
Women must be strong if they want to win love and respect in marriage. If she can't be your shelter, she will be the one who brings you a big storm. You must examine your relationship carefully.
There are many things in this world that can't be rewarded by your efforts. It is possible that most of your efforts are in vain, and so are your feelings.
For someone who doesn't love you or care about you, no matter how much you pay, it will only be a waste in the end. Modesty in love is not the expression of love, but the expression of inferiority. Healthy love should be equal and realized by two people.
First, humble love will devour your beauty and positive energy.
Look, Kangxi is here. He likes little S best. She is not only petite and lovely, but also humorous.
All the guests who have been on this program, no matter how stiff and shy, can gradually relax in her words, as if Xiao S always has the ability to bring happiness to others.
It is precisely because of the existence of the small S that the ratings of the program "Kangxi Comes" have always topped the list. Xiao S has won the admiration of many fans for her sharp tongue and wisdom, and she is also very decent on the topic of relationship between men and women, always allowing guests to tell some details about their relationship with their partners.
Almost everyone thinks that a woman who combines beauty and talent like Xiao S will have a happy marriage.
However, the reality is not satisfactory. She married Xu Yajun for more than ten years and gave birth to three daughters for him. However, Xu Yajun never took her seriously, which is still a constant gossip.
What is even more ridiculous is that in the eyes of everyone, the unrestrained little S stands up again and again to clarify those tidbits for her husband.
In fact, we all know that this marriage is only maintained by Xiao S's own compromise. In fact, Xiao S himself is exhausted because of this marriage, and he is no longer cheerful and lively.
In a live video, Xiao S had a large piece of blood on her forehead, which she tried to cover up and fans expressed concern. At this time, the daughter of Xiao S jumped out next to her. Mom, does it still hurt where dad hit you? ?
It is such a man with a bad record that Xiao S still protects him by hurting himself.
Did such humble love get her husband's heartache? Not exactly.
On the contrary, it is precisely because of repeated concessions and grievances that women trapped in such a situation gradually lost their former beauty.
Second, how to understand? Love yourself first? What about this sentence?
Every time a reader comes to me for advice, I feel that I love too much in my feelings and I don't know how to deal with it. I always answer that I love myself first.
How to understand this sentence? In fact, the meaning is very simple, that is, you should have enough confidence and confidence in your feelings, and don't deny yourself from the heart. If you look down on yourself, how can you expect others to cherish you?
Some people are eager to get some sense of security in a relationship because they lack love since childhood. Just like Xiao S was born in a single-parent family, she can understand the pain of broken family, so she gives in again and again.
Love makes a person feel inferior subconsciously, which is normal, but if you don't overcome this psychology and indulge in this relationship blindly, it will only make you more and more humble.
Third, stop loss in time and don't let your precious love become cheap.
In marriage, both husband and wife have many minor shortcomings, and they can work together over time, but some principled problems cannot be tolerated constantly, not tolerated but tolerated.
Although both Zhang Ailing and Xiao S have their own careers and talents, they are still frustrated in love, not because they are not independent enough, but because they take the initiative to make love cheap.
When the other person thinks that your love is very cheap, naturally he won't cherish it.
Women should not only have their own capital and talent, but also have an independent heart, a sense of timely stop loss, and the courage to leave inappropriate people.